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larue |
Posted - 11/11/2008 : 10:44:44 AM Ilove to be NUDE and I can do it anywhere BUTTTTTTTTTT my wife cant stand to be nude evevn if it's in front of me. Does anyone else have this problem with thier spause ? Any suggestions. |
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soonbnude |
Posted - 12/24/2018 : 4:22:40 PM I guess you need to be very very careful doing some of those tasks. An awkward injury and a visit to A & E is going to cause lots of questions.
Back to the original topic, my wife is not so keen but has accepted me and I think is coming around. I don't impose my views, I have explained them and my opinions but I don't hassle her about joining me. She is more comfortable about me and talks with me in my sunning spot at the end of a day or on week-ends having a drink. A neighbour has been visiting and she did not hassle me to get dressed. I think it takes time for some and patience for the rest of us.
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Nude in AK |
Posted - 12/19/2018 : 1:48:00 PM This might not be the right place to go with this but...here goes. How does one respond to non-nudist on our life style. In talking with some, they ask how one can do daily stuff while being nude. My response has been that one may need to be a little more careful, but there are few things that I can not do nude. I like working in the yard/garden, washing vehicles, doing some maintenance on vehicles, working in my shop, build things (houses/green houses) running heavy equipment are just some of the things that I do. Add in target shooting, splitting fire wood, taking long walks and or hikes and add in driving when possible. Some seemed surprise at what I will/have done. One thing that I draw the line on is cutting fire wood with a chain saw! For this I like to have a little protection! I remember a while back that FireProf posted about driving nude and how much better he drove! Guess that goes along with not wanting to get pulled over by LEO's! I can understand that. |
ROB g |
Posted - 09/01/2015 : 6:16:49 PM I also got lucky when I met my now wife. The fact we both like to be nude was a topic we discussed the very first time we talked. We got hooked on resorts on our first visit. The only thing now is we have a hard time getting dressed to leave. But we're to young to retire and live to far away to join a resort. |
FireProf |
Posted - 08/30/2015 : 9:52:14 PM I'm pretty lucky, I guess (truly ... I know how lucky I am). Though my wife uses different wording ... her take is ... "being dressed at home just doesn't feel right!" I take that as being clothed at home isn't normal because ... we are always naked here at home, like now.
We're not different than most nudists. We have those that don't get nudism, don't understand it and no matter what you tell them, it's all about sex and certainly many who just don't know why you'd be naked in your home. Doesn't make sense to us progressive thinking bunch!
What I don't understand is the terms some of these people use and attribute their use of some of these words, about nudism, as immaturity and self embarrassment. Weird, gross, nasty, naughty, creepy ... I think they are not only afraid of it but some of them probably have some scary skeletons in their closet!
Loves being naked. Plays well with others! |
Warmskin |
Posted - 08/29/2015 : 6:41:17 PM I had to laugh, Nude in AK, at how being nude just isn't natural!! To us, it's as natural as one can be. Conditioned thinking is a powerful mind force. I like to be free of it, and that is why I'm a naturist. Yet, we have to patient and loving towards those who are phobic about the human body. We are the only life form on earth who is afraid of our body.
“I rise early almost every morning and sit in my chamber, without any clothes whatever, half an hour or an hour, according to the season, either reading or writing.” Ben Franklin
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Nude in AK |
Posted - 08/22/2015 : 10:15:55 AM I know that this is an older thread but... Like others here, the wife is also one of those that does not like being nude, gets fully clothed before leaving the bedroom and take a dim view of me being nude. Most of our friends know that I am nude when ever possible and if they want to come over to call before hand. Several of the people that I know not only know that I am nude when ever possible but they either have no issue with it or enjoy being nude as much as I. There is a couple that we know, that bought a fair size piece of land and are getting it ready to build a house on. I go up there to help and run equipment for them. All of the times that I have been up there, we have worked in the nude and all enjoy being out side. Some of the wife's friends tell her that it is 'gross and not natural' that I like being nude when ever possible. This alone has caused some friction with-in our home. Am dealing with it but it gets interesting sometimes. Our nudity is just a different life style that some of us enjoy. |
Balto Bob |
Posted - 04/12/2010 : 09:33:56 AM $10 + $3 shipping. Please see page 4 www.nudist-resorts.org/talk/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3775 It seems I got off the topic of "Being Nude", sorry.
Bob Have a nice NUDE day !! www.ipernity.com/doc/elvertbarnes/5172004/ www.flickr.com/photos/perspective/2560521247/ |
Ricki00 |
Posted - 04/11/2010 : 10:50:25 PM quote: Originally posted by Balto Bob
The ladies at www.bananapeelz.com seem very nice. We have traded emails several times. The company name is FCW (First Wives Club),they are located in UT.
Bob Have a nice NUDE day !! www.flickr.com/photos/isisdc/2560300492/ www.flickr.com/photos/perspective/2560521247/
How much does it cost to buy those thingies? |
nakedmodel |
Posted - 04/04/2010 : 9:34:47 PM All I have to say is life is great! Go nude! |
Balto Bob |
Posted - 06/11/2009 : 04:40:06 AM The ladies at www.bananapeelz.com seem very nice. We have traded emails several times. The company name is FCW (First Wives Club),they are located in UT.
Bob Have a nice NUDE day !! www.flickr.com/photos/isisdc/2560300492/ www.flickr.com/photos/perspective/2560521247/ |
nudedude56 |
Posted - 06/10/2009 : 11:14:46 PM hey, I just ordered 3 banana peelz. we're going camping with two other couples for july 1 weekend. thought I'd surprise the girls by getting us three guys one each. It's not a nudist camp but we'll be close to being nude around the camp fire. should be a blast. I'm the one in our group that enjoys being naked the most. |
sailawaybob |
Posted - 06/10/2009 : 11:07:15 PM i had to twist my wife's arm to get her to leave the nude beach before the ranger came and cited us for being in park after closing hours. |
PopandMomBear |
Posted - 06/09/2009 : 8:39:26 PM What i see is someone wanting to share what he enjoys with the most important person in his life
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Diger |
Posted - 06/08/2009 : 5:42:41 PM Well spoken Fire, The most common factor I have seen in most all nudist couples we have met is trust. Mrs Diger would have never gone with me to a nude beach for the first time if she had not trusted me.
Arm Twisting? I don't see any arm twisting here!
Diger |
FireProf |
Posted - 06/08/2009 : 4:26:35 PM quote: Originally posted by thornapplebison
I just don't understand this talk. Why would a man want to twist his wife's arm, possibly for years on end, to make her do something she clearly does not want to do? Why can't you respect your own wife's ideas, opinions and will?
Why would a woman put up with that?
You say, "Honey, do you want to go to a nudist resort?" She'll either say yes or no, and the situation will be resolved. If you want to go, go. Or, maybe you should change to suit her. But why is it always the men talking about how to get their wives to change to suit them?
I have no idea what you read...but I don't see anywhere in any of the previous posts where any of these guys have twisted an arm!
Marriage is about compromise and trust. Where is the trust when a woman won't even be naked in front of her husband. Where's the compromise when a man changes to suit a woman?
I've been married to the same woman I dated in HS when we were 16 years old. From the day we began dating our relationship and life together has always been one of compromise and trust.
We loved being naked together in our younger years and everyday since the first time we both saw each other nude. We were not embarrassed or ashamed of our bodies or each other bodies.
Marriage is about sharing the most intimate of feelings and moments together and some of these poor guys have wives that don't even wanna be nude in front of them.....that's something I just don't understand. You can't tell me that a marriage is honest and complete when a woman isn't willing to be nude in front of her husband, hates seeing her husband nude or demands he remains dressed in his own home or in his own bed. There are some unresolved issues, including trust, that are missing from that relationship....in my opinion.
And...none of these guys has done any "arm twisting!"
FP
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