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| whop_99 |
Posted - 09/29/2011 : 03:59:20 AM
I have been in a relationship for a number of years. I have embrased the nude lifestyle. My question is, what do you do about daughters (or in my case step daughters, soon to be adopted) they are getting to that age where questions will be soon be asked and bodies will develope. I am scared s***less about what happens next. any advice would be appriciated. |
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| Diger |
Posted - 10/14/2011 : 5:13:49 PM
Whop, I think we all tried to give you a chance although we knew where this was going. Get a life dude.
Diger |
| Pat |
Posted - 10/14/2011 : 07:29:46 AM
I think you should go back under the bridge with the other Trolls. |
| whop_99 |
Posted - 10/14/2011 : 03:40:31 AM
ok, my step daughters are off limits, not even thinking about them. my new problem is their friends. 16 years old and very attractive, what do i do when they see me hard?
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| FlCpl4NewdFun |
Posted - 10/11/2011 : 7:59:50 PM
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Originally posted by Bob Knows
The girls that whop-99 mentions are not his blood relative, and it is normal for men to be "appreciative" of all non blood relation females of child bearing age.
Are you kidding me!!!! Those girls you speak of are his step-daughters (soon to be adopted by him). So no, that is NOT NORMAL!!!, seriously, if he is attracted in a sexual way to his young step-daughters that he's about to adopt, I think that is some seriously scary business!!! NOT NORMAL!!!
Besides, Whop-99 first stated the girls are at an age where their bodies will soon develop, which implies pre-pubescence or at a maximum in their early teens. Then in a subsequent post whop-99 states the girls friends that are coming around are "attractive." Seriously...WTF
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| Diger |
Posted - 10/11/2011 : 6:51:24 PM
Same here our boys will call ahead to let us know when they are bringing friends home.
Diger |
| sunflower |
Posted - 10/11/2011 : 2:44:42 PM
My non naturist friends all know that I am a naturist and always text me before calling which gives me chance to dress. |
| nudehndymn |
Posted - 10/09/2011 : 08:23:52 AM
What my wife and i did was to tell the kids to let us know ahead of time and we would be dressed. If not our kids would leave there friends outside and come in to have use get dressed then let the friends in. With the use of cell phones now they can call ahead.
My inlaws would stop by and honk, wait a couple minutes then come in. |
| whop_99 |
Posted - 10/09/2011 : 04:03:30 AM
ok, they have some friends who come around, very attractive. This is getting very embarrassing. |
| Diger |
Posted - 10/01/2011 : 11:39:23 AM
Just because you are nude doesn't mean you have to act any different. Be open, honest, and act the same naked as you do clothed.
A lot of the burden is on mom, as long as mom is comfortable the girls will take their cue from her.
Since you will soon be adopting them, I assume there will not be a problem out of the father. That would be the only thing that could possibly be a problem.
Diger |
| whop_99 |
Posted - 10/01/2011 : 05:34:54 AM
they are aware of our lifestyle, they have seemed confortable with it in the past. I am just worried about them getting older. I am terrified about how I should act around them. |
| Bob Knows |
Posted - 09/30/2011 : 8:38:24 PM
I have never heard of a girl or young woman who has been turned into a pumpkin by the sight of a human body.
The girls that whop-99 mentions are not his blood relative, and it is normal for men to be "appreciative" of all non blood relation females of child bearing age.
Blessings
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| Bill Bowser |
Posted - 09/30/2011 : 8:14:55 PM
About five years ago, a few months after my wife died, one of my adult stepdaughters (SD) and her nine year old daughter, my grand daughter (GD), came to live with me. SD knew of my nudist lifestyle, but I'm uncertain if GD had been told. I told SD that I didn't intend to be nude while they were at home because that seemed like the polite thing to do.
Well one day while nude, when I thought I was alone in the house my GD appeared before me while I walked down the upstairs hallway. She wasn't feeling well and had not gone to school as I had expected. Since I didn't act like our confrontation was a big deal she didn't react to it at all.
Some months later SD and GD went to the local nude resort with me to take advantage of the swimming pool. SD went to the club only once but GD went many times. After that the house was declared clothing-optional and I have been enjoying my favorite lifestyle ever since.
I hadn't expected the transition to be as easy as it was, but it seems to be human nature to over estimate the difficulty of a new task. Be open and honest about your nudism and you might find that the difficulties you imagined don't really exist.
Bill Bowser - Cincinnati
Nudists are everywhere, but they're hard to identify with their clothes on. |
| jbsnc |
Posted - 09/30/2011 : 12:06:34 PM
Tough nut to crack. Are they aware of your nudist orientation? Have you discussed visiting a nudist resort with them and mom? I've seen many kids of various ages at nudist resorts (most at White Tail Resort near Ivor, VA.) and they seemed well adjusted to the naturist style.
Happy Nuding. |
