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| mrgene |
Posted - 06/17/2012 : 02:53:35 AM
we use to have nude gathering at my place.
freinds brought their kids and freinds. we would designate one parent to put kids to bed in gameroom. then you could enjoy sex voyaism porn. it worked well for yearswith no problems |
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| Nudony |
Posted - 07/22/2012 : 11:33:58 PM
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[i]It is different for those of you that don't have that history and are trying to make some nudism history but don't have a willing enough family to even listen and give it a chance or even a try.
That's also my observation. "Later in life" nudists have to deal with extra challenges. When your kid is a toddler, all you have to do is undress them and let them run around nude. And then it just becomes routine. When the kids are teens or young adults, you've got your work cut out for you.
A good friend of mine was a "later in life" home nudist. Her daughter was all for it; her son couldn't stand it ( I think they were between 14-16 at the time.) My friend was usually nude in the backyard when the kids got home from school. Her daughter would run upstairs after school, disrobe and run through the living-room and kitchen to get to the backyard to skinny-dip and sunbathe nude with her Mom. They would occasionally walk back and forth between the kitchen and the backyard.
The son hated it. Literally shutting himself in his bedroom for hours.
That led to some weird family dynamics; which I myself witnessed when visiting. My friend made some effort to put on a towel when entering the house - for her son's sake. Her daughter refused to accomodate her brother. That affected their relationship - in a negative manner.
So yes; it ain't easy being a "later in life" nudist.
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| n/a |
Posted - 07/22/2012 : 2:52:56 PM
Id like to think I am not forcing the issue car just not hiding it from them anymore so if someone walks in a room and I am nude I refuse to run for cover like I am some child. |
| FireProf |
Posted - 07/22/2012 : 2:47:37 PM
Families comfort levels vary so much from textile family to textile family and from nudist family to nudist family.
Even within our own family, where they consider themselves "vacation nudists", they are NOT comfortable with just everyday nudity in their homes or here at our home.
Sometimes they surprise us and strip off and get comfy ... most times not. Skinny dipping is an on again off again situation and it's not really consistant but at least they are comfortable doing it when they feel like doing it.
For us ... little bits of exposure seem to work but for some, any kind of exposure sends family over the edge. It's too bad family members can treat you differently just cuz you prefer not to wear clothes if you don't have to.
I have a good friend that has a great relationship with her daughter and they spent lots of nude time together, took nude trips together and met other members of our club. Then the daughter moved away from nudism and she was left to pretty much do it alone cuz her husband can take it or leave it.
Low and behold ... the daughter returned to her senses and her upbringing and wants to revisit nudism with her mom. She didn't push, she didn't ask, she let the daughter return on her own and it's working for her.
That's kinda what we did with our daughters. Once the heard of all the awesome places we went but we nude places ... remembered their upbringing and decided to revisit nudism.
It is different for those of you that don't have that history and are trying to make some nudism history but don't have a willing enough family to even listen and give it a chance or even a try.
Loves being naked. Plays well with others! |
| Carlover227 |
Posted - 07/22/2012 : 12:29:07 PM
Yeah, I don't force the issue. I'm nude when possible, and I leave it at that. |
| n/a |
Posted - 07/20/2012 : 09:59:32 AM
Car-I tried doing the being nude more openly and more often around them but it didnt really help just made it worse. |
| Carlover227 |
Posted - 07/19/2012 : 11:18:19 PM
I'm in that same position, renobiker. Aw well. |
| n/a |
Posted - 07/13/2012 : 09:43:53 AM
I would enjoy nude family gatherings but I am the only nudist in the family and none of them are ok yet with me being openly nude around them. |
| mrgene |
Posted - 06/23/2012 : 03:50:58 AM
Im glad to hear from other people who enjoy nude family outings.Yes worrying about neighbors suck but dont let them ruin you fun |
| FireProf |
Posted - 06/22/2012 : 10:34:47 AM
It was not a gathering in the context of the thread's intent but ...
Our youngest daughter brought our two youngest grandkids over for a visit. Very hot day. She had stopped and bought a this kind of a mini water park inflatable you attached to the hose.
She asked me to inflate it with my compressor. We were in the front yard and I used the compressor in the garage. As soon as I inflated the toy, the kids wanted to try it. I attached it to the hose and it began to do it's thing. Before you could blink, her oldest (3.5) was stripping to jump in. She looked at us and I just said ... "they are fine." She stripped the youngest down to his diaper and he played as well.
After they were done, they were both naked, walking and running around the front yard. We just continued to act as if this is and was normal. After we got the kids dried off and they went home, I was out front doing a few things and two of the neighbors came over to say how much fun it was to watch the little ones having so much fun playing in the water and being without clothes.
I guess we were lucky ... none of our neighbors reported us!
Loves being naked. Plays well with others! |
| NudeNate |
Posted - 06/22/2012 : 07:42:39 AM
She doesn't mind the kids being nude in the yard. It she has a problem with me being nude outside with them. She's afraid of being reported |
| Nudony |
Posted - 06/21/2012 : 09:20:38 AM
If your kids are around the same age, you could simply mention that they enjoy playing with the sprinkler in the same manner as her daughter in their front yard. And simply extend an invitation to bring her over. It won't come across as weird if you focus more on her kid and your kids playing together, than on the nudity part.
Of course, this is all assuming that your wife would be would be ok with a bunch of nude children on her property.
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| NudeNate |
Posted - 06/21/2012 : 07:50:24 AM
The kids and I have played outside in the rain or ran through the sprinkler but my new wife has body issues and is concerned about her career (she's a psychologist and fears being reported) as for neighbors, we haven't told anybody. Although the other day I went running in the neighborhood and there was a lady gardening in the front yard. She was clothed but her 2 year old daughter didn't have a stitch on. Wondering how to start a conversation without sounding awkward |
| FireProf |
Posted - 06/21/2012 : 01:23:42 AM
Nudony... I fear you are correct. Daughter's and grandkids want to return to that caribbean nude resort on the beach but ... don't have the funds. I think we'll be funding "part" of it anyway ... but it will be worth it to get them all back there. Our youngest daughter is hinting at joining one of the naturist organizations and has visited our club twice now and is asking questions about membership. If she's REALLY serious ... Dad will pop for her first year membership dues to the org and I may just pay for her annual membership to the club. I'd do that for a hardcore re-converted daughter!
Loves being naked. Plays well with others! |
| Cookie |
Posted - 06/20/2012 : 10:36:18 PM
When we are able to be with our two daughters,
we def. enjoy the freedom. Their husbands are part of the get together, and now that grand
kids are running around they are enjoying the
greatest lifestyle.
Cookie |
| steady78 |
Posted - 06/20/2012 : 3:08:34 PM
Nudony, I too haven't seen an entire familly nude very often, but, the occasion that I remember most was at little tribune bay on hornby island here on the west coast of Canada.
My wife and I were enjoing a wonderful summer afternoon on the CO beach when an entire familly arrived and sat down beside us. They had a newborn, several toddlers, a couple teens(male and female) 2 sets of parents and grandmother and grandfather.
They all casually stripped off their clothes and had a great afternoon. The teens were very polite and paid extra attention to grampa , playing soccer with him and the little kids all day.All the adults took turns holding and caring for the newborn so the mom could enjoy the beach as well.
This entire familly seemed so well adjusted and comfortable with each other. It was fantastic to watch them interact and enjoy each others company!
We love our family just the way it is but these people seemed to be an amazing family and I couldn't help but wonder if having raised our kids as nudists would have made us even closer. |
