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WayOfLife Posted - 02/19/2008 : 12:40:57 AM
Hello all !! I have come to this forum to get answers from fellow nudists outside of my family.

My question has been troubling for quite some time.

Im a younger male (18) and still in high school. My girlfriend is the same age and she is a nudist as well. My parents have always tought me to be free-living and embrace the wonderful nudist lifestyle, and I do ! However, I have come across some problems that I dont know how to handle. We hang out at my house a lot and watch movies, swim, exercise etc. But when we cuddle on the couch I seem to get erect and I dont know what to do. I know that it is 100 percent natural, but it seems like it is almost too sexual for a public setting. Should I just get up and walk away when it happens ? Or just lay there with her and hope it goes away, haha ?

She doesnt mind at all. When it happens in my bedroom, we will usually just have sex... But when it is in the living room on the couch, I dont know what to do.

Can anyone help ??

My parents have told me that it is natural and I shouldnt feel weird about it. And they also say that I should NOT get up and walk off or anything like that because it is normal for someone my age.

What do you guys think ??
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soonbnude Posted - 02/13/2017 : 06:21:27 AM

Agreed, don't reckon it really happens that much without some assistance.
There is too much crap on these sites about this topic, its just plain boring.

SBN.
gnarlyoldman Posted - 02/12/2017 : 7:58:05 PM
quote:
Originally posted by FireProf

I've never really bought into the idea that the brains of your big head and small head were not linked and that the small head had involuntary reactions.


Me neither. I find the suggestion sexist and insulting.



Naked is green.
FireProf Posted - 02/08/2017 : 10:20:54 PM
I've never really bought into the idea that the brains of your big head and small head were not linked and that the small head had involuntary reactions.

I wonder what the good Doctor has to say about this and can shed some light on this phenomenon.







Loves being naked. Plays well with others!
Nudony Posted - 02/08/2017 : 8:14:18 PM
This resurrected thread was initially posted in 2008. Which means the OP is now 27.

Either he has experienced nudism by now and has figured out that erections are not really a "thing" when socially nude. Or he never even tried it!

But yeah...when I got off the couch and became a social nudist myself I quickly realized that when socially nude, "spontaneous erections" rather rarely occurred. And when they did it was a rather easy "situation" to resolve.

soonbnude Posted - 02/08/2017 : 06:53:57 AM

I reckon if you are sitting there naked with your girlfriend at 18 on the couch watching a movie, sitting up close and you don't get an erection there'd be something wrong.
Man, it's natural get over it. You've worked out the solution. The comments by your folks are correct. Consider yourself lucky being raised in a nudist house-hold and environment, can't imagine that as it is so far from a strict Catholic upbringing it's not funny.

It feels more awkward at the beach the first time, it tends to happen when you are younger I think. Maybe I'm used to being nude at the beach and in front of others but it doesn't happen much now and when it does I roll over on the towel. Maybe being over 50 reduces the frequency but it still works when I want it to. Cheers, SBN.
Aandy Posted - 02/06/2017 : 10:53:41 PM
Must be pretty awkward the first time it happens. It will be my first time soon and i am hoping i don't get an erection
SyncVA Posted - 10/02/2010 : 03:09:32 AM
Haha@NaturistDoc.

I was attempting to be serious. I sometimes get an erection with pants on. The fact that people can't see it doesn't mean it's not there. If I remove my pants, people can see it, and that's part of what naturism means to me. It's stripping off that last layer of 'armor' and being honest. It's hard to hide your faults, naked.
NaturistDoc Posted - 10/01/2010 : 6:49:52 PM
Speak for yourself!
SyncVA Posted - 10/01/2010 : 12:33:49 AM
I tend to agree with balataf. When I was that age, I could get an erection from a breeze. It isn't necessarily sexual, just a response to sensations/thoughts. Certainly, cuddling with your girlfriend on the couch is a sensual experience. Your erection will pass, eventually, and is perfectly normal.

I don't understand why people get so hung up on whether someone has an erection or not. We're nudists/naturists! A penis occasionally gets erect. It's not like we're running around bludgeoning people with it!
balataf Posted - 09/18/2010 : 5:58:18 PM
A serious answer:
Any girl/woman/lady who is old enuf to be involved in this type of question should be mature enuf to face the reality of how men are designed, and the way that this process proceeds.
DID YOU THINK OF ASKING HOW SHE WOULD HANDLE THE QUESTION? (No pun originally intended, but it is approriate.) There are normal, satisfactory, ways to deal with it.
blavan Posted - 09/17/2010 : 3:58:54 PM
You described your nudist lifestyle and your relationship with your GF, and then you asked a question that makes no sense at all.
It is not bashing at all to question your intent for being on the site. Duh.
Be real, and do not insult us. Your question was far more ridiculous than any response I have seen to it thus far. Respect goes both ways.

Being Naked and Being Real
Warmskin Posted - 09/12/2009 : 9:58:35 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Diger

Warmskin,
I've done the same thing but after being here for a while I have seen some very good discussions started by trolls. It's one thing to have a little fun exposing them but to bash anyone sends the wrong image even if it's meant as humor.

Another board I was on had a very persistent troll that was intent on bashing the nudist lifestyle. However after seeing all the nice and patient responses he received, was converted, and he’s now a nudist living fulltime in a resort in FL.

Diger



You know, Digers, I never thought of that. I see the light, now. Thank you for that information. I did notice that the fellow did come back for the second time, which some "trolls" never do. I guess most of them just leave one message and take off, never to be seen again.

I am deeply appreciative of that insight, and will remember exactly what you said.

Thank you!!!

"The means of defense against foreign danger historically have become the instruments of tyranny at home."
James Madison
Diger Posted - 09/12/2009 : 09:21:12 AM
Warmskin,
I've done the same thing but after being here for a while I have seen some very good discussions started by trolls. It's one thing to have a little fun exposing them but to bash anyone sends the wrong image even if it's meant as humor.

Another board I was on had a very persistent troll that was intent on bashing the nudist lifestyle. However after seeing all the nice and patient responses he received, was converted, and he’s now a nudist living fulltime in a resort in FL.




Diger
Warmskin Posted - 09/11/2009 : 10:43:03 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Maple Leaf

That may have been a bit un-called for.



It seems like a troll to me, and others. I'm sorry if I offended, but my humor is a bit off beat.

"The means of defense against foreign danger historically have become the instruments of tyranny at home."
James Madison
dragon Posted - 09/11/2009 : 12:01:38 PM
I say be comfortable. Your parents know and you should not be embrassed in your own house. Everyone else is fine with it and so should you. It's natural.

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