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barefootguyinco
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 Posted - 01/27/2010 : 2:24:38 PM
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Hi all, I've been a nudist for many years and am the founder of a nudist group in our area and have a question I can't answer.
I have been in a relationship with a woman for a year who has become a full time nudist like myself. She thoroughly enjoys the freedom of the lifestyle and we are nude whenever possible. Recently we moved into a house with a nice in ground swimming pool with a nice privacy fence and we are looking forward to summer and having pool parties. We plan on having parties for the nudist group as well as family.
Our question is this: Her son has 2 daughters, roughly 10 & 12 who are very excited about using the pool. My girlfriend recently told her son about our nudist lifestyle and mentioned that the grandkids are welcome to swim nude or with suits on, if he and his wife are comfortable with it. She of course told him that nudity is optional for the kids, but that we would like to be nude if it's ok with him. He has no problem with us being nudists and is even open to the kids being nude if they want, but is concerned about someone hearing about it in some way and reporting them to social services. He knows it is totally non sexual and is not worried about that, but still has concerns about whether or not he & his wife can just give us permission to do this without any worry of repercussions from social services. One of his daughters is adopted, the other is his by birth.
I tried finder other info on the boards, but haven't found anything regarding our specific situation, so if anyone can offer advice, it would be greatly appreciated. By the way, we are in Colorado.
Thanks - Guy
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Jim in Boston
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Posted - 01/28/2010 : 9:31:08 PM
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Originally posted by barefootguyinco
Hi all, I've been a nudist for many years and am the founder of a nudist group in our area and have a question I can't answer.
I have been in a relationship with a woman for a year who has become a full time nudist like myself. She thoroughly enjoys the freedom of the lifestyle and we are nude whenever possible. Recently we moved into a house with a nice in ground swimming pool with a nice privacy fence and we are looking forward to summer and having pool parties. We plan on having parties for the nudist group as well as family.
Our question is this: Her son has 2 daughters, roughly 10 & 12 who are very excited about using the pool. My girlfriend recently told her son about our nudist lifestyle and mentioned that the grandkids are welcome to swim nude or with suits on, if he and his wife are comfortable with it. She of course told him that nudity is optional for the kids, but that we would like to be nude if it's ok with him. He has no problem with us being nudists and is even open to the kids being nude if they want, but is concerned about someone hearing about it in some way and reporting them to social services. He knows it is totally non sexual and is not worried about that, but still has concerns about whether or not he & his wife can just give us permission to do this without any worry of repercussions from social services. One of his daughters is adopted, the other is his by birth.
I tried finder other info on the boards, but haven't found anything regarding our specific situation, so if anyone can offer advice, it would be greatly appreciated. By the way, we are in Colorado.
Thanks - Guy
Body shame, like prejuduce, is not natural. It is learned from others and benefits no one.
What state are you in? Probably makes a difference.
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jbsnc
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Posted - 01/29/2010 : 09:56:49 AM
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barefoot, maybe you can contact American Association for Nude Recreation and get some answers.
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barefootguyinco
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Posted - 01/29/2010 : 11:36:35 AM
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Jim, we're in Colorado (as mentioned in the last line of my post)
I'll try contacting AANR and see if they respond.
Thanks
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Balto Bob
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Posted - 01/30/2010 : 08:16:15 AM
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I don't think you have anything to worry about. This is why people belong to AANR, etc. Due to the age of the girls and the fact that you are not their Grandfather, I would be careful to avoid physical contact while everyone is nude. The girls should have a talk with your lady (their grandmother). She should tell them they can wear or not wear whatever they like but, if they are ever unconfortable to talk to her about it. Chances are you won't have any problems.
Bob
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nudehndymn
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Posted - 01/30/2010 : 08:37:34 AM
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You can also check with the Naturist Action Committee. There you can get the name of the area representative and check state laws. www.naturistaction.org
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go n nude
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Posted - 01/31/2010 : 08:21:58 AM
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barefootguyinco, you will always find good advice and info. on this forum from members, who've been there and done it, exposing children to this life style, that are not there own, could or might pose some problems. One way to reduce your risk of liability and ensure the children are comfortable with it,would be to have the family all there on site on first visit.Children are honest and will tell everyone,everywhere,where what,and who. Hopefully this all works out for everybody.
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Diger
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Posted - 01/31/2010 : 12:14:51 PM
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Having premission from the parents in writing will help also. As others have suggested have the parents there for the first few times, if mom and dad are comfortable then the kids will be fine.
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barefootguyinco
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Posted - 01/31/2010 : 10:23:57 PM
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Thanks for all the advice. I think we'll pass this on to the parents and just let them know that it is their choice. We will let them know that it is their choice whether their kids are given the opportunity to participate with us, and that the kids can choose whether they go nude, or clothed. Actually, I will just pass the info on to my girlfriend and she will do all the talking to the girls and their parents as she is their grandmother. And if they do come out to a nude pool party I would avoid physical contact for sure, to avoid any possibility of things being taken out of context. Their grandmother would take care of them entirely, at least on the first visit.
We have also decided to ask about taking them to a public clothing optional hot springs. It is a very private place where you pay to get in, but there is often children there both clothed and nude. This would allow them to decide in a totally safe venue. Of course the parents will know exactly where we are going if they choose not to come along.
Thanks again
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