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Little John
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 Posted - 11/13/2008 : 2:01:30 PM
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Being new to nudism, getting an unwanted erection is the main fear I have of visiting a nudist resort. My wife and I are experimenting with going naked in our house for the present, but we both want to visit a resort or B&B probably this spring or late winter. What do you do when you meet new people in the nude? Think of baseball, keep eye contact, hold your towell discreetly in front of you, or what? I'm glad (so is my wife) that I can still easily get an erction, but I don't want to embarass or offend aanyone.
Thanks,
John
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Diger
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Posted - 11/13/2008 : 6:07:49 PM
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John,
Quit worrying about it and trust me, your body will just know how to behave. For the first-timer it doesn’t make sense and I can’t explain it. You just have to trust.
However the eye contact idea is really good manners and is highly suggested.
It’s not going to be the problem you think it will, but if a problem arises (pun intended) cover it with your towel, take a swim or if baseball works, go for it.
Just quit thinking a do it.
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Warmskin
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Posted - 11/13/2008 : 6:26:17 PM
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Hi Little John,
I had the same fears, too, but I found they were needless, after a my first visit to a nudist resort. I never had an erection, and I found one reason I never got one was that nothing very personal happened there. In retrospect, a woman would have had to do something overtly sexual to me to get one.
If you want something better than baseball to discourage even a remote thought of getting an erection, tell yourself that all the guys, near you at the time of your fear, will beat you senseless if you do get one.
Better than that is to be extra respectful of others, share positive emotions with them, concentrate on the faces you see. The people with whom you do not interact can be thought of as completely impersonal. Intimacy engenders erections, and people with whom you have no interaction, are not intimate with you, if you get my drift, and thus they do not cause you to get an erection.
It may seem counter-intuitive that you very probably won't get an erection, but when you go to a nudist place, you'd be surprised how tame it is there. If you were to an erection, you would have a much better chance of that at home. I have even been bored at a nudist resort, and that doesn't promote erections.
So, don't worry about erections, you'll not be experiencing anything sexual.
That government governs best, which governs least - Thomas Jefferson
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elad
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Posted - 11/13/2008 : 7:56:16 PM
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I just went to my first resort and I'll be honest with you, it never even crossed my mind the whole time I was there. There really is nothing sexual or arousing about visiting a nudist resort, at least there wasn't for me. Just think of it as going to a resort where people just happen to be nude.
We don't receive wisdom; we must discover it for ourselves after a journey that no one can take for us or spare us.
Marcel Proust (1871 - 1922)
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Little John
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Posted - 11/14/2008 : 07:53:26 AM
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Thanks for the wise advise. It really does help us newcomers when we receive your words of wisdom and encouragement. I just wish I had made the decision to be nude years ago, but at least I have now.
Thanks again,
John
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Broooz
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Posted - 11/14/2008 : 09:48:50 AM
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I think it depends how easily aroused you are. I got one in pool aerobics - just the movement of the water and once with the wind, but not jumping around the dancefloor! Just need to be aware but not worry too much.
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FlCpl4NewdFun
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Posted - 05/19/2010 : 6:45:58 PM
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Sweet! a topic about erections that only has two pages of posts! Now that's something to get excited about!
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txnatnud
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Posted - 05/19/2010 : 8:10:49 PM
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I knew I shouldn't have played with that erector set when I was little. Afflicted for life. Damn!
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peterhussey79
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Posted - 02/26/2015 : 04:51:28 AM
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Hi,
It is quite normal that you can get erection multiple times in a day. However, if you are facing early ejaculation problems then you may have sexual disorder. Please consult your doctor and if he prescribes some medications to treat your early premature erection problems then you can take help of [deleted]. But before taking these pills, consult your physician and only then take these medications as these medications are available only with the prescription.
Thanks
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Badgerguy
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Posted - 03/12/2015 : 12:57:28 PM
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I was kind of worried about that same thing, but once you get there, and realize that everyone is just naked and there's not a hint of sexuality (at least where I was), it's no big deal. Never had urges. I was at a Couples resort, so it was just that - couples, 50/50 ratio, so no pick up lines, no hitting on others, you give them the obligatory "down-up" with the eyes and you're done. No big deal.
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getnekked
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Posted - 12/16/2015 : 11:00:37 PM
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Always, always take a very large towel around. It is has happened in the past but that is usually out of nerves!
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Warmskin
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Posted - 01/09/2016 : 04:33:35 AM
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I had the same fears, too. The very last thing I wanted to do was to be an offense to someone else. There were enough men around to put an end that the very thought that I would have an erection. I was actually more anxious about if I would fit in, and find someone with whom to engage in conversation. Sometimes, I get bored at nudist resorts if nothing is going on, or if people tended to be too cliquish or exclusive. So, you can see that worry about erections goes away in rapid order if you arrive at the resort with that fear. Your experience will dismiss any fears. It's great, though, that you're courteous enough to be considerate of other people's feelings.
“I rise early almost every morning and sit in my chamber, without any clothes whatever, half an hour or an hour, according to the season, either reading or writing.”
Ben Franklin
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iiioffbuddy
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Posted - 07/27/2016 : 12:47:18 AM
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I'm very new to it all but I was very worried the first first time me and my partner decided to try a Nudist resort as I thought that I may get an erection and it would be embarrassing. It was more through the fear of not wanting to get one that I was worried I probably would because I'd be thinking about it. As it was, I was absolutely fine and the whole experience was a lot less daunting than I'd expected it to be. I did get a bit of one whilst in the pool but nothing when walking around. We have only been on one occasion but are due to attend another resort soon so I will see how I get on then. As some people have said, its a natural thing that occurs and we should probably not be so shy and uptight about it, as long as we aren't acting out of turn.
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Nudony
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Posted - 07/27/2016 : 8:33:01 PM
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I can count on one hand the number of times I've had to deal with that "issue"; and we're talking in many years of social nudity. In all cases, it was just the result of deep relaxation and/or increases in blood flow deriving from physical activity.
Most times, I was sitting or laying so it was just a matter of turning and laying on my stomach, or grabbing a towel and laying it across my legs.
Only once did it happen as I was exiting the pool and walking across the pool area. When I felt it happening I just turned around and made a bee-line for the showers.
If and/or when it does happen, there's no point in panicking; or just sitting it out uncovered. Just act naturally. Surrounding nudists will usually not care as long as you're not just sitting and standing around with an erection in plain sight.
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soonbnude
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Posted - 08/08/2016 : 08:03:31 AM
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There is one guy I see regularly at Whites Beach at Torquay (near Geelong in Victoria, Australia) who either pops a pill and walks around with his erection waving around or has a very long lasting erection.
He parades up and down the beach I believe trying to the get attention of people. He was also part of a group sex act in the sand dunes last year that I witnessed.
Feel sorry for the guy who started this thread but that seems to be the exception it appears to me.
The guy I mention above and others seem to be trying to impress or pick up. There are other guys constantly fluffing and playing with themselves looking to hook up and it seems to work.
Here in Oz due to the low numbers of people at some of these beaches this type of behaviour goes on and I believe probably deters some people from trying nudity.
Just my thoughts based on my observations.
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