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tucsonnude
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Posted - 12/18/2003 : 09:00:27 AM
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I think that most married or even un married couples will dress undress shower etc with the other. It is just part of "married" life. Like pilot said washing the other's back is one pleasure that is underrated. I sure miss that.
We never had any doors closed except for the bedroom door when we got intimate. Hate it when the kids would walk in.
We went nude around the kids. They didn't go nude much, that was their choice. After my divorce the kids were not in a nudist household.
Indoor nudist is kind of an oxymoron. But it is just a phase or stepping stone to going socially nude. I like to be nude at home only because it feels so good.
I use a towel out of habit.
Have not answered the door nude yet. I almost forget I am nude though and have caught myself.
Hope to find a nudist gal too and hopefully settle down again..
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melissastarr
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Posted - 12/18/2003 : 7:55:28 PM
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I had a weird situation that happened yesterday morning and I'd like to hear how you all prevent this one. Early in the morning, at around 6:30 or so, a friend knocked on my door to tell me that she had accidentally hit my car outside. At the time I was nude, as is the norm in my home, and I was on the phone calling in to work. So, naturally, I opened the door to hear what my friend had come to see me about as I was on hold on the phone. My friend was terribly upset, etc., and I was trying to calm her down. Anyway, a few minutes after she left I realized that I was nude as I talked to her. Now, I did not intend for this to happen. I just truly forgot that I was nude! How can I prevent this from happening in the future? I assume others have run into this problem, right? Or am I weird?
Melissa
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NudeAl
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Posted - 12/18/2003 : 9:28:41 PM
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Yep, Your weird! LOL!
This hasn't happened to me yet! I have had to go running for a towel or robe when unexpected company has dropped by. Once My wifes friend just walked in the front door while I was nude. I was very aware that I was naked but she just laughed about it. She knows we are nude most of the time. I just positioned myself behind the breakfast bar. I would like to live in a nudist resort but wife is against it. I think it would be cool to be nude all the time. I wouldn't be going anywhere! Well let us know how things go with your friend. This may give you an intro to talk to her about nudism.
"The best dress for walking is nakedness." Collin Fletcher
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calmnude
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Posted - 12/18/2003 : 10:26:25 PM
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melissa,
the friend did not make an issue of it so why should you. maybe she is nude in her apartment as well. you never know
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FireProf
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 Posted - 12/19/2003 : 01:29:21 AM
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Yeah Melissa,
Your friend didn't say anything...it may not have bothered her at all. The up side is maybe she was not bothered by it enough to either confess she is nude at home also or she may want to try it now.
Either way, it happened, she didn't seem offended or embarassed, I'd say that was a good thing.
Let us know what happens next.
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pilot
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 Posted - 12/19/2003 : 03:59:01 AM
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Melissa,
You have a real friend if she would come to your home to let you know that she had inadvertently hit your car. She surely did not care about your state of (un)dress. If not knowing how she feels bothers you, you should ask her directly.
I am presently in Japan. At the hotel where I am staying on the shores of Lake Biwa, there is an elegant communal bath (spa). Men and women think nothing about bathing nude together. They are much more curious about the gaijin (foreigner) because we male Caucasians typically have more body hair--otherwise, the parts are the same. This morning, there were 15 year olds to 85 year olds (ages estimated--my Japanese is really poor!).
Regards.
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pjcomp
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Posted - 12/19/2003 : 10:23:56 AM
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Hi Melissa
It's quite possible your friend was so upset about bumping your car she didn't even notice you were nude ...
Your own reaction was interesting - you'd forgotten you were nude, it's become second nature to you and you just forget that it's "different" from everyone else. Don't worry about trying to prevent it happening again - be yourself.
Peter Stokes, UK
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msinger
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Posted - 12/19/2003 : 12:33:00 PM
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To Melissastar
Melissa, I find your posting from 12-8-03 intriguing about the transformation to becoming a nudist. At one time you thought the lifestyle would never be acceptable to you.
I always loved being naked, but it took quite a long time to get my wife to agree to the nude beach and nudist resorts in Southern California. Now she even gets naked in front of our friends when getting in our hot tub - she absolutely loves it.
My questions...
1) What made you change? A friend? News article?
2) What were your thoughts during the transformation?
3) Do you date a nudist, or will you try to find a nudist so you don't have to "break" the news to him?
I know you told me along time ago, but I don't remember - what part of PA. We are from Moon Twp, near the Pittsburgh airport. We moved to San Diego in 1990 and it is so easy to get naked here with other people. It probably is there also, but we did not participate back then.
Mike
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Spontanudity
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Posted - 12/19/2003 : 8:06:16 PM
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Melissa,
Obviously your friend was comfortable with your nudity, but I'm guessing your question is how to react if a strange came to the door as opposed to somebody that knows you. I've accidently opened the door to people while nude before most people just laugh and try to act as nothing is unusual. For those that aren't so accepting, you would always keep a towel or robe near the door. At the very least it would a conversation piece for anybody walking into your house - "why do you have robe hanging by the door?"...
Cheers,
Spontanudity
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CoolNude72
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Posted - 12/19/2003 : 9:44:19 PM
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I had a weird situation that happened yesterday morning and I'd like to hear how you all prevent this one. Early in the morning, at around 6:30 or so, a friend knocked on my door to tell me that she had accidentally hit my car outside. At the time I was nude, as is the norm in my home, and I was on the phone calling in to work. So, naturally, I opened the door to hear what my friend had come to see me about as I was on hold on the phone. My friend was terribly upset, etc., and I was trying to calm her down. Anyway, a few minutes after she left I realized that I was nude as I talked to her. Now, I did not intend for this to happen. I just truly forgot that I was nude! How can I prevent this from happening in the future? I assume others have run into this problem, right? Or am I weird?
Well that happened to me one time but was with a person i became recently friends with at the time. Needless to say I embarrased him terribly and didnt even realize i was nude til he ran back outside.  But it didnt change the friendship and we still friends today.
Ray
PS. Spontanudity, Dan and Kimberly.. Thank you for the warm thoughts. Been a sad week for me but I am glad she is no longer suffering. Been very hard, especially with the holidays just around the corner.
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Cheri
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Posted - 12/19/2003 : 9:50:57 PM
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Melissa, It's happend a few times. Once I was just inside our portable bi-fold fence when we lived in an apartment, and I heard ducks nearing my garden. I started to run outside of the fence, and Allen called me back.
Another time, arrived home after spending the day at a nudist park in Oklahoma a lifetime ago. We drove up and opened the garage with the opener. My two pomeranians came towards the car, nothing to stop them from getting into the street. I was wearing only a pareo...sort of covering me. I just ran to the dogs that were more important than my state of (un)dress.
Hugs, Mom.
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irishred
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Posted - 12/20/2003 : 09:13:50 AM
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Coolnude, my belated condolences!
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melissastarr
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Posted - 12/20/2003 : 8:51:42 PM
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MSinger,
The answers that you have awaited for have finally arrived!
My questions...
1) What made you change? A friend? News article?
This could be a long story or a short story, but I'll try to give you the short version of it. Once upon a time in October I looked up "body acceptance" in the google search engine because I was having some body issues that I need to sort through. When what to my wondering eyes should appear but a whole bunch of nudist sites! Now, being a good girl I would NEVER click on one of *those* kind of sites. But I was intrigued and I couldn't find any information that would help me in my quest. So I clicked. And I found out that nudism isn't what I thought it was at all. Where were the orgies? Where was the provacative behavior? Surely these people weren't so creative as to make volleyball sexual???? By reading many sites and articles about nudism I came to see that maybe nudism was worth a try. Now to put this insight into perspective, I had many many body issues. Until a few years ago I couldn't even shower with my eyes open. At the time I found the sites I was incapable of taking a bath because of the nudity issue. So, to put it lightly, nudism would not be easy for me. But I needed to do something to cure those body issues. Maybe nudism would work? So I posted some of my story on a nudist message board in hopes that somebody would help me. I figured I'd get many people questioning my authenticity and/or making fun of me. But everyone was so helpful and supportive. My mom, Cheri, was such a help and really stepped out to guide me in becoming a nudist. After a few days of research I decided to try it. OK, so I had to bribe myself with a cheesesteak first, but I did try it. I was nude in my home for a few hours at first. Then I tried sleeping nude (the first few nights were awful- I couldn't sleep because I felt funny. Now I can't sleep with clothes on. LOL) Once I became semi-used to home nudity I realized that I'd best get an AANR membership because I had to try social nudism. It sounds like you read my first social experience, so I won't go into all that. Now, of course, you can't keep me dressed. I'm nude at home all the time and I punish myself, when needed, by making me dress at home (ie. if I don't clean the house by 5pm I have to be dressed the remainder of the evening.) Today I had my fourth socially nude event, a trip to Penn Sylvan with Cheef. What a fabulous day! I didn't want to leave. The atmosphere was so relaxing and I could barely stay awake at times. Nudism must be close to what Heaven will be like. (OK, so I didn't keep it short- sue me! My dad's a lawyer!)
2) What were your thoughts during the transformation?
The transormation was pretty terrifying. I come from a background of sexual abuse, so I have a lot of issues with nudity and men. Being nude by myself has always been an issue. For years I slept in pants, shirt, a belt, and even lace-up sneakers. Showering was mentioned above. The fear of men was pretty abundant in my life. To be nude by myself was a struggle. I felt such shame and guilt, as well as being downright fearful because when I've been nude in the past I've always gotten hurt. Yet I survived. Being nude in front of others was a huge fear but I made myself do it. Before the event I was fearful that I wouldn't look good enough. Let's face it: being nude is putting yourself in a very vulnerable position. However, my ow nudity wasn't that much of an issue at the event- I quickly saw that the women came in all shapes and sizes. What I hadn't prepared for was seeing others nude: I'd never seen anyone nude before. Terror at seeing men nude was terrifying. They have parts that have hurt me in the past. I don't think I ever truly felt comfortable during that first event. During my second event, however, I became comfortable. I think the big difference was I knew people who were there because we'd spoken via e-
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Kimberly
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Posted - 12/21/2003 : 04:27:35 AM
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Melissa;
That has happened to me a couple of times, and it did not bother the other person. I did walk out to my car once and realized I was still nude and had to go back in to put on some clothes.
Kim =^.^=
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nudeisntlewd
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Posted - 12/21/2003 : 04:50:53 AM
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Ray,
I'm sorry about your loss. My cousin also had lung cancer which quickly spread to every major organ. It took her fast. I know how you feel.
God Bless.
Randy
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