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imnude2
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Posted - 12/29/2006 : 11:46:37 AM
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Allnaturalwife -
I did not notice "sort of" scarcasm in your post, possibly because of the subject matter.
It seems even your family (fortunate to live a nudist lifestyle more often than most people) ARE partipants in the lifestyle, because you cannot do all the things you would want to do while nude. Like walk out your door to take a walk down the street, drive to the store to go shopping, go visit the doctor, dentist, etc. You & your family just happen to participate in a nude lifestyle more frequently than others.
Reality (I believe) is people will always want to wear clothes because of the cold weather, rigoreous activities, or other activity requiring protective gear (or clothing.) I am sure - even if all people in this world were in agreement on nudism. The cold weather hits everywhere...even in beautiful sunny California. So unless you want to freeze your buns, I would bet you will wear those darn clothes too!! :) :)
Topic: "Nudism - Supporting Family Values / Mental Health"
...a good thing & I am all for positive attitudes on nudism.
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allnaturalwife
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Posted - 12/29/2006 : 2:57:14 PM
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Thats ok. I was just trying joke in a way by saying that "we think people who wear clothes are weird". And I somewhat disagree with the statement that "people will always want to wear clothes because of cold weather". In our family no matter how cold the weather we take whatever measures we can to remain nude. Like I said we live in a state with some of the highest housing costs in the country, just to have a warmer year round climate to be able to spend most of our time naked. On days where the outside temps are too cold we have a heated pool and spa. Or we turn up the heater to a comfortable temp which allows us to be nude. So, for us, we actually wouldnt just start wearing clothes more if all of a sudden cold weather hit CA. We would most likely stay inside more, and turn up our heater. There are many families like ours that simply just really dont like to wear clothes. And nudism is part of who we ARE, NOT something we just participate in., Many dont understand the difference.
Jennifer
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imnude2
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Posted - 12/29/2006 : 10:21:21 PM
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I mean that when it is raining in California (or snowing) and you need to leave your home to venture out to the outside world for the everyday errands. I suggest that people will always want to wear clothes because of the cold weather. As we know, California has the most beautiful weather, but it surely rains heavily at times, snows and even gets freezing cold. And when you have to get to that store to shop for the necessities, I suggest that you will "want to wear clothes." I am sure the rain and snow feels great cascading over the naked body (and a lot of fun too) but too much can be a little chilly. :)
ImNude2
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PRS
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Posted - 01/26/2008 : 11:05:34 AM
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back on topic....
To answer your question, I think I can help a little. I was raised in a nudist environment. It wasn't a big deal, we just didn't wear clothes unless it was cold or we had to go in public (the store, school, etc.).
Before I married my high school sweetheart, I informed her that I don't like wearing clothes unless I have to. She didn't seem bothered, and now is actually nude so often, it is difficult to get clothes ON the girl!
Here's the benefits to me growing up nude-
1. I was never a sexual experimenter like so many other lids and teens. 2. I was a virgin until my honeymoon. 3. Never divorced, still on marriage #1 and very happy! 4. Never had any attraction to pornography, in fact it disgusts me. 5. Strong faith in God (we're Baptists) and our gift of this planet. 6. No ill helath effects of any kind. 7. Perfect skin! I am now in my 40's and get mistaken for my 20's all the time. 8. What few friends I do have (nudists) are GOOD friends who would take a bullet for me. 9. Never been drunk or even tried drugs. I don't drink either. 10. Very successful with career and family.
So, as for how your kids will turn out if you raise them nude, I would say odds are good that they will turn out great!!
When my nephew was about 5, his parents started having problems. When their marriage (one of them a non-nudis) started falling apart, wife and me took the nephew in. He took to nude life in microseconds. We just didn't make him dress unless he was leaving somewhere or he wanted to. The first night staying with us, he came to sit on the couch with me and watch TV before bed, and he was nude. That was that. We took him to the club a few times when he turned 6 and you would have thought he was doing this his whole life. Now he's almost 10 and back with his parents, his dad not a nudist. He makes the adjustment to our house rules very quickly when he visits. He strips down on his own, his choice. Then, he proceeds to be a normal kid!
Bottom line- If you don't make a big deal of it, neither will the kids.
If you do make a big deal of it, like sit down for a 'talk' etc., you will creep out the kids and they will always have this small doubt int he back of their minds whether they are doing something wrong or not.
Here's my suggestion- Start being nude. Don't talk about it first, nothing. Just be nude, doing your normal daily things. If asked, say it is hot, so you are feeling much better now without the hot clothes on. Your kids will just assimilate and it won't be a big deal. Don't MAKE it a big deal. Be natural!
Life-long nudist.
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nakeyoga
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Posted - 02/01/2008 : 06:51:25 AM
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Nudism is not a bad and every one should take it on positive side as it improves the strength and mental attitude of the children and infact if it is nude yoga it will be better .
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Ricki00
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Posted - 12/02/2009 : 7:08:29 PM
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quote: Originally posted by allnaturalwife
Thats ok. I was just trying joke in a way by saying that "we think people who wear clothes are weird". And I somewhat disagree with the statement that "people will always want to wear clothes because of cold weather". In our family no matter how cold the weather we take whatever measures we can to remain nude. Like I said we live in a state with some of the highest housing costs in the country, just to have a warmer year round climate to be able to spend most of our time naked. On days where the outside temps are too cold we have a heated pool and spa. Or we turn up the heater to a comfortable temp which allows us to be nude. So, for us, we actually wouldnt just start wearing clothes more if all of a sudden cold weather hit CA. We would most likely stay inside more, and turn up our heater. There are many families like ours that simply just really dont like to wear clothes. And nudism is part of who we ARE, NOT something we just participate in., Many dont understand the difference.
Jennifer
We have been able to manage to wear less clothes and even myself and sometimes my wife to get nude when the weather outside is cold, by simply buying safe heaters(the ones that don't catch things on fire) even though we place it in safe places, not only that we turn on the oven and leave it half way open or depending all the way open all night long, that you don't feel any cold breeze in the kitchen.
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