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Admin
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 Posted - 09/08/2004 : 8:07:34 PM
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How would you address a couple or a single misbehaving at the nude beach?
This was a discussion that began in another thread, that deserves its own place.
What would you say, if in only a sentence or two, to convey to people behaving sexually at the public nude beach that they are risking ruining it for everyone?
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Sloboy
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Posted - 09/08/2004 : 10:37:57 PM
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Quite simply, I would say that your actions are neither appreciated nor are they legal on this public beach. If you need to continue your conduct, there is a motel south/north of this area on route umpity/up.
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Cheri
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Posted - 09/08/2004 : 10:57:26 PM
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I would possibly tell them that their behaviour could lead to us losing the beach and to find a more appropriate location away from the beach. I don't think I would give them implicit locations. :)
Cheri
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Sloboy
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Posted - 09/08/2004 : 11:03:19 PM
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Dag nabbit! I think I'll go with Cheri's response mucho more. Thank god we have diplomats like her and not presidential candidates addressing this subject.
SLO
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nynudistcpl
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Posted - 09/09/2004 : 10:43:30 AM
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I've seen some sprirted debates start as a result of someone confronting inappropriate behavior. Conduct like entering dunes that are protected by fencing and signs, endangering wildlife and of course sex on the beach (isn't that a frozen drink). :)
On lighthouse beach on Long Island, confronting innappropriate behavior becomes a team effort. For example, if a person enters the dunes, all the regulars will join in unison to stop the behavior. It is very effective and it prevents individual confrontations.
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Edward Ludwig
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Posted - 09/09/2004 : 12:28:32 PM
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Cool it butt head or leave.
Ed
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Skeptic
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Posted - 09/14/2004 : 05:59:36 AM
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My sense is that the people to whom you are referring who go to a nude beach, that is, a beach that is normally occupied by nudists/naturists, engage in inappropriate conduct deliberately. They do it for a thrill, to misbehave, to shock the natives. Anything we say will only confirm their activity - in their minds. Any form of confrontation short of legal action will give them an ideal excuse to tell their accuser to take a hike. They may put it more strongly. Also, there is always a possibility of violence in any confrontation, so if you choose to brace somone like that, don't do it solo.
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Kimberly
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Posted - 09/15/2004 : 02:32:47 AM
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I think your right skeptic, most people know better, they just do it for the thrill. You do have to be careful that the other couple does not become violent. I would calmly mention to them that their behavior was inappropriate and they should take their activities else where. I think a group approach might have more weight to the suggestion.
Kim =^.^=
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calmnude
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Posted - 09/17/2004 : 8:10:14 PM
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i agree with kimberly. if one person approached them, they might just tell the person to kiss off.
approach by a group of regulars seems to be the most logical way.
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NudeAl
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Posted - 09/25/2004 : 5:33:21 PM
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I msut admit I am guilty of not saying anything either. It is damned awkward to say the least. Not only that but usually I go to the beach alone and I know which area to stay out of so I do that. When I have seen this type of behavior there is usually more than one male in attendance so I would be outnumbered from the start. There is the threat of leagal action I suppose but then this draws the long arm of the law down to your beach and it may be seen as nessesary to do away with the nude beach. I suppose just the threat and possibly being seen calling on a cell phone might work. Or what about taking a photo of them in the act and threatening to call the cops with it if they don't knock it off. I still think this would result in physical violence though. It is tough to handle this kind of situation unless your side out numbers theirs. They know what they are doing is wrong they just don't give a damn.
"The best dress for walking is nakedness." Colin Fletcher
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jdr
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Posted - 09/26/2004 : 1:56:52 PM
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Ask them, "Are you trying to impress us, or just get our beach closed down?" Taking pictures and making threats may prove dangerous to body and camera.
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NudeAl
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Posted - 09/26/2004 : 2:08:50 PM
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Perhaps I should clarify. I didn't mean making verbal or physical threats. I meant the threat of the authorities being called or being seen to be calling on a cell phone may discourage them a bit.
"The best dress for walking is nakedness." Colin Fletcher
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calmnude
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Posted - 09/26/2004 : 8:37:26 PM
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Nudeal,
depending on the beach and the groups that attend, and the quality of the relationship between the nude beach folk and the authorities, sometimes they ARE called, and appropriate action taken.
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NudeAl
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Posted - 09/27/2004 : 8:33:57 PM
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That's the best situation I think. "Hey knock it off or I'm calling the cops!" Or something similar.
"The best dress for walking is nakedness." Colin Fletcher
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wannabe2
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Posted - 09/27/2004 : 8:55:00 PM
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Too bad you couldn't throw a cold bucket of water at them!
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breadmanpaul
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Posted - 05/29/2005 : 04:49:52 AM
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I was on a CO beach once when I guy was openly masturbating. This seems to be the exception, not the rule. Everyone just ignored him.
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