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iamanudist
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 Posted - 08/14/2006 : 12:53:23 AM
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Clothes with less coverage for a positive image
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Edited by - iamanudist on 10/04/2007 1:37:39 PM
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openess
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Posted - 08/14/2006 : 06:11:03 AM
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Certainly promoting a positive image is a good thing, but I disagree with your course of action on two counts: 1. Encouraging your daugther to be scantily clad in a culture where most members have successfully (like it or not) been conditioned to associate skin with sexuality could subject her to unpleasant and unwanted attention, and possibly danger. 2. People should come to naturism naturally, of their own free will. Your methods suggest some level of coercion has been applied. Let her find her own way on her own schedule following the guidance of her own heart.
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Cheri
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Posted - 08/14/2006 : 08:31:23 AM
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It's definitely exhibitionism and definitely NOT nudism when one is scantily clad.
Cheri
Doing what I can to positively promote nudism
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NaturistDoc
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Posted - 08/14/2006 : 09:05:06 AM
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This whole discussion seems highly bogus from the get-go. We're supposed to believe that "Martha's" rule for her daughter is: dress like a ho, or get kicked out of the house? Please. "Martha" writes more like a porn-happy middle-aged guy than a mother of an 18 year old daughter. I"m not buying it.
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nurserobin
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Posted - 08/14/2006 : 09:24:51 AM
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I'm with you Doc - especially if "Martha" has read any of the forums previous to this - scantily clad = sexual in our culture and she would have figured this out before posting that she's sending her 18 year old out in the world as a potential victim from advertising her sexual message via dressing to attract men. On a date with a short skirt and no underwear and she's happy about it? Please....
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FireProf
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Posted - 08/14/2006 : 9:15:33 PM
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Count the Fireman and the Professor (now also a Doctor ) in with the good Doctor and Nurse!
The initial post smells too fishy for us!
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Rodders
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Posted - 08/15/2006 : 03:48:16 AM
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It really does stretch the imagination to believe that an eighteen year old WOMAN would allow herself to be dictated to house rules that enforce her to go out wearing mid-thigh length skirts without underwear. Short skirts ride up (delightfully) when the wearer sits down and so this girl is constantly risking flashing her pudenda when taking a seat, getting out of cars walking upstairs, walking down the street in a stiff breeze and other normal everyday activities. We as nudists are used to seeing the entire body but dressing like this with quite healthy, predatory young males about is risking the kind of attention no woman regardless of age need expose herself to. Yes, women do go without any underwear but for reasons of comfort not just to ensure the very minimum of coverage to the body, which in this case clearly means the pubic area. All smacks of male masturbatory daydreams to me. So, Martha if you are genuine you certainly are radical and given the current social climate, your daughter is either a pioneer or taking unnecessary risks. I assume that you enjoy doing the same?
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bornnude
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Posted - 08/15/2006 : 06:55:42 AM
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And here I was thinking this was "only" an abusive situation for the daughter to be in.
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JustJim
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Posted - 08/15/2006 : 07:36:39 AM
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The one thing that drives me nuts on this forum (and I enjoy most of it so I'm not being negative) is that everyone is "too polite" to point out when they think a bogus message has been submitted by some 14 year old kid playing on his computer. "Martha" is obviously just that.
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EuroTim
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Posted - 08/15/2006 : 07:36:40 AM
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"This whole discussion seems highly bogus from the get-go. We're supposed to believe that "Martha's" rule for her daughter is: dress like a ho, or get kicked out of the house? Please. "Martha" writes more like a porn-happy middle-aged guy than a mother of an 18 year old daughter. I"m not buying it." AMEN !
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FireProf
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Posted - 08/16/2006 : 01:36:46 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by JustJim
The one thing that drives me nuts on this forum (and I enjoy most of it so I'm not being negative) is that everyone is "too polite" to point out when they think a bogus message has been submitted by some 14 year old kid playing on his computer. "Martha" is obviously just that.
JustJim
Does it really make sense to "go off" and be impolite, so to speak, at everyone else's expense? We are hoping that whoever wrote this read a few of the replies and knows they didn't fool anyone, so hopefully they'd stop posting and go play somewhere else.
It makes no sense to be abusive and durogatory just in case some real naturist newbie comes to visit and reads this stuff. We'd like them to think we're at least civil!
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JustJim
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Posted - 08/16/2006 : 07:35:34 AM
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Civil yes....mindlessly gulllible? I hope not.
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FireProf
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Posted - 08/16/2006 : 6:22:15 PM
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[i]Originally posted by JustJim ....mindlessly gulllible? I hope not.
JustJim
I totally agree with you here. I didn't read or see any of this in the responding posts. Maybe you were just giving posters a heads up not to go in that direction.
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Rodders
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Posted - 08/17/2006 : 12:55:19 PM
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12 responses (including mine previous) Marty! Well done.
Rod
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leo 50
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Posted - 08/17/2006 : 3:58:19 PM
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why i don't post much here,i must say this:
that post of marthas daughter reads like a "pulp sex" book from the 50's and 60's. my daughters were taught the "body beautiful", not how to dress like a sunset strip hooker.
it's bogus.
if you reach for the stars ,you shall hold them in your hand.
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Rodders
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Posted - 08/17/2006 : 5:09:51 PM
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Well said Leo.
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