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Ann37
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 Posted - 03/19/2007 : 3:07:04 PM
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I am 37 yo,realy love going naked,what i`d like is to go to nudist place with husband and my 12 yo son too in fact as a family.
The point is how to get them to accept it speacialy my son...
Expecting advices from you people.
Ann
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FireProf
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Posted - 03/20/2007 : 1:07:40 PM
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Hello Ann37,
I will respond to you as I do to males with the same question, from time to time.
Being nude in front of others is difficult enough in the privacy of your own home much less in a public place like the beach or semi-public...like a club.
My first suggestion would be that you discuss this with your husband and son. If they are agreeable then I think it's best you get used to being nude in front of each other at home first. Once everyone is comfortable with this, you can take this out into your backyard, if you have the privacy. All of this may take days, weeks, months to accomplish a level of comfort for your son and husband. On the other hand, it could take only hours or minutes and you'll be on your way to a nude beach or club.
To expose them to this new way of life; After you've discussed this with both of them, you could not dress after your shower or wear a robe but do not tie it closed, begin doing simple everyday chores around the house in just a blouse or robe that is unbuttoned or open. As time passes and they become to accept the clothes free lifestyle, you can disgard the blouse or robe and they will either be comfortable with your nudity and hopefull begin to participate.
In the evenings, wear simular types of clothing while watching TV or reading. Begin keeping doors open while dressing and undressing. If the opportunity presents itself, skinny dip or sunbath nude.
It may take a bit of time, it may take no time at all. They will either support you and participate, support you and not participate or rebel and ask you not to do it any longer. At any rate, you need to sit down and discuss this with both of them and tell them about your feelings, desires and love for being nude and your hopes for them to share it with you as a family.
Take care and good luck.
FireProf
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Cheri
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Posted - 03/20/2007 : 2:00:27 PM
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Ann, Read all the information that's good and positive about bringing up children in this wonderfully relaxing lifestyle you can. Studies and journal articles written by Marilyn Story, for one, show it's healthy. Even Dr. Spock has commented positively about it. You might also go to www.naturistsociety.com and click on Resources and take a look and/or print out 205 arguments in support of naturism. Take a look around these forums.
For some, it's easier going to a beach or club the first time. For others it's easier in their homes. Each individual in different. Discuss it with your husband and decide if this is going to be something for the three of you or just the two of you. Some use nudism and visiting clubs and beaches as an escape from the children, others include their families. There's no reason to not included them as children are the most natural nudists.
I wish you well.
Cheri
Doing what I can to positively promote nudism
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jmg33188
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Posted - 03/20/2007 : 7:08:54 PM
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Ann, from a child's prospective, I have been going to nude beaches since I was 4. Even though my family members are not nudists, I have recently become one. As far as your son, I hit an awkward stage around that age because of puberty. I would first begin slowly. Sit him down and talk to him about it. I would be more than happy to talk to him myself if you would like me too. He is at a rough stage in his life though with all the bodily changes he is going through. I think going to a resort too quickly would be too big of a step. Try getting him to be comfortable being nude at home first before you jump to going to a resort. Maybe during the summer, go to a nude beach to get him used to the idea of being naked in public. This past summer, my girlfriend and I went and she had never gone before. It took a couple of trips before she was comfortable. (we are both 20 yrs old). Even though she was comfortable being naked at home, being nude in public is completely different. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck
V/R
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NudeAl
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Posted - 03/20/2007 : 10:17:06 PM
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Wow this is a twist! Usually it is the husband who is trying to introduce the topic to his wife.
Well I will echo the suggestions already given. I will also suggest a gradual increase in the nude around the home time to see how everyone handles it in a familiar setting. There are a some great sites on the web dealing with introducing this to family members I would suggest taking a look at the AANR web site as well as the Naturist Society web page there is a ton of info out there on the web.
In my own case it took a long time and lots of uh lets see discussions on the subject along with tons of pleading for her to give it a try. She had a number of misconceptions about nudism and the reasons people did it. After over a year of coaxing she did eventually go and she even enjoyed herself. Fast forward fifteen years and we have been to numerous nude destinations, we've been to half a dozen clubs over the years several nude beaches and countless nude house parties. So it is possible with patience and understanding the other persons concerns. I also believe most men take to nudism like a duck to water. Your twelve year old son may be another hurdle. He is entering puberty and that is a time when most teenage boys tend to have difficulties adjusting to the changes their bodies are going through. Again patience and understanding and an honest conversation on the matter will go a long way towards making him feel comfortable. At most of the Resorts I have been to they make certain allowances for the teenage crowd. They tend to let them remain dressed unless they are going to use the pool or hot tub.
I think you have an excellent chance at getting the family involved here. I was interested in this sort of thing when AI was a kid and would really have liked it if my folks had taken me to a nude camp or beach. I know my kids all had a good time when we went and so did the wife after some initial hesitation. So good luck and keep us posted.
The woods are lovely, dark and deep, But I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep. -- Robert Frost
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ewell39
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Posted - 04/22/2007 : 2:04:04 PM
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My wife maria and I started the Nude lifestyle even before we were married. The only problem we have had is I have a 16 year old son from a previous marriage and when he visits or stays over he literally lust after my Nude wife. She is more careful now not to have her legs spread so openingly as she normally does because I could see how obviously it was affecting my teen son. We practice Nudity without its purpose being a sexual event. If anyone has any questions feel free to inquire at ewell39@msn.com
ewell allen
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ggwydion
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Posted - 04/22/2007 : 3:17:26 PM
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It could just be in my mind, but does this post sound a bit off? Why would this poster captalize "Nude" in the middle of a sentence? "My Nude wife" Sorry, im an english person and this just does not sound right, please poster, if I am wrong let me know.
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beachnudist
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Posted - 04/22/2007 : 4:14:47 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by ggwydion
It could just be in my mind, but does this post sound a bit off? Why would this poster captalize "Nude" in the middle of a sentence? "My Nude wife" Sorry, im an english person and this just does not sound right, please poster, if I am wrong let me know.
I don't think it is. If you read the post and his profile you will see a quirky use of capitalization. I think that is all it is.
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