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ROB g
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Posted - 10/15/2008 : 12:51:12 PM
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This subject was never brought up when I lived at home. I always wore something to bed. But after I got out on my own I have slept nude ever since. And I am nude when ever I can be. i have always felt comortable in the nude. At first I thought maybe I was just an exibitionist when ever playing truth or dare and told to take my clothes off and stay that way till given permission to put them back on and never ask if I could get dressed. Or when playing stripping games when Iwas usually the first one out and took the longest to get dressed. but my way of thinking has always been I'd rather be the only naked than the only one dressed. I have always felt akward being dressed in front of compleetly nude people. But not so being the bare naked in front of compleetly dreesed . I know that sounds weird. I think as long as it is done with in reason people should raise their kids in a nudist enviorment.
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rooftopwilly
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Posted - 10/15/2008 : 3:09:33 PM
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quote: Originally posted by Freckles
Thanks guys,
I'm still here. It won't change the way I bring up my kids but I won't be posting anything about it here. Willy & Agde (or anyone else)- I'm quite happy to chat about these things by PM if you are interested.
Freckles
well freckles, i understand your reluctance to do so, but i wish you wouldn't allow just 2 opinions to force you to change your ways. but if you'd like to, then great, i'm all up for it. as i said before, i have a 6 year old i'm trying to bring up in the lifestyle. so far, she has no qualms about it, but we'll see in the next 2 or 3 years.
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thornapplebison
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Posted - 10/16/2008 : 02:41:08 AM
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No, I don't owe anyone an apology. This is a forum for discussing nudism, not exhibitionism or the budding sexuality of a toddler.
I'm sure these are issues of interest to mothers, but they're also of interest to sexual predators. If you've ever read the family forum at nudist friends, you know how this sort of discussion can not only invite a dangerous element, but severely damage the reputation and public conception of nudism.
Freckles, I appreciate your decision. I would also caution you to be very concerned about any man who wants to have private conversations with you about your child's sexuality.
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Diger
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Posted - 10/16/2008 : 11:02:11 AM
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Thornapplebison,
I agree you don't OWE anyone a apology. You are entitled to your opinions and are others. But as far as this topic goes, I don't think you are right about it. I know another Naturist mother that use to post here, that quit because she felt no one wants to talk about real naturist issues. She told me it was all about shaving and errections ... and we wonder why we can't keep females interested in this forum.
I say let the pervs and predators be weeded out by the admin, and they can with our help. It doesn't take much to spot the predators here. Personaly I think if Freckles grew up Naturist she can spot a predator and can handle them. Some of us that were not raised naturist are not use to the day to day topics that have to be delt with and they sound creepy to us, but thats real life.
Freckles, Please continue with this topic. My wife and I have been raising two boys in a Naturist home, when we did not grow up Naturist ourselves. Some times it's good to here the voice of experience.
No offence intended Thornapplebison and hope none was taken.
Diger
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ROB g
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Posted - 10/16/2008 : 11:33:38 AM
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Every one has made some great points here. But can you really spot a predator ? How many times do read in the paper or see ,listen to the news when the predator turns out to be a close friend or a family member. Any one who wants to raise their kids this way is great. And just remeber that in my opion you take the same chances raising kids as non nudists as you do nudists. All you can do is pray that they will be safe no matter what. and that you made the right decions on how you raised them. Once they are ready to live on their own. My philosphy is this the first person to see naked and the last one to see naked is a compeleet stanger. what happens in between all we can do is hope for the best.
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Warmskin
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Posted - 11/06/2008 : 01:49:12 AM
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That I could have only been raised as a nudist instead of being completely shamed of my body. Of course, the effort of my family to keep me ashamed didn't pan out. I found out early in life that I preferred no clothing. Nothing much is worse than having to lead a secret life is the only way of describing my being brought up. Please don't get me wrong, however, many other parts of my upbrining were of the highest value to this day.
The intermediate result of being taught to be ashamed of my body was that I thought being naked was somewhere on the order of sneaky and immoral. When bathing, I guess I didn't see the evil of being naked there. Conflict of values? I would say so. That's why I like being nude; it produces harmony within me.
That government governs best, which governs least - Thomas Jefferson
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