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nudeboy
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 Posted - 05/03/2004 : 09:19:56 AM
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Nude people having sex is not to be confused with nude people in a public place having sex.Last summer at the quiet end of the beach there was a man and woman, and he was trying to have sex with her as he sat astride her buttocks massaging her shoulders.She was not encouraging him or discouraging him,she was just putting up with him.
I walked past and commented with words to the effect that it was a public place and they should stop.He had his erection nestling on top of her buttocks otherwise he might have stood up and punched me for"interferring".He stopped,not because of what I said,but because more people were walking along the beach in their direction.
That incident messed up what should have been a great afternoon,as I felt stressed out by their behaviour.
So ,if you are reading this mr loverboy -remember to behave yourself properly next time you are naked in a public place.
nudeboy..
because its how I was born
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nudeisntlewd
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Posted - 05/03/2004 : 12:12:01 PM
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I think Eva has a good idea, offering a forum for the specific topic of sex and nudism. That is one of the things people do nude. There should be a place for everything. I also think that for this target audience, it should be left alone here. This site is well trafficked by newcomers and we don't want them to mis-understand the practice of nudism in general.
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Kimberly
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Posted - 05/04/2004 : 03:19:46 AM
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Your right Randy, it can be discussed, but not in such graphic details!
Kim =^.^=
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AinNY
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Posted - 05/27/2004 : 12:40:52 PM
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I think some people are a little too oversensitive about the issue.
Im a newby...so i might not have the right to speak up...im just offering my opinion.
I feel that there is nothing wrong with the topic....Sex is a part of life(at least for me it is) wether or not i have clothes on should not effect that.
There is a difference between people just using nude beaches as place for sex...and just being sexual. We are all sexual people. To deny that, IMHO, is just foolish.
Its like this....when I see an attractive female, regardless of wether or not she is clothed, I am going to have the same reaction. No...im not going to get aroused. I am going to appreciate her looks though the same respectful way i would as if we were both dressed for work.
I understand and respect everyone's POV's. Some people are more sexual beings than others....should they be persecuted b/c of it? No. should they be respectful of others at all times? YES.
Should we regulated how people act and what they talk about b/c we are nude? NO...i think that is missing the point of being naked....its being free...free to be who you are. Of course there should be some ediquette and tact used...and everyone should always be respectful of others. But for the most part, if you dont like it...just look away.
Its a hard line to draw and its gets even more confusing when everyone is naked ;) But to me its not a big deal with what others do. Sex is not a bad thing in my book. I dont particularly like seeing other people "doing it" in public places, but I will not let that ruin my day.
Im sorry if I have offended anyone. I just wanted to express my opnion. Dont hate me too much...i like it here :D
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Kimberly
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Posted - 05/28/2004 : 03:28:17 AM
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AinNY you have a right to your opinions, no one in here is going to hate you. What Randy was saying is this site (nudist-resorts.org) is the number one site when people are doing searches on nudism. We would like to give those people that are new to nudism, or curious about nudism, a good first impression. This is not a porn site, and some words used here will direct people to this site. We don't want people who are doing a search on swingers or sex on the beach to be pointed to this site. That is why some words are deleted, and certain things are not discussed.
Kim =^.^=
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Dave
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Posted - 05/28/2004 : 05:14:30 AM
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 Kim is right ,no matter how new you are to this site you have to be heard from!Different views make this site successful!!Dave..
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AinNY
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Posted - 05/28/2004 : 09:32:20 AM
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Thanks guys. I agree with you all on that. There is no need for blantant sexual talk on this site. I was just speaking in general.
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johann777
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Posted - 07/03/2004 : 4:12:44 PM
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why not have sex on the beach? As long as there is no kids around. I think that every community or group of people is going to be mixed. Some people taking advantage of the nudity for physical reasons, and some for psychological reasons. The problem for me isnt when Im at a resort, its trying to go back to a normal mindset when I leave. I am a beginner though :)
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james423
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Posted - 07/03/2004 : 8:35:23 PM
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Why not have sex on the beach? Because that is the best way to lose a nude beach. The reason nude beaches had a difficult time gaining acceptance is that most people's initial reaction was that the nudity was directly involved with sex. It has taken many years to gain acceptance (even if not large scale participation) for nude beaches by showing the general public that nude beaches are basically just like any other beaches except that many of the people don't wear swimsuits. While I have seen sexual acts on clothing-required beaches as well as on clothing optional beaches, the general public is far more aware of the fact that the former situation is an aberration (they KNOW that sex on beaches where swimsuits are required is the rare exception) while they may still harbor some doubt as to whether the latter is an aberration (they DON'T know for sure whether sex on a clothing optional beach is the rare exception). Just because children aren't present at the time doesn't mean that a plea won't go up to ban the nudity for the sake of the children. It happens at nude beaches even where there's been no report of sexual activity & reported sexual activity gives even more ammunition to those who wish to ban nude beaches. If you really want to have sex, find some place other than your local nude beach.
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Cheri
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Posted - 07/04/2004 : 1:32:45 PM
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Thank you, James.
johann777, It seems as if you have the wrong idea of what nudism is about. Nudism is about the accepting of yourself and others not for what you look like, own, or wear. It's about enjoying the freedom from constricting clothing, eg. swimsuits.
The only difference between real nudists and others is that after a large meal, nudists have no belt to loosen.
Cheri
Doing what I can to positively promote nudism
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Ned Adams
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Posted - 07/12/2004 : 09:08:44 AM
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I like the way you said this. It does show that we do not want to offend others, and so will not ourselves have sex in a public place, but we "will not let it ruin our day". Thank you.
I dont particularly like seeing other people "doing it" in public places, but I will not let that ruin my day.
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Ned Adams
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Posted - 07/12/2004 : 09:16:01 AM
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Congratulations, your point really needs to be emphasised to all nudists. There are many people who wish to close nude beaches and not open any new ones. Confronting them with "chaste nudism" may have a positive effect, but if they are confronted with sex on the beach, it is very likely that negative things will happen.
Keep emphasising your points.
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Originally posted by james423
Why not have sex on the beach? Because that is the best way to lose a nude beach. The reason nude beaches had a difficult time gaining acceptance is that most people's initial reaction was that the nudity was directly involved with sex. It has taken many years to gain acceptance (even if not large scale participation) for nude beaches by showing the general public that nude beaches are basically just like any other beaches except that many of the people don't wear swimsuits. While I have seen sexual acts on clothing-required beaches as well as on clothing optional beaches, the general public is far more aware of the fact that the former situation is an aberration (they KNOW that sex on beaches where swimsuits are required is the rare exception) while they may still harbor some doubt as to whether the latter is an aberration (they DON'T know for sure whether sex on a clothing optional beach is the rare exception). Just because children aren't present at the time doesn't mean that a plea won't go up to ban the nudity for the sake of the children. It happens at nude beaches even where there's been no report of sexual activity & reported sexual activity gives even more ammunition to those who wish to ban nude beaches. If you really want to have sex, find some place other than your local nude beach.
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Ned Adams
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Posted - 07/13/2004 : 04:42:47 AM
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Originally posted by eva-germany
I have been on some nudist boards and the thing what made me feel uncomfortable was, that you could not talk about adult themes with adults on an adult board.
I respect the restrictions but there has to be open talk about everything somewhere.
So I created The Openminded Nudist Board
at [link deleted]
You are welcome to join
eVa
sky clad if possible
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webmistress of the only thymoma cancer website http://thymoma.de
How do I join if the link is deleted?
I tried to join, fould a link, and looked at it briefly, but when I came back, I got a message that it was dead because the opeator had not kept it up. What was going on?
Please tell me how to find the link again. It was interesting.
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Admin
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Posted - 07/13/2004 : 2:51:17 PM
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Ned, we had to delete that link because the subject matter of the website when we reviewed it was outside of our guidelines for material we would link to.
We have no objection to your going there, or anywhere else for that matter. Just try looking up "The Openminded Nudist Board" on Google. I don't know if Eva is still maintaining it.
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COBALT_Blue
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Posted - 11/24/2004 : 12:21:12 PM
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Nudism and Sex
I think nudism and sex does get mixed up sometimes. I think that in Europe and particularly in Germany the people are more in touch with themselves and more comfortable with nudity. I remember walking round the Englische Garten in Munich some years ago. It was full of nudists and naked people just enjoying themselves the same way in which clothed people would. No one batted an eyelid and its probably how nudism was intended to be. I cannot for the life of me imagine the same scene in London's Hyde Park. Well I can, but it wouldn't be pretty.
The point of nudism surely is the sense of freedom and the choice to remove clothes, go for a swim and just generally chill out. I am not sure what all the fuss is about. I wonder sometimes why people go to extraordinary lengths just to get naked even in mid winter when any fool can see its best to wrap up warm.
There is a certain element of voyeurism in naturism. I am convinced of this. Most of it is harmless and mild but endless photos of guys seeking pleasure in having their photos taken - standing straight, arm on hip, staring out to sea - the emphasis on 'look at my willy' is really not a good promotion of nudism in general. Even nude on a beach, I would prefer my lower half left out of the picture but would have no objections to being photographed fully in a group with others naked. I would not like to be photographed posing just for the sake of it. This has nothing to do with not being ashamed or being ashamed of anything. Nudists who make a habit of this attract ridicule and do naturism no favours.
In the United Kingdom there are several nudist beaches. Unfortunately, these beaches inevitably attract the 'man in mac' types and all the nudists tend to be bunched up into some signposted area with big read warning signs as if the occupants of this part of the beach are abnormal. Even more disturbing is that they are almost always against a backdrop of sand dunes. Look closely and you can see the glint of light shining off the array of binoculars and bird watchers amongst the grass - sadly they are not seeking the feathered birds. I am sorry if I paint a sorry and seedy picture of nudism in the UK. There are of course places where you can find secluded locations and out of the way places where you can relax and enjoy nudism as it should be enjoyed.
Having enjoyed naturism in the past in countries where the climate and environment is more condusive to feeling the wind between ones legs, I am not against naturism in any way at all.
For me naturism is a personal thing. Perhaps something to be enjoyed with a group of friends or whenever the occassion lends itself. It is not something that will cause me to run off in desperation to find the nearest place to remove my clothes.
So, nudism and sex. The two are tied obviously - I hear you gasp. Look around the internet to try and find a reasonable naturist site such as this one and you find endless exploits of photos of naturists, nudist videos for sale and nudist sites designed for people to come and oggle. Great if your a voyeur and this is what you want. How many genuine naturists have posted their nude pics somewhere on the net only to find that they end up on some porn site or adult image bank. Failing that, and I am sorry to be blunt, but how many end up decorating someones desktop and objects of lust and desire by people saving money on buying the latest Playboy mag.
Naturists need to be careful. If your footloose and fancy free and really don't give a damn thats fine but what happens when you get married, have kids maybe, and then, lo and behold your 9 year old photo of you naked is found plastered all over some website. Believe me, it happens.
The reason why naturism and sex go hand in hand is the reason we have naturist clubs that do not generally accept single men. The safety and security factor of such clubs provides a better environment for nudists. There are also plenty of 'swingers' who
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