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Kimberly
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 Posted - 10/10/2003 : 03:59:48 AM
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I agree with Cheri, Hedonism II is not the place to take her, unless thats what you two are into.
Kim =^.^=
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revans30
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Posted - 11/04/2003 : 07:14:19 AM
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Man R U crazy? Give the girl a chance!!! Remember love is unconditional.
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Spontanudity
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Posted - 11/04/2003 : 07:37:47 AM
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Just out of curiosity, Kim and Cheri... Have you been to Hedonism II???
Cheers,
Spontanudity
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Cheri
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Posted - 11/04/2003 : 09:14:29 AM
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No, I've not been and from all reports, I'll not be going.
Hugs, Cheri
Doing what I can to positively promote nudism
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nudinono
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Posted - 11/04/2003 : 1:41:16 PM
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nature r us;too much info.can boggle mind. so I make it simple--#1 shed her and regret for it for the rest of your life or #2 shed your clothes with her and be embarresed for a little bit. (I'd pick #2 in a heartbeat)
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FireProf
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 Posted - 11/05/2003 : 11:20:13 PM
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nature r us,
You love this woman? Then never make her choose between nudism and a marriage without it.
It will be cause for friction forever.
Strip with her and jump in and water is great!
My wife was hesitant at first and now loves the lifestyle, give nudism a chance, you'll wonder what all the fuss was about in no time!
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Spontanudity
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Posted - 11/07/2003 : 10:21:56 PM
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Cheri,
I haven't been to Hedonism either, but surely you have to experience it before you can make a judgement call on it. I understand there are two different cultures there. Obviously the sexual/swinging side, but also a naturist element. I don't want to cast a judgement until I've at least been there... I might make it a mission next northern summer.
Cheers,
Spontanudity
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Kimberly
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Posted - 11/08/2003 : 05:33:18 AM
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Spontanudity;
What Cheri and I were alluding to is Hedonism II is not the place you take someone for the first time to expose them to nudity. The main them at Hedonism II is swinging, and it is very open and encouraged, there are parties to get people together. Hedonism II is a very nice all inclusive expensive resort, and yes people can go there that are not swingers, but it would be like a bunch of teenagers going to a Guy Lombardo concert.
Kim =^.^=
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Spontanudity
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Posted - 11/08/2003 : 8:39:24 PM
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From what I've read its not all about swinging and I would hate to offer an opinion about something I have not experienced myself. Probably much the same as those textiles that negatives opinions of naturism who haven't even tried it.
Saying that, I agree there are probably a number of better resorts around to try, rather than risk traveling to the Caribbean and pay big money on something that may not suit the couple.
Cheers,
Spontanudity
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Kimberly
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Posted - 11/09/2003 : 04:07:16 AM
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There are other clubs in the Carribean that are very nice, and are real nudist resorts. There just some clubs that are geared towads adult activties because they are popular and profitable.
Kim =^.^=
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Spontanudity
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Posted - 11/09/2003 : 08:30:28 AM
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Kim,
Tell me... What makes a "real" nudist resort and what doesn't? I don't think you could honestly make that call without having experienced it. Regardless of what you have read/heard. I think its determental to naturist resorts and the movement making judgement calls without having personally experienced the service.
Cheers,
Spontanudity
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Kimberly
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Posted - 11/10/2003 : 04:50:30 AM
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Spontanudity;
Cheri is in the buisness and has the information. I have talked with several couples that have been to Hedonism II and I have seen the the pictures. My opinion, and I say my opinion, a true nudist resort caters to those people who want to enjoy nudism. There are clubs in the US too that state up front, that they cater to the adult nudist only, and sponsor activities that appeal to swingers. I am not criticising adult nudist resorts, people have a choice of where they want to go. I was mearly stating that exposing someone to the nudist lifestyle for the first time, should be at a regular nudist resort. It would be possible for someone to experience a resort like Hedo II for the first time, and come away with the opinion that all nudists are swingers.
Kim =^.^=
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Spontanudity
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Posted - 11/10/2003 : 06:18:28 AM
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Kim,
Many would agrue that Cap d'Agde in France is a swingers resort. During the day its very much family oriented, at night the leather whips and chains come out. There are even swingers nightclubs for couples only.
I'm sure many people would claim that the Cap' is a "real" nudist resort. As I said, what makes one different from the other???
Cheers,
Spontanudity
"Forever Naked"
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Kimberly
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Posted - 11/11/2003 : 04:29:31 AM
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Spontanudity;
The two clubs that we attend in Vancouver, I have never seen or heard of any swinging activities. We took the kids to Disney World and stopped off at nudist clubs on the way. At one nudist club in Florida, we were constantly asked to swing. When we politely declined, they asked, "Why did you come here then?" Maybe I should have not used the term "real", nudist club. I am just trying to differentiate between those clubs that promote naturism/nudism, and swinging.
Kim =^.^=
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FireProf
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Posted - 11/12/2003 : 5:35:19 PM
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I will try and come to Kim's rescue here. I think what she is saying, in regards to "real nudist resorts," is this:
Nudism for many of us is a family oriented lifesytle. Nudist have sex, that's a given, where do you think little nudist come from. But, just because we are nude doesn't mean that we need to have sex or have sex on the mind while we are nude.
"Real" nudist venues strive to separate the sex from nudity. We want mainstream society to accept what we do as wholesome and defiant. Because a resort, club or city call themselves a "nudist" whatever, doesn't necessarily mean they hold the naturist philosophy at the same level we do.
One resort on the east coast has been talked about and written about in length about the growing number of swingers pretending to be "nudists" only to be there for one reason...sex with other partners. We visit a couples resort in Palm Springs quite frequently. The owners and manager are constently having to ask some visitors to behave themselves out in the open or take it to your room. We found out that,this, our favorite place to go for the day and longer is now on a website for nude venues for swingers.
This is absolutely false but the ability to erase what has started is extremely difficult. Sex on the beach is another problem. We have had couples just about do everything you can think of right in front of us, as to say...if you're nude in public, it's okay for someone to have sex in front of you. My wife asked if they would do this if we were on a textile beach, they replied "no", then what gives you the right to do this just because we are nude.
"Real" nude resorts are very conscious and careful of the message that is sent out to mainstream society and especially to those who want to give true naturism a try. We want more women involved, more young adults, teens and children to become nudist. We need to make sure that the true naturist philosophy is heard and observed.
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