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old hippie
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 Posted - 01/25/2009 : 10:52:16 AM
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Courtesy works both ways - a host would not want to make a guest feel uncomfortable, but a guest should make as much effort to avoid discomfiting the host. It seems your neighbor is not bothered by nudity, per se, since the GF is already nude during visits. So Agde's advice is right on target: give the neighbor fair warning, and then be comfortable in your own abode.
Common sense and good etiquette are often the same thing.
Peace,
yer Old Hippie
Dum vivimus, vivamus!
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blackrebel
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Posted - 01/25/2009 : 11:26:13 AM
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Sounds as if the GF has an unfair and irrational double standard. She may be setting herself up for being called out by asking the neighbor in front of the GF if the neighbor thinks that it's fair that you are required to dress while she has the ability to remain undressed. THEN DUCK  . Maybe the neighbor could also help the GF see that she is being unfair.
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Posted - 07/22/2012 : 2:16:05 PM
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I would actually take time when 3 of you are in the same room to openly ask the neighbor woman if she would mind if you also were nude just like your wife was nude, odds are she cares less may even join in but it puts wife on spot where she just would end up more saying sure go ahead as to not create a scene.
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Bob Knows
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Posted - 08/06/2012 : 09:35:20 AM
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Originally posted by HearthfireSpring
My wife and I are having this issue right now. She was raised in a nudist household and she brought me into it. We have been in New Mexico for a few years helping my inlaws move into there new home and due to reasons of economy we are forced to stay with the inlaws for the time being. Now my wife was raised a nudist and is how she perfers to be and in the past we have been nude around the mother in law without problems. Our problem now is that she has decided that she no longer cares for the lifestyle and demands that we be dressed at all times. Now its her house and I have no problem with that but whenever shes hot or just doesen't want to ware clothing she strips breaking her own household rules. We are going to be leaving her home soon and the problem will go away but its still annoying.
Andy
Clothing is not your problem, Andy. Your problem is that your wife is using clothing as a mechanism to assert her domination and control of her husband. She obviously wears the pants in your family, makes the rules, and exercises her control.. That is the problem.
Bob Knows.
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