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cyndi
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Posted - 11/11/2003 : 11:16:04 AM
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You see? Kev can't answer my questions because his decisions weren't based on thought out decision making. He's hiding from me and everyone and it makes me wonder why. Where are your credentials Kev?
Why are you linked to Netnude when they discuss masturbation? Why am I being treated differently thatn Cheri, who also links to a website that talks about masturbation?
Where are all these flames you said I made? You want to hang me out to dry publicly here but you are hiding your own demons. Bet I can find them!
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Dan1208
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 Posted - 11/11/2003 : 2:25:43 PM
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Cyndi,
The fact remains that the problem is your harsh and abrasive attitude toward others. No amount of chatter toward Admin, nor finger-pointing on your part will change that ... only your decision to settle in and get along with others. It has been pointed out a number of times that we do not all always agree with everybody, but most of us have a way of disagreeing agreeably and courteously. If you decide to calm down and take a look inwardly and really see how you are perceived by most members, your viewpoints (many of which are valid and honest) will go further to contribute to the various debates in a positive, constructive manner.
Naturally, Dan :)
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cyndi
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Posted - 11/11/2003 : 3:14:49 PM
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The fact remains that I'm accused of a lot of things I didn't do. Kev wanted me to post here, I didn't. I wanted to handle all this via email so live with it. Kevin is the one pointing fingers at me, did you not notice that? Are you that blind?
My website is as legit as any out there, I've not flamed a soul and the horrible comments here have gotten me angry, you'd be angry too.
Kevin refused to take this private, not me. What I did notice that anyone on here not falling into the same mold is harrassed by other posters and that is something I'd never permit on any of my sites.
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melissastarr
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Posted - 11/11/2003 : 3:27:42 PM
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Cyndiann,
It's obvious that you're rather upset with Kevin and with nudist-resorts.org as a whole. I won't argue with you or with Kevin about whether or not it's justified- I don't know all of the facts and am therefore at a loss for making a judgement call. However, it stands to reason that if you don't like the site, you don't like/ trust it's owner, and you think there are inconsistencies in the way things are handled then you have the right to not frequent the site. As with anything else in the world, if a consumer is not happy with the product they just go elsewhere. Simply put, maybe this site isn't a good match for your interests. There is nothing wrong with that. Kevin is who he is. He's not going to change himself or the site. It hardly seems fair to ask him to change himself or something that he puts a lot of time into. But you have the option of just choosing not to partake of it.
Melissa
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cyndi
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Posted - 11/11/2003 : 5:42:42 PM
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I also have the right to question what goes on here and that is what I am doing. This entire thread is out of line and should not have been put up here to begin with. If you don't like it please take it up with Kevin because it was not my idea, it was his, did you not read what he posted? He forced it and is most likely breaking the Terms of Service he has with his host. I will be finding that out shortly.
I will not leave as long as I'm being trashed on here. Somebody has to fight for the underdog.
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melissastarr
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Posted - 11/11/2003 : 5:45:55 PM
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Nobody ever said that you don't have the right to question what goes on. We're just pointing out that you also have the right to not take part in a message board that you dislike and disagree with. Personally, I think Kevin's a great guy and I'm thankful for all he's done to make these boards a safe and enjoyable place to visit. I realize that you disagree with this and you certainly are entitled to your beliefs.
Melissa
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cyndi
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Posted - 11/11/2003 : 5:51:45 PM
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What do you actually know about him? Really??
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Cheri
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Posted - 11/11/2003 : 6:15:03 PM
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I know Kevin and his other half. I've spoken with them at length about various topics pertinent to the nudist lifestyle. He affords us an opportunity to converse with others in a friendly atmosphere. What else do we need to know about him?!
Doing what I can to positively promote nudism
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melissastarr
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Posted - 11/11/2003 : 7:17:42 PM
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I've talked to Kevin quite a bit in the past week and have always found him pleasant to talk to. He has also been nice enough to devote a lot of times to making these boards fabulous and safe for everyone. That's what I know for now and I hope to get to know him better in the future.
Melissa
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Dan1208
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Posted - 11/11/2003 : 8:56:40 PM
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Wow, I agree Cheri and Melissa ... a great opportunity for us to communicate and debate in a friendly, comfortable atmosphere.
Hurrah for Kevin!
Naturally, Dan :)
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cyndi
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Posted - 11/12/2003 : 12:49:51 AM
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You even advocate that children couldn't be harmed by seeing more erections. This is wacky, and dangerous, and I won't involve this respectable forum with such public relations nightmares. You are welcome to make that your clarion call, but not in my forum.
Isn't this an "unpleasant arguement"?
Isn't this what you'd consider a "personal smear"?
Anyway, I know you have absolutely no proof that seeing an erection is harmful to anyone in any way. You are sooo silly!
This is a respectable forum? If it were you'd not allow your "members" to gang up on people with differing views.
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melissastarr
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Posted - 11/12/2003 : 05:44:09 AM
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"This is a respectable forum? If it were you'd not allow your "members" to gang up on people with differing views."
That's exactly what Kevin is trying to do.
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Spontanudity
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Posted - 11/12/2003 : 06:34:10 AM
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Oh dear, this was always a flame war waiting to happen.
I'm loathed to enter into this war, but I'm compelled to at least make a statement...
I tend to agree with Melissa, Cyndiann if you don't like it leave. I hate to say this but I'm sure this forum will remain in existence regardless of whether you choose to contribute or not.
As for your rights. The owner of this site has the right to choose who uses the service. As Melissa says, if you don't like a product you have the right to go elsewhere, and if a store owner doesn't want to sell you a product he has the right to refuse service.
Cyndiann, I personally have no opinion about your contribution to this site, while i've disagreed with a few of your opinions I have not been offended by any of your comments. I think the flame war between you and Kevin is ridiculous and unnecessary. Continuing this heated debate only detracts from your argument, I think you should either make-up or give-up.
Cheers,
Spontanudity
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cyndi
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Posted - 11/12/2003 : 09:14:24 AM
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I'm not leaving while such a demeaning thread is on this board. It is hurtful and liable to cause a misunderstanding about my websites. They should not have been banned, there are such topics on most nudist websites and there are links in this very site to such topics.
Again, for the third or fourth time it was not my decision to have this matter on this board, it was Kevin's. I am not stopping while unsubstantiated claims against My Nude Life are on here. This is hardly a friendly environment, not to me and not to anyone that doesn't blindly think just like the moderators.
I started posting last week because I saw you all attacking another person for having different views than you all did.
If you all want it to stop you need to talk to Kevin.
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Spontanudity
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Posted - 11/12/2003 : 09:38:18 AM
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Cyndiann,
By continuing to flame the moderator (and all other members on this board, which you claim are blinding following), you are merely proving that their opinions of you are correct. Put simply, you are not doing yourself or your website(s) any favours. Cyndiann, I had no opinion of your actions or comments prior to this thread. Reading your comments over the past couple of days is leaving me with some doubts.
Lets stop arguing and focus on more important issues like promoting naturism!
Cheers,
Spontanudity
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