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| necitachi |
Posted - 09/22/2009 : 11:38:51 PM
Ok Here's the downlow. I've been a nudist for a few years now but i still live with my rents and they don't like that choice so i only do it when they aren't home but the problem is one day i was at home doing some chores and hanging out and i was vacuming when my little sister got home from school. I didn't here the bus because of the vacum cleaner and she walks in on me still naked. She didn't freak out or anything she just smiled and left the room. I was worried. I went to put some clothes on and went to find her she was in her room. I sat down next to her and explained why i was the way i was when she got home and she said she knew that i did that sort of thing all the time becuase she's caught many times in my room like that without me knowing. She said it seemed like something to keep secret so she did. Then when i thought the convo was all done she asked if when she came home if she could join me in the nude endevours and i told her idk because that might not be approriate (she's only eleven). So i told her i'd think about it. Is it ok to encourage her to join me? or is that something i should encourage her to do on her own? which would be apprpriate? |
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| Diger |
Posted - 09/30/2009 : 4:12:17 PM
Wow Agde I think you are on to something, I don't know a parent that can turndown help from their kids. You could start a whole new revolution with kids helping their parrents. LOL
All kidding aside it is a Great Idea.
Diger |
| agde |
Posted - 09/30/2009 : 02:33:29 AM
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Originally posted by necitachi
...If anyone else would like to post please do becuase i need all the advice i can get.
Here's my two cents, necitachi. 
When you talk to your parents, explain the situation as you did to us, perhaps noting that your sister clearly senses that your naturism around the house is just being natural and casual, that she expressed interest in joining you and that its of course fine with you if she also feels comfortable not always dressing up, but that you want to be open about it since it should just be part of the natural flow of things and no big deal. Don't push them for some sort of instant decision -- just ask them to think about allowing a bit of natural time, maybe for some sort of trial period, so that they can see if there are any problems or issues.
I used to have a sort of similar parent-to-partent conversation with neighbors whose kids wanted to come over to swim in our pool (which was fabric-free). Once they saw their kids just swimming, laughing and splashing as usual, the whole swimsuit thing became a non-issue.
After-thought: Parents like predictability. Perhaps during trial you can link nudity to specific activities or times, like as an "air-bath" to unwind after school. Natural times are when you would otherwise be changing out of one set of activity-clothes (eg. school clothes) or before you are putting on something for another activity (eg. "I haven't decided yet what to wear to the movies..."). Another thought is that, if they agree to a trial, you might want to think of ways to say 'thank you' -- helping sister with homework, cleaning up something they've been after you to do, whatever -- sort of bits of positive reinforcement.
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| NudeAl |
Posted - 09/25/2009 : 10:25:42 PM
I would be fine with it. I encourage my kids to do that however that is my perspective and I am not your parent. The persons you have to talk to and respect is your parents. Now if you do your research on naturism via the web and bring up some good arguments (check out AANR) you might just win them over. Bottom line they are your and your sisters parents and you are living under their roof. I wish you luck like I said if it was my house and my family I would say of course go for it however that isn't the reality. Goodluck.
The woods are lovely, dark and deep, But I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep. -- Robert Frost
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| balataf |
Posted - 09/24/2009 : 3:27:34 PM
While not home nudists, my parents were very casual about being naked at home. While my Wife and I have been home nudists, and brought up our two Sons that way, they both basicly preferred clothing, even when home alone. Ph, well... |
| Balto Bob |
Posted - 09/24/2009 : 12:39:50 PM
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Originally posted by hernandocpl
BB I cannot believe you actually answered this person.......its all crap FFS
Live love and have fun
I always read the profile of someone that starts a new thread. I they joined today and their profile is blank, I figure they're either a fake or a flake. This poster has been here 7 months. Also,has posted before. The post strongly suggests that a young person is writing. "i" instead of "I" etc. Anything involving minors is always difficult. We need more young nudists. The Woodstock generation is pushing retirement.
Bob
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| necitachi |
Posted - 09/24/2009 : 12:00:28 AM
My parents know i am a nudist. They dont really agree with that decision that's why i only do it when they are not home. |
| Diger |
Posted - 09/23/2009 : 12:30:45 PM
It depends if your parents know. You may end up in trouble if you guys were caught. You know your parent better than any of us and have an idea of what they would do.
Don't sell your parents short they may be OK with it, so talk to them, you never know.
Diger |
| necitachi |
Posted - 09/23/2009 : 11:26:36 AM
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Originally posted by hernandocpl
BB I cannot believe you actually answered this person.......its all crap FFS
Live love and have fun
This is an all seriuosness question!! I'm not some pervert just looking for some fun. I really do have a little sister and this all really happened and i'm worried about what i should do. i don't live around other nudists so idk how to conduct myself in this kind of situation and i have no one i know that i can ask. So i'm asking on here. Thank you Bob for your help it means alot. If anyone else would like to post please do becuase i need all the advice i can get. |
| hernandocpl |
Posted - 09/23/2009 : 10:36:55 AM
BB I cannot believe you actually answered this person.......its all crap FFS
Live love and have fun |
| Balto Bob |
Posted - 09/23/2009 : 03:11:59 AM
I would let her join you. She is going through a lot of changes with her body. She will soon (if not already) start her periods. As her brother, she trusts you. Your post shows you have her best interests. Due to your age difference, things will soon change. You'll be off on your own and she'll be interested in guys her own age. She may or maynot retain her interest in nudism. Good luck.
Bob
Have a nice NUDE day !!
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