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| nature_r_us |
Posted - 07/26/2003 : 06:23:36 AM
I am 27, and fell in love with a girl turned to be nudist! (Didn't know or show sorry!)
I am not nudist. I want to marry her. Should I be nudist 1st to marry her OR should I ask her to quit it?
If she does not quit, how can I trust her when she goes alone (incase I did not accept to be a nudist) but still we decide to stay together?
please help light shed on this confusing issue.
thank you in advance.
(no flames please, this is serious)
nature_r_us |
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| mariarose |
Posted - 06/16/2010 : 3:39:52 PM
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Originally posted by prism2525
We're planning to shed some of our flab starting tomorrow. Still, I don't mind if she's no super thin girl, I like HER. Not her body, bed performance, hips, butt, breasts, toe nail color....
I agree that this was an old thread, But Prism's comment just sang, don't you think? Thanks all. |
| Balto Bob |
Posted - 06/16/2010 : 08:06:30 AM
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Originally posted by Little Fellow
I had a gf qho dumped me for simply being a nudist, it was horriable. You must compromise and marry her dont let her hobbies get in the way. I mean you wouldnt stop loving her for playing football, how is this different?
First, this thread is 7 years old and the first poster is LONG gone. Second, for many of us, being nude at home is important. If you are going to spend YEARS with someone, that person doesn't have to be a nudist but, she would need to let me be nude at home.
Bob
Have a nice NUDE day !!
www.ipernity.com/doc/elvertbarnes/5172004/
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| prism2525 |
Posted - 06/15/2010 : 8:51:32 PM
Had a similar problem with my gf. While she may not have come round much yet she (in my view) improved a good deal on being naked around me although her body image is still low as she gained some weight due to school stress.
We're planning to shed some of our flab starting tomorrow. Still, I don't mind if she's no super thin girl, I like HER. Not her body, bed performance, hips, butt, breasts, toe nail color....
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"If God had intended mankind to run around naked, surely we'd have been born that way!"
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| Little Fellow |
Posted - 05/05/2008 : 12:39:22 PM
I had a gf qho dumped me for simply being a nudist, it was horriable. You must compromise and marry her dont let her hobbies get in the way. I mean you wouldnt stop loving her for playing football, how is this different? |
| mmmmm |
Posted - 05/21/2007 : 6:14:03 PM
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Originally posted by StuffedTiger
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Your bf must really love you that he would risk his own children to you as a mother with you feeling as you do.
why does me feeling like this effect my ability to be a good mum later on??
whether i walk around nude or not doesnt affect the love and nurture i would give my children. |
| StuffedTiger |
Posted - 05/20/2007 : 03:27:40 AM
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Originally posted by mmmmm ... Yes i agree i am uncomfortable with being naked but that because i dont have much opinion of my own body but i also believe being like that is something you keep for your partner, only they see you in that situation.
All modesty is a form of self-loathing.
Hatred of our bodies is something other people grind into us all the time. Cosmetic merchants tell us we are ugly unless we spend a fortune on their products to paint our skin. Fashion outlets show us super skinny models looking bright and perky and oh-so-sexy in the latest clothing they want us to buy.
In fact, we look much better without clothes. Clothes make our outlines look ten to forty pounds heavier. No matter what people say, no draping or colors really hide our basic body shape or improve it. It may look that way in front of a mirror for an instant, but as soon as we move, the drape shifts and we are fooling nobody.
The INF is a credible naturist organization. They want to help you get comfortable in your own skin. They are family oriented. Remember that children are very comfortable in their own skin until adults shame them.
Regardless of what happens between you and your bf, if you get comfortable in your own skin, you will have given yourself AND your children a lifetime of joy that you will never know otherwise. If you do not, you will condemn yourself and your children to a lifetime of shame and self-hatred.
Your bf must really love you that he would risk his own children to you as a mother with you feeling as you do. He must see the real you inside, a you that loves herself. My guess is that you don't need to change a thing about yourself, just find the real you under all that shame and self-doubt that other people put there and that does not belong in you and that serves those people not you and your bf and your children.
Do not be afraid. You are there for him. You are not there for his friends. Insist on that. Not that you are unfriendly to his friends, but you come first, last and in-between. You can and should hold your bf to the body positive and family positive values of the INF. If you do, you will give both yourselves and your kids a lifetime of confidence and joy. Just give up your shame, relax and feel the sun on your skin (but not too much).
BTW, the vitamin D you get may save you from cancer and other illnesses according to the latest research. |
| Wannabe bare naked |
Posted - 05/19/2007 : 03:57:59 AM
I think its about trust I live in Australia and yes I am a nudist, I was single when I met a woman online from Canada we've been going together 2 yrs and although she isn’t living with me yet, she trusts me to go and mix with other nudists on swim nights or resort days out.
If you love this woman then trust her and believe that she will come home to you, and that all she is guilty of is having a good time as a nudist,other wise let her go.
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| mmmmm |
Posted - 05/18/2007 : 12:25:40 PM
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The underlying tone of your post speaks of fear of being naked. I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable, especially if you don't trust your boyfriends friends.
Helpful information would be things like what your boyfriend means by nudist activities, what makes you uncomfortable about his friends.
it is not that i dont trust his friends its just the opinion i have got of them is that they would be pushy towards me, especially into it and some of thier characters make me feel uncomfortable, they seem weird.
by his nudist activites i mean when he goes out with his naturist friends, for example he is currently on the INF rally with them.
Yes i agree i am uncomfortable with being naked but that because i dont have much opinion of my own body but i also believe being like that is something you keep for your partner, only they see you in that situation. |
| bornnude |
Posted - 05/18/2007 : 07:55:33 AM
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Originally posted by mmmmm
my boyfriend is a nudist and wants me to join in, but there is no way i am going to.
i dont feel comfortable with it, the people who he is friends with through it scare me and make me feel weird and i think small children around naked unrelated men is wrong.
mmmmm,
I don't really have enough information to comment on more than the last sentence.
First off, I would suggest that children alone in clothed sitations with people they don't know is wrong. There is just too much risk. That being said, I have been in many situations as a young child in locker rooms where being around grown-ups was not wrong, in fact it was part of life. It is only in the last 10-15 years that has changed. Again, as a child, it was supervised (parent).
A few years ago, I had a situation in a locker room where a father had brought in his young daughter. That really was no different.
The underlying tone of your post speaks of fear of being naked. I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable, especially if you don't trust your boyfriends friends.
If you post more information, there are many of us here that would be happy to continue the dialog. Helpful information would be things like what your boyfriend means by nudist activities, what makes you uncomfortable about his friends. |
| mmmmm |
Posted - 05/17/2007 : 7:09:10 PM
my boyfriend is a nudist and wants me to join in, but there is no way i am going to.
i dont feel comfortable with it, the people who he is friends with through it scare me and make me feel weird and i think small children around naked unrelated men is wrong. |
| nijkerk |
Posted - 03/24/2007 : 8:31:01 PM
If your relationship is that shallow and your doubts about her that great forget it. But at the end of the day you'll be the biggest loser.Naturism does not equate to sex!! |
| Warm01 |
Posted - 12/01/2006 : 1:55:34 PM
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Originally posted by shaneone
My wife is not an avid naturist but has vosoted nudist beaches with me since we met. She won't go to a club or swim with me but is happy for me to be nude at home as much as I like. In time she may come around more. But for the original question, TRY IT, You just migh tlike it :)
Well yes try it you might like it is true , but once u are nude at out door event with others and there mix men and females there , she might see that she was being anul for no reason 
sorry to be so hard but that is the truth
thanks 
Michael
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| shaneone |
Posted - 11/27/2006 : 6:21:00 PM
My wife is not an avid naturist but has vosoted nudist beaches with me since we met. She won't go to a club or swim with me but is happy for me to be nude at home as much as I like. In time she may come around more. But for the original question, TRY IT, You just migh tlike it :) |
| polingot |
Posted - 11/04/2006 : 12:52:53 AM
When i met my future wife she knew i was a naturist, took her a while to come around but now we are both very much naturists. give and take in a relationship. thankfully she chose to give!! |
| Warm01 |
Posted - 07/02/2006 : 3:14:15 PM
well we come in the this world nude
there is nothing wrong with it
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