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| MaryJane |
Posted - 11/25/2006 : 11:44:59 PM
Hi. I will be going to a resort with a nudist portion in February. I have never been to one before and I'm terrified, but I don't want to miss the opportunity.
I am comfortable with my body and wouldn't be embarrassed. But I'm really afraid of receiving sexual attention. I am 23 and afraid I may be one of the "live nude girls" some libido-driven nudists go to see. I am completely not open to being approached, ogled, or photographed.
From a preferrably female perspective; do those things happen on a regular basis?
The resort I'm attending is the Grand Lido outside of Montego Bay in Jamaica. I know that it is adults-only. If anyone has any information on the sexual content of this particular resort or similar ones please let me know.
Also, I will be going with my boyfriend. We are not very publicly affectionate, and are not exhibitionists. However, the beach is romantic and we typically kiss casually and touch each other affectionately, but not sexually. Also, we like to float together embraced in the water, which I suppose could be mistaken for sexual action if we were naked. I believe this is all normal couple behaviour, and we do not "make out" in public.
Is this behaviour considered appropriate?
Thanks!
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| JCP |
Posted - 07/10/2013 : 6:59:32 PM
I've just spotted that this thread is in the Ladies section 
I'm happy to Skype anyone but I'm sure a request for a female naturist would find someone willing to be a contact if you feel it is a valid way to build your confidence.
Not looking for thrills, just passing forwards something that helped me 
JCP |
| JCP |
Posted - 07/10/2013 : 6:38:51 PM
Hi Everybody,
My first experience of 'public' nudity was a Skype video call with another forum member. A simple step but a truly liberating experience. I'm happy to Skype anyone who feels this may give them confidence or perhaps Admin could come up with a list of Affiliated Naturists willing to participate. I'm available via my profile. Being British I can talk about the weather, tea and even interesting stuff.
JCP
Naturists lent 'textiles' the world - Their shame is they won't give it back. |
| blavan |
Posted - 08/11/2011 : 2:49:46 PM
The best way to start the experience of nudism is at a nudist resort. That is better for beginners than a cloting optional all-inclusive place like Grand Lido in our humble opinion if you are concerned about men hitting on you. We have been nudists for 15 years. You want honest answers, right? We are also a bit miffed about why your boyfriend would want to go to a Grand Lido, stay on the nude area, and not be naked in the ocean. ???
Otherwise in summary what Cheri said, we agree with.
Being Naked and Being Real |
| aussiepete |
Posted - 08/08/2011 : 06:51:29 AM
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Originally posted by blavan
Anyone else considering social naturism? Our advice is go for it. Life is too short to miss out on being nude as often as possible.
I agree blavin ,life is short, and we all must get to the place where it is ok for us to go nude, or bungy jump or whatever. For some it take longer, but the concensus on this forum seems to be that once tried, you are hooked - I know I am |
| Diger |
Posted - 08/21/2010 : 9:30:44 PM
blavan, your preaching to the choir. I really do know what your saying, if they only knew what they were missing, but most people are not brave enough to give it a try.
Diger |
| blavan |
Posted - 08/21/2010 : 6:29:16 PM
The first time we went nude socially was in the 90's. We had read quite alot about nudism on line at true nudist / naturist sites. We went to a resort, and it was such a wonderful experience being nude all day that we did not want to put clothing on for the trip back to home but we had to. You have nothing to fear because a nudist resort is the safest place to be that we can think of. Too many people are missing out on a really great and relaxing social activity that has been proven to be good for us. Anyone else considering social naturism? Our advice is go for it. Life is too short to miss out on being nude as often as possible.
Being Naked and Being Real |
| mebare |
Posted - 08/19/2010 : 12:51:52 PM
suraj_verma85 from his profile is no old man he is a sick in the head 22 year old. I fail to understand how his post continues to remain in the page for so long. |
| david nichols |
Posted - 05/04/2010 : 9:35:33 PM
so Mary Jane how did the trip go?
i don't think i saw a report on how much fun you had |
| sunflower |
Posted - 05/04/2010 : 03:59:43 AM
The post from that dirty so and so is just the sort of thing that gives genuine naturists a bad name, I trust he will not be allowed onto the site in future.
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| soonbnude |
Posted - 05/04/2010 : 03:43:45 AM
TGG, Well said and good question, how did this person get through? Can access be denied in future?
Mary-Jane, if you are still out there, what happened? Did it work out? Feedback for the men out there trying to have their partners attend would be of help.
SBN. |
| tgg |
Posted - 04/30/2010 : 8:11:25 PM
suraj_verma85, you sir are a TROLL and a dirty old man. How the admins let you onto this forum I do not know. This thread and forum is NOT to endorse mass sex orgies. If you want that, then go to a swinger's club. Nudist clubs and beaches are not the places for that kind of behaviour.
'Fear wraps our bodies in clothing, love allows us to stand naked' - Neale Donald Walsch (Conversations With God 1) |
| suraj_verma85 |
Posted - 04/30/2010 : 04:48:04 AM
Hello mary
I think you should enjoy your stay there.
As for touching your boyfriend is concerned I believe with so many nudists around you would not only feel like touching your boyfriend only but would most certainly try touching many others around.
Actually sex is very common form of nude living. You should also try having sex with five six men. my girlfriend tells me its far more enjoyable beingf***** by so many men as you get the feeling of being more desired.
Go have fun and sex
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| Bero |
Posted - 04/03/2010 : 3:59:06 PM
I wanna try to be nude in public, I am always Naked in my home, but I don't know where in Montreal the nude beachs. |
| soonbnude |
Posted - 02/23/2010 : 9:30:57 PM
Mary-Jane
For those of us who are considering going to a resort, what happened? I would be keen to know so I can talk about this with my wife before we go to try to allay any concerns like this.
Cheers, SBN. |
| Warmskin |
Posted - 11/26/2007 : 12:26:05 AM
I find that it's much easier if you assume your first visit will be fine, regardless of who you might bump into. A bit like economists who say --assume there is only 2% inflation next year.
When I took off my clothes at a nudist resort the first time, I disrobed in the parking area of the resort, and walked toward the swimming pool where everybody was. I was nude and they were nude. I again assumed that I would be accepted for who I was, and that things would proceed okay. It was possibly naive to do that since I didn't know anybody there, but in retrospect it was the best thing to do.
I think I felt more of a sense of gratitude that I found some people who though as I did about nudity. All these mental postering worked wonders for me as I walked over to various people and said my helloes. You might contemplate wanting to run into the nudist resort, feeling at long last you are going to meet others who also like being nude in a semi-public environment.
I think it might be possible that when we feel nervous about this, we fear our reactions in front of other people, or how they will perceive us, or how we perceive ourselves in a co-ed nudist place. One thing you might do is look for an older person or couple, (if you are young) and say hello to them.
We older folks have been through a lot over the years, and we just might, with good social skills and politeness, have a nice cheeful conversation with you, to make you feel accepted, and help you feel more relaxed, and at home. You might just make our day because you said hello to us!!
That government governs best, which governs least - Thomas Jefferson |
