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rone
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Posted - 07/24/2006 : 9:20:19 PM
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This is the most boring topic on the whole message board. Why does it stay so active?
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Rodders
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Posted - 07/25/2006 : 04:24:11 AM
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Well said rone. I suppose it stays active because people are seemingly obsessed by penises. I have found that being a nudist & enjoying social nudity makes such fixations redundant. To those who worry about such things, just get out into the nudist world with others & the problem probably will never arise. So, sorry to add to this forum topic which is now pretty flaccid.
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jim19452
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 Posted - 07/25/2006 : 10:35:15 AM
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Originally posted by rone
This is the most boring topic on the whole message board. Why does it stay so active?
To some the topic must not be boring.
Best Wishes, Jim
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perfects43
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Posted - 08/18/2006 : 11:40:35 AM
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I would like to know whether getting an erection between nude people is against the spirit of nudism. What should i do if i get an erection. If i go with somebody & i have sex in nude beach is it legal.
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Pete Knight
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Posted - 08/18/2006 : 12:15:46 PM
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Originally posted by perfects43
I would like to know whether getting an erection between nude people is against the spirit of nudism. What should i do if i get an erection. If i go with somebody & i have sex in nude beach is it legal.
You could try reading the entire thread, I think you'll find all the answers you need, and more.
Pete
Even a prude
has to be nude
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shaneone
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Posted - 11/27/2006 : 6:11:02 PM
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If you are at a nudist beach and get an erection the correct thing to do is cover yourself with a towel until it goes away.
It has happened to everyone when they begin, it is just your mind thinking 'sex'. But in time this will subside and you will become more comfortable with being nude and disassociate nudism from sex. Until you feel more comfortable just stay nude around your house/alone and gradually introduce yourself to more public settings. no need to go to the busiest part of the beach initially, you can find somewhere quiet until you are happier with the situation
Hope this helped
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CMx2
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Posted - 11/27/2006 : 9:58:09 PM
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Originally posted by shaneone
It has happened to everyone when they begin, it is just your mind thinking 'sex'.
I have to take issue with this statement. From my experience, this just isn't the case. Even to a nudist newbie, erections are a very rare anomaly and is generally something that you shouldn't even worry about.
I do agree that you should try to acclimate yourself to being nude before going to a public venue.
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shaneone
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Posted - 11/28/2006 : 2:50:01 PM
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I didn't mean to cause any offence.
It probably doesn't happen if you have grown up a nudist, but if you are coming into nudism at a later stage it is very common
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CMx2
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Posted - 11/28/2006 : 10:13:23 PM
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Originally posted by shaneone
I didn't mean to cause any offence.
It probably doesn't happen if you have grown up a nudist, but if you are coming into nudism at a later stage it is very common
I'm sorry, but I believe you are mistaken.
If you're witnessing this, you may be attending the wrong kind of resort.
Neither my wife nor I grew up as a nudist. We're still quite new to the whole nudist environment.
We even attended 3 open houses at different nudist clubs this past summer where we met other new nudists like ourselves and not once did either of us see an erection. So far it has never happened to me either. If/when it does happen, I'll do the proper thing by being discreet about it.
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shaneone
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Posted - 11/29/2006 : 1:16:05 PM
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Well you have your experiences and I have mine.
You are in this with your wife, from the sounds of it from the start, therefore you are used to female nudity. this is not the case for everyone else new to nudism.
And FYI, I am not attending the wrong sort of places, just nudist/naturist ONLY
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ToAsTeD
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Posted - 12/02/2006 : 2:07:18 PM
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After reading this entire thread, I just have to respond!
First of all, I don't know why that guy (Banned or Sammy or whoever) made such a big deal out of nothing. And I really liked the way the members handled him... with respect and dignity... until he was finally banned...
As a new nudist (I visited a nude resort for the first time earlier this summer) I too had *alot* of anxiety and fears.
My two biggest fears:
1) That I would be the only person there who would be naked, and people would laugh, point, and stare at me all day long; and
2) That I would have uncontrolled erections constantly.
I am happy to report that #1 and #2 above NEVER ocurred at all in any form or fashion.
In fact, in a matter of minutes literally, I felt totally at ease and the thought of an erection never even entered my mind.
I have returned to the resort several times since and have not had a single erection while there. It just doesn't happen for some odd reason.
I do agree that if it were to happen to me I would simply "hide it" out of respect for others.
So to all the new male nudists: just relax and don't worry about it.
Just my 2 cents worth.
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Pete Knight
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Posted - 12/02/2006 : 3:14:43 PM
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Hey ToAsTeD
Your 2 cents worth was my 2 bucks worth, I am in TOTAL agreement, well said.
I stil maintain that any guy trying to justify a stiffy is an exhibitionist and not welcome in a naturist environment.
Pete Knight
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BlobbyBob
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Posted - 12/02/2006 : 4:09:15 PM
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Originally posted by Pete Knight
I stil maintain that any guy trying to justify a stiffy is an exhibitionist and not welcome in a naturist environment.
So a man who merely believes that erections are not always sexual is a pervert? That is exactly how most non-nudists feel about nudists.
I'm not one to say I want to go to a nudist environment, make myself get an erection and then walk around 'showing it off' (why isn't it 'showing off' to walk around with a flaccid penis?) All I'm saying is I think that if a man is in the middle of something, be it just walking along the beach, playing volleyball or any other activity, he shouldn't have to stop, sit down and cover up a specific part of himself any more than any nudist should have to cover any part of themselves because a non-nudist thinks mere nudity is perverse. I know you'll just call me a pervert again and to be honest I don't really care.
As I said I don't want anything like that to happen to me, I'm only 21 and haven't had opportunity yet to participate in any nudist events, but if I did I wouldn't want to have to worry about offending people if part of my body reacted to a breeze or whatever else out of my control, then having to stop what I was doing. I don't think it would happen really anyway, it's just a point of treating some men like perverts for a natural bodily function outside of their control.
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Cheri
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Posted - 12/02/2006 : 8:31:37 PM
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Originally posted by BlobbyBob
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Originally posted by Pete Knight
I stil maintain that any guy trying to justify a stiffy is an exhibitionist and not welcome in a naturist environment.
So a man who merely believes that erections are not always sexual is a pervert? That is exactly how most non-nudists feel about nudists.
I'm not one to say I want to go to a nudist environment, make myself get an erection and then walk around 'showing it off' (why isn't it 'showing off' to walk around with a flaccid penis?) All I'm saying is I think that if a man is in the middle of something, be it just walking along the beach, playing volleyball or any other activity, he shouldn't have to stop, sit down and cover up a specific part of himself any more than any nudist should have to cover any part of themselves because a non-nudist thinks mere nudity is perverse. I know you'll just call me a pervert again and to be honest I don't really care.
As I said I don't want anything like that to happen to me, I'm only 21 and haven't had opportunity yet to participate in any nudist events, but if I did I wouldn't want to have to worry about offending people if part of my body reacted to a breeze or whatever else out of my control, then having to stop what I was doing. I don't think it would happen really anyway, it's just a point of treating some men like perverts for a natural bodily function outside of their control.
Temet Nosce
Until you visit a nudist venue, you probably cannot make a good judgement call on this topic. After you visit, come back and perhaps you will have some insight.
Cheri
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ToAsTeD
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Posted - 12/02/2006 : 8:59:59 PM
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I'm not one to say I want to go to a nudist environment, make myself get an erection and then walk around 'showing it off' (why isn't it 'showing off' to walk around with a flaccid penis?) All I'm saying is I think that if a man is in the middle of something, be it just walking along the beach, playing volleyball or any other activity, he shouldn't have to stop, sit down and cover up a specific part of himself any more than any nudist should have to cover any part of themselves because a non-nudist thinks mere nudity is perverse. I know you'll just call me a pervert again and to be honest I don't really care. -Blobby Bob
Blobby Bob, all I can say to your response is:
If you get an erection while "walking along the beach, playing volleyball, or any other activity," as you put it, to not cover it up is your choice...
Just make sure my young son is not too close to you or I will report you immediately and if the managers don't do something about it... I will call the authorities until they respond...
Men with erections (whether natural or not) do not need to be around children in a nudist environment... even if the erection is caused by wind, sun, water, whatever...
Do you honestly think my son could care less about *how* your erection came about? Or anyone else for that matter... all he (or anyone) would see would be the erection... Period.
Just cover it up... that's what a gentleman would do...
If you don't want to respect me... fine... I can deal with that...
But show a little respect for young children and the others who may be offended... that's all I'm saying...
-ToAsTeD
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