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daily0321
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Posted - 07/31/2009 : 7:59:40 PM
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How do you control unwanted erections?
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Warmskin
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 Posted - 07/31/2009 : 8:49:20 PM
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Originally posted by daily0321
How do you control unwanted erections?
By re-focusing your thoughts. You can try mental games like thinking of the most miserable moment of your life. Focus intently on that moment, and remember how you felt at that awful time. Or, remember a very sad time, and replay that event in your mind. Your penis does not have its own mind, but you do.
"The means of defense against foreign danger historically have become the instruments of tyranny at home."
James Madison
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Randall50
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Posted - 08/01/2009 : 6:12:20 PM
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The time it takes to argue whether an erection is appropriate or not in public will take more time than for the erection to run its course - or for the topic to raise its ugly head again, so to speak.
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flemenco
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Posted - 08/03/2009 : 8:10:25 PM
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Dear Bassman,
Enjoy the experience! Alot of men have trouble getting an erection! Erections are part of men's primal nature. It is a God given blessing. Relax and celebrate your hu-manity!
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tomcornell
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Posted - 08/04/2009 : 7:38:06 PM
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Originally posted by Warmskin
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Originally posted by daily0321
How do you control unwanted erections?
By re-focusing your thoughts. You can try mental games like thinking of the most miserable moment of your life. Focus intently on that moment, and remember how you felt at that awful time. Or, remember a very sad time, and replay that event in your mind.
That's some way to enjoy the natural beauty of a nude beach! It's also only marginally effective.
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Cookie
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Posted - 08/04/2009 : 8:33:13 PM
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Hi:
Jump in the pool, or the lake/pond!!!!
Remember, we are here for a short time , so let's have a good time.
Cookie
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Duke_of_Leeds
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Posted - 08/09/2009 : 03:12:29 AM
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Perhaps I've just been lucky over lots of years, but I don't believe I've ever had an unwanted erection while both nude and awake in public. It's not something to worry about in any case as it is a purely natural action/reaction. In a worst case situation I suppose the best action to follow might be to simply sit down and put a towel over it.
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Balto Bob
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MichiganMan
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Posted - 08/18/2009 : 04:59:45 AM
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what can we do to prevent unwanted spam? (referring to the now nonexistent previous post consisting only of a hyperlink)
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Admin
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Posted - 08/18/2009 : 09:20:20 AM
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The best way to combat spam is to alert the Admin, either by email or PM.
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blackrebel
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Posted - 08/18/2009 : 11:43:06 AM
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For a long time whenever I would see this topic I would sit back and roll my eyes and laughed. But for some reason today it reminded me of the situation years ago when I had a nudist friend of mine stay over for a day and the problem did occur. Keep in mind that we had been in that situation a number of times at nudist events, but when she was staying over, as a friend and nothing more, I found myself fighting off an erection.
What I found was this, when in a nudist event I have absolutely no problems even if I am the only man around a number of women. But when I am home, one-on-one, it may be a different situation. There was a situation once before however, where on a dare during a modeling session the model joked about me being dressed when she was undressed and it was not fair. I simply removed my clothes, pick up a camera, and continued with the photo shoot with absolutely no problem.
So the reality is this, even as a nudist in certain situations you may have an issue to deal with.
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50something
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Posted - 09/06/2009 : 10:10:15 AM
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Three and half years this particular topic has now been running. No doubt debate of this subject will continue infinities.
Back in June of 2006 Bassman must have wished he'd never asked.
To any male, and whatever age they be and can read this comment and understand the intent, who is contemplating taking his clothes off in public, and suspects he is likely to have an erection, especially an unwanted one, there is no one answer that will meet the requirements of everyone.
Just as in life, clothed or otherwise, no matter what we humans do we will always manage to upset someone or another and without meaning to, or even knowing we have done so.
This goes for both male and female genders.
What is acceptable to one is not necessarily acceptable to another.
Some, both male and female, will say that the uncontrolled erection is OK, whilst others will frown and criticize.
So the end result is, we are all right, and we are all wrong.
Whatever else we are, male or female, we are human and humans for the most are consentient beings.
My own suggestion is:
Go with the flow of the more experienced males in the current surroundings. If another male gets an erection and discreetly hides it away, by whatever means, then follow the example.
Alternatively, If your at a site, beach, resort, and those present note your erection, but don't comment or admit to even noticing it, assuming that it's not being deliberately flaunted or put on exhibition in which case the likelihood will be that it really is unwanted by all around, then once again go with the flow.
Go cautiously into this world of freedom. Enjoy whilst being enjoyed, but with respectability and acceptability from the majority in mind.
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Parrotile
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Posted - 03/01/2010 : 4:35:13 PM
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Apart from the commonsense suggestion that you should get more used to being naked in relative privacy - (once the novelty value wears off so does the "erectile potential"), the only thing I might suggest is to think happy thoughts!. One "traditional" suggestion was always to dunk the offending appendage in a nice cool swimming pool, river or ocean - which is "supposed" to relieve the problem. Well, some of us seem to be wired differently from the norm - I've found that the cold dunk (in my case) has the opposite effect - which simply exacerbates the condition! If the problem persists you could have a word with your GP - many of the older Beta-blocker antihypertensive medications had a potent anti-erection performance too (sort of like Sildenafil (Viagra) but in reverse) - and at low dose too. I would suggest a trial of propranolol, say 1/2 x 10mg, and keep on this until you are more comfortable with being naked in public.
Hope this helps - it would be a shame if a relatively minor problem prevented you from doing what's probably best fro us all!
Phil S.
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freecospirit
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Posted - 03/02/2010 : 08:52:51 AM
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I must take issue with "parrotile" on the matter of relative privacy. I simply say being naked on your own or in your home with clothed/unclothed family members to get accustomed to being naked is no way to counter unwanted erections. You are far more likely to get an erection on your own especially if you are only naked to get used to being naked without getting one. I used worry about this happening on a beach but it so rarely does that you shouldn't be overly conccerned, you should be to disguise it rather than flaunt it until it subsides. Unless you are on Viagra or similar medication it will subside soon enough.
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barefootguyinco
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Posted - 03/28/2010 : 12:13:07 PM
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A healthy male will, have an erection or two, three or four a day, depending how old you are. As for women they also suffer the same but it is not visible.
I was brought up in Italy, I enjoyed their nudist beaches, men will be men, teenage boys will be teenage boys.
Teenage boys, will most likely dawn an erection, because their hormones are in high gear. What are they to do , stay in the water, on lie on the sand all day.
The idea of nudity is to enjoy the freedom, how can I be free if I have to worry about what level my hormones are doing, then look for an escape plan, quick run for the water, or drop and give me 20 pushups, or think of scary movie.
I don�t like the beaches here, because I do get erections, and I do like walking down the beach. In Italy we can do both, and yes women notice, the young giggle, the old wink, and the middle age stare and rate them. Most enjoy seeing them. This is not to say to have them deliberately, but to say, it can happen, it�s natural. But flaunting it is rude and uncalled for.
I know the nudist society is a non-sexual atmosphere, but we are sexual beings, and men are visual animals. You women that think having an erection means a compass for sex is mistaken and misguided by old grandmother ideologies.
I understand this is a north American thing, but a nudist beach is a nudist beach. The idea is to be free of all in inhibitions, including when the next time the compass points north. I don�t feel comfortable here.
I know this thread is going to be discussed forever, but I think that is good because I believe our view of this subject needs to change here in America.
And I totally agree with Timelord above as he said it well. We as nudists proclaim that we enjoy being amongst others as nature intended, nude, and without clothes. We also state that new people should try it and that they should not feel inhibited about their nude bodies as we are a Totally Accepting group of people and accept others naked bodies just as they are and that a nude body is not lewd. We say that we don't judge you by your body, whether large or small, sagging or firm, tall or short, but instead we accept you for who you are as a person, and it's not based on anything physical or immaterial such as clothes, money or how big your muscles are. We say that we accept our bodies just as god intended.
Yet some of us have a double standard and say that erections are something to be ashamed of and having one amongst others makes us a pervert or something, EVEN IF it was an unwanted erection. Personally, it's been a long time since I've had an unwanted erection around others, but I KNOW it can happen, and sometimes the harder you try to make it go away, the more it happens. Yes, if someone does things such as oogling a nude woman and then get an erection, then it is NOT an unwanted erection and the person should leave, but we are not talking about that.
I've had full body massages for many years and always do so nude, but with the standard sheet or blanket over me. But once while having a massage at a professional massage I noticed myself having an unwanted erection, and the more I tried to make it go away, the more it happened. I was very embarrassed as I did NOT want it to happen. The point is we sometimes have no control over this NATURAL bodily function.
I do believe that when children are around that it's best to minimize their exposure to another persons erection, mostly so that an outsider doesn't see this and report us to the authorities, possibly causing problems for the parents.
And I believe that if you have an erection that you should NOT strut down the beach as if to show it off, although if it happens while out walking, you may have to walk back to your towel or chair and just not worry about it.
But expecting men to rush to jump in the water, cover up etc, is a bit silly. Yes, we should do these things if amongst people we are not good friends with, but we shouldn't rush like we have done something wrong. It's similar to being seen nude by a non nudist, say, in your backyard. If you rush to cover up you are sending signals that you are doing something wrong. And if we are standing or sitting in such as way that it is not overly obvious we should be able to just let it pass and act like nothing is wrong. If EVERYONE ignores it, it will not be an issue, unless you make it into one.
It's natural and it's not lewd or sexually aggressive, unless the person makes it so. And if they do anything that is overtly sexual while having an erection, they should be asked to leave immediately. There's a big difference between having an erection and ignoring it and acting on it or flaunting it.
Just because some of us can be nudists and never get an erection doesn't mean that those who occasionally get an unwanted erection are to be shunned. Maybe when we see nudist men with an erection we should bind them with ropes and chains and throw them in the water, then if they sink, their heart was pure, and if they get out unharmed then they are perverts....
Let's get real folks. It's time to move out of our archaic way of thinking and be truly free non-judgmental nudists we proclaim to be.
Body shame, like prejuduce, is not natural. It is learned from others and benefits no one.
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