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zackislookin
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 Posted - 03/17/2005 : 3:22:26 PM
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Hello, I am somewhat new to this group, but not new to nudity.
I discovered nudity when I was learning to swim at the local YMCA when I was about 8 or so. (It was all boys then) and have loved it ever since. Althought I ws not raised a naturist, I took every opportunity to be naked and cloths free.
When I married, my wife was aware that I enjoyed nudity and I thought we raised our son to be comfortable with his body and enjoy being naked.
My wife of 9 years and I divorced and when my son visited, he would get naked as soon as he hit the door and stayed that way until it was time togo home. He enjoyd friends and here and loved running naked through the yard and swimming in the pool.
His mother (who has custody) has since re-married and moved out of the country with our son. she and her NEW husband has caused him to receive mixed messages about nudity, sex and the way naturist live and think.
The last time he visited, although he enjoyed swimming naked he wore cloths most of the time. I tried to talk with him but he said his mother told him it was wrong to go naked and naked adults and children are always thinking sexual thoughts.
Anoyne else (with or without children) havce any thoughts on this?
My attorney had warned me about pressing the issue with my son and his mother.
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Zackery Richards
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Cheri
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Posted - 03/18/2005 : 07:56:07 AM
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Zackery,
As long as his mother has custody, your lawyer is 100% right. You don't say how old your son is. You can tell him that some people have different thoughts that the way you feel and to come to his own decision after weighing all the facts.
I do wish you well. I've seen parents lose visitation over this.
Best regards, Cheri
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zackislookin
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Posted - 03/18/2005 : 2:24:06 PM
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Cheri,
Thanks, I appreciate the feedback. My son just turned 11 and unfortunately has a long time before he can make his own decisions as far a going nude in public or around hid mothers house.
I am not trying to say his mother is a horrable person. She is a VERY GOOD mother and loved him as much as I do.
As far as the vacation thing, You are correct and would never do anything that could keep me from seing him. When he come for summer vacation, if we go to Haulover he can decide if we sit in the bathing suit section or not. As far as staying at my house. If he wants to swim naked or have his firends over, I figure that is his decision.
Thanks Again
Zackery Richards
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Cheri
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Posted - 03/18/2005 : 8:27:02 PM
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Zackery, If he invites friends over to go skinnydipping, make sure the friends' parents are aware and get the permission in writing. That can cause grief.
Regards, Cheri
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zackislookin
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Posted - 03/20/2005 : 11:35:05 AM
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Cheri:
OH YES ! I could not agree more. Actually I have invited my sons friends parents to the house and explained my thoughts on nudity and the freedom it allows. To my suprise, most did not have a problem with there children swimming or playing naked at the house. I told thme to drop in anytime there children were playing.
One of his friends patents actually allowed him to play naked at their haus with there son.
Gosh, I wish it more parents /people were accepting.
Thanks again
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