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FireProf
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 Posted - 05/02/2005 : 1:38:48 PM
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Okay, appreciate your reply and can understand where you were coming from.
Maybe run into each other down at the beach someday.
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nudeman72
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Posted - 05/02/2005 : 6:13:13 PM
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Thanks, fireprof- likewise!
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natur31
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Posted - 05/03/2005 : 5:09:54 PM
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Unacceptable!!
But Ihave no problems re. male arousal. See the Topic.
Sarah
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DaffyTaffy2
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Posted - 05/04/2005 : 01:08:54 AM
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I agree that openly having "sex on the beach" is not appropriate behavior. But... If done with out witnesses in a secluded area without on-lookers is what you want to do then so be it. None of us at all times can control ourselves when the urge hits us. Descretion is the better part of valar so to speak. 
Jo
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NUDKIWI
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Posted - 05/04/2005 : 4:14:55 PM
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As I have stated in previous threads,I believe our morals,principles,and behaviour when in a naturist setting,should be exactly the same as if we were in a clothed setting.
After all isn't that the basis of naturism,doing what people normally do,just without clothes,and it aint normal to see people having sex on a clothed beach.So keep it out of view on our beaches,or risk losing them.
Naturally KIWI
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Nudony
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Posted - 05/07/2005 : 08:57:43 AM
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Things I've seen at a nude beach:
A man laying not far from me, turned my way with a near-full erection.
Two women "play-wrestling" in the sand, but in a sexually charged way.
A man massaging his wife, perhaps a bit too intensively.
And yes, I've even seen a woman getting thrown off the beach by a ranger (it seems she had been touching herself and a couple of other men as well).
As long as we unite and oppose ourselves to such behavior, we are doing our jobs as nudists. It's when we say or do nothing about it that we risk losing the very few beaches we have.
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johny59
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Posted - 06/30/2005 : 04:37:00 AM
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Just we had one week ago very bad incident at one unofficial nudist beach, Inchupe. Someone hung a flomaster made "beach-sign" on the stake "here sex is allowed".
I am not SO BIG prude to state that nowhere and never sex be acceptable - just when NOONE see it then its allways nice (I can certify myself its a big pleasure at the open nature). But everything changes if there are wittnesses and far more changes if such dumb-heads WRITE it. If the community leaders shall notice such, the beach status never will be changed to official as we try to work for.
Therefore we brutally destroyed this nightmare.
Old communist folk-sentence teaches: Better not to look, but if You look, try to not see. Yet if You cant be able to un-see, then at least dont think. Yet if You cannot to not think, then as the smallest dont speak about what You think. But, if You speak, then, ultimatively, dont write it. But, if even You write it, then NEVER undersign it. How far, if You had beeen undersigned it, then DONT WONDER!!!
Sounds dreadfully!? Is this not true (or at least the last half???)
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RobJ
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Posted - 07/02/2005 : 4:30:31 PM
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Beating the proverbial dead horse....sex anywhere in public isn't cool.
If you're going to have sex in public, make sure no one knows you're having it, or that no one could stumble upon you having it. If a tree falls in the woods and no one hears it........
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old hippie
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Posted - 07/12/2005 : 2:31:18 PM
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I would contend that people "OPENLY" having sex on the beach is unacceptable in a number of ways; it is rude, impolite and trashy. It demeans what should be a significant an sensitive act and becomes a display.
The thread was opened with a reference to "openly" performing sex on the beach. At least one post properly separates this from a private, tender moment which happens to occur on the beach - that strikes me as quite different. The offending part of the original premise is clearly in the term "openly".
Reference was also made to the comparison with the expectation we have, as naturists, or as humans, to exercise our freedoms. But with every freedom there is a concommitant responsibility. This idea is usually summed up with the statement that "your freedom stops at my nose". I am free to speak my mind on any topic I wish; but I must accept the responsibility of the consequences of my speech. I may be free to tell you that you are ugly, but I might prefer to keep that opinion to myself. In a civil society we have the expectation that each of us will exercise their freedoms in amanner which causes the minimum of disruption to others. The difference between freedom and license is the difference between a pleasant afternoon that all your family and everyone else can enjoy on the beach and an afternoon that only two people enjoyed.
Surely a forum of naturists can appreciate the difference between what we can do and what we do. A little courtesy can go a long way. And IMHO it is not discourteous to remind someone of their manners, in a polite way.
Dum vivimus, vivamus!
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bilbo_baggins
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Posted - 07/12/2005 : 6:09:04 PM
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I have just skimmed through this forum and have come to think one thing....i live in the uk and i know her, not so sure anbout the us , that it is actually illegal!
W.K.H
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hikerman
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Posted - 07/14/2005 : 1:32:17 PM
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I've always been under the impression that nudist encourage and promote the argument that nudity and sex are two different animals. Most people who have never been to a nude beach, resort, or cruise believe that people get naked simply to have sex or engage in some sort of sexual activity. As much as nudist try to dispel this belief, it's hard to change people's minds. So I think it's very important that true nudists continue to call attention to people who are engaging in activities that aren't appropriate, and having sex on the beach is inappropriate. There are clubs for people who enjoy this type of activity. As far as I'm concerned there is nothing wrong with having sex in front of others, as long as those others are acceptable to that type of activity. Just because a person is nude on the beach, does not mean they are accepting of sexual activity. There is a time and place for any activity and everyone should make the effort to do so.
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Cowboy
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Posted - 07/22/2005 : 3:25:41 PM
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I went to Sandy Hook for the first time in a long time. I was living in Biloxi, MS on the Gulf Coast and I am home in NJ now. I am not a homophobe and I could care less about someone's sexuality but for God's sake...there could be children on the beach. USE DISCRETION...
I recently had surgery on my ankle so walking the beach is both relaxing and exercise for me. I was surprised to see men engaging in inappropriate activities. Isn't that illegal?
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Cheri
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Posted - 07/22/2005 : 4:41:31 PM
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Originally posted by Cowboy
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I recently had surgery on my ankle so walking the beach is both relaxing and exercise for me. I was surprised to see men engaging in inappropriate activities. Isn't that illegal?
It definitely is not legal.
Cheri
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nudetoo
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Posted - 07/22/2005 : 4:57:51 PM
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If you are going to enjoy the beach, then keep things under control, if you can't then get a room!
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bornnude
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Posted - 08/12/2005 : 08:46:57 AM
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I found this, having nothing to do with nudist activities (I hope) but a lot to do with this subject. 18% of respondants put "intimate" relations as a favorite thing on a beach.
Keep them on the clothed end
Yahoo had a survey on "Top Sands" (http://travel.yahoo.com/beaches)
Top 5 activities
1. Having a party or BBQ - 44%
2. Building sandcastles - 29%
3. Having a cocktail - 32%
4. Having "intimate" relations -18%
5. Flying a kite - 13%
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