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Balto Bob
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Posted - 10/19/2007 : 08:18:33 AM
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Radioman125- this is a good thread there are others.
Bob
Have a nice NUDE day !!
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nickandallyfl
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 Posted - 11/18/2007 : 10:02:12 AM
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I have an 11 yr old daughter who will be 12 in december. Almost 2 yrs ago I took her to a resort and she was against being nude. But in time she met friends and joined them. It wasn't about joining me. Let your kids find it on their own. Body image is very important at that age too. If she sees another girl at that stage and being ok with herself, thats the bigest drive she will have.
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Phydeau
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Posted - 11/19/2007 : 04:15:26 AM
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I'm less than new to this, but that sounds about as healthy advice as I've ever heard. Children have to be TAUGHT to be ashamed of their bodies. They're born with no such nonsense. So getting back to that should be just as natural. That makes perfect sense.
I'm babbling.
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jons23
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Posted - 12/11/2007 : 11:31:15 PM
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Originally posted by bareskin_rug
Anyway, we are looking into places in Texas to visit this summer. My wife and I may go and pre-view them and decide if it's a place we want to take our children.
How did the summer go? Did you find some good family place for the family to visit?
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Diger
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Posted - 12/12/2007 : 09:58:06 AM
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This topic was from 2006 and Bareskin Rug hasn't posted since July of 2006.
I think this was his last post from (How often are you nude at home?)
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Wow, things have changed in the last 3 1/2 months. We started off with nude family time in the back yard hot tub, and now we're naked probably more than half of the time we're home, mostly on the weekends. I usually wait until a little later in the evening to shed the clothes, but our two youngest boys usually undress as soon as they get inside. Our two older kids usually have something on, but not more than a pair of shorts, a swimsuit or underwear.
I haven't slept with anything on probably since the month of March, and I love it!
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I hate it when you're left hanging like that.
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Phydeau
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Posted - 12/13/2007 : 05:49:59 AM
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Thanks everyone for your posts.
We have started slowly shedding our clothes this past week, and it has been going well. I have started spending more time in just my underwear, and my wife has now begun to wake the kids in the morning and put them to bed at night in just her underwear and no top. Our 9-year old son made a remark about it, but she pointed out that he too only wears his underwear sometimes. That simple logic seemed to satisfy him.
My wife and I sat down with our 12-year old daughter and basically told her that there are some people who go without clothes. She said yeah, she knows. We told her about our clothing-optional beach experience last year, and she was quite taken by surprise. She actually smiled and said WOW in exasperation. We told her that we found it to be a pleasant experience and that we would like to do it again. She was wide-eyed but did not appear repulsed or embarrassed. We told her that the body is nothing to be ashamed of, and that we want to keep a home where everyone can feel comfortable. We then told her that nudity is acceptable in our home (under the right circumstances) and that we should all respect each others' bodies. I told her that she is welcome to join us, or not if she chooses. She was speechless but she said "yeah, okay." We said that she can always feel free to tell us if something bothers her, or to let us know if it makes her uncomfortable. She shrugged and said "okay."
On Saturday evening I got our 4-year old son out of his clothes and let him stand in the jacuzzi. Our 6 and 9 year old boys then asked if they could join and stripped and got in. I then took off all of my clothes and joined them. Moments later my wife came out in a towel and then joined us, fully nude. Lastly our daughter came out, in her bathing suit. A few minutes later our daughter then removed her top. She was so relaxed doing so, I couldn't believe it. The whole family was there, naked together for the first time.
It was so peaceful and free. I realize that as the kids grow they might change their attitudes, but my wife and I talked that night about how wonderful the moment was.
Sounds like you got there in time. Awesome.
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nudepilot2007
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Posted - 12/22/2007 : 1:07:46 PM
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Wow finaly a site that is actually a positive place to get advice.
I have been a nudist for a while, I would like to get the kids, B5,B16,G11,G9 to understand it better and get some good positive information. I don't want to "push" them into it though. I respect thier decision on the subject, and do not go nude in front of them. I think that they would enjoy going camping at a nudist resort, and once there see that it really is no big deal, how can I get them to go?
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jim19452
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Posted - 12/22/2007 : 2:06:27 PM
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nudepilot20007, Have you checked out the posts on page 1 of this topic? Also, I think Cheri has posted info on brochures that would be useful. Perhaps you can do some searches on her posts.
Best Wishes, Jim
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nudepilot2007
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Posted - 12/22/2007 : 2:20:18 PM
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Jim, yes and thanks, I am going to contact Cheri to get some of the brochures. Have a great Holiday!
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Diger
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Posted - 12/22/2007 : 3:38:08 PM
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Jim,
Give us more info about your family: are you married or divorced, Is your wife cofortable being nude and is she nude around the kids? Why do you think the kids wouldn't want you to be nude around them?
If you start being nude when nude is expected they won't think anything of it. Such as bathing with the door open, then make a trip to the laundry room for a towel. Just take Baby Steps and get them acustom to casual nudity around the house. Then another step could be, if you have a pool or hot tub, Skinny-Dipping. You and your wife can start it off (Skinny-Dipping) then involve the younger kids, then when the older kids see how much fun it is they may want to join in. Even if they don't join rite off, they may try it in private before they are ready to do it around you.
Just rember Baby Steps.
I hope it made sense and any of it applied to your family.
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