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TravelingMountainNudist
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 Posted - 11/15/2007 : 8:40:11 PM
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You could also just go totally nude in the home and drive out the mundain. If she leaves because she does not like your life style is that your fault?
Andrew Reckeweg
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illusion
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Posted - 11/21/2007 : 06:33:32 AM
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Melissa,
I can not be help to admire you for wanting to find a solution to your problem. I also can not but help admire you for trying to make the best of the situtation you find yourself in. That is a very unusual quality in a young woman these days,(young being relative). I find to many young women these days are like your roommate, got to have things their own way. And they make life miserable for the rest of us, sometimes without meaning to. Sometimes because they intend to.
How about an off the wall idea. You say she never goes out. Now your going to tell me that you would not do this to any or your friends. But consider. Do you have any male friends, co-workers, etc, that you might introduce her to? While this would get her out of the house for a few hours and allow you to be the Melissa you want to be. If you could then ask this person to call you when they were coming back you would have ample warning and could resume your non-natural Melissa profile with time to spare. (Assuming they do not forget.) Do not promise the guy anything. Just find out if they would be intrested in meeting her. IF no then no. If yes then great for you. Who knows there may be something she is missing. Then again if she treats the guy badly he won't see her again. But if she really likes the guy and he likes her, well then maybe she will lighten up a little. Of course you need to have either a really good relationship or a really bad relationship with the guy for this to work. But who knows. If the right guy came along maybe this would make life bearable for you. Not to say this is the only solution. Maybe not even a real solution. Just a thought. But you know your roommate. Maybe this would not be the thing to do. Only you can tell.
Another idea would be to get her involved in some other project. Ask her to go bowling or to the spa with you. Places where she could meet other people. Get her to go a few times then suggest she go by herself. This way you do not have to feel you are imposing on your friends. You are taking on the burden of finding what she wants to do. But once she got going would she go by herself? Again you could then be the Melissa you want to be. But with out knowing when she would return. Who knows if she actually got a life she might leave yours alone. Of course I am not saying this to make you run off right now and try this. You need to evaluate your roommate as you would a trouble student. Will this work? Do I have to try something else to reach her? What other approach can I use? I firmly believe in your ability to find a solution to this problem. And I firmly believe you will find the best solution to this problem. Believe in your own skills. They could possibly serve you very well right now. I also belive that if you use a loving approach not a confrontational approach you will find a way to easy your path.
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Warmskin
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Posted - 11/23/2007 : 12:13:01 AM
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Hi Melissa,
(BTW, I read your website text -- very inspitational!!)
I read the helpful comments here. One thing I might add, that you might develop various strategies for your next place in finding compatabile roommates. Doing things like interviewing prospective roommates as to their comfort with your being nude at home. The main thing is to plan for a home that works for you, wherever and whatever that home might be. You have a wonerfully developed sense of Christianity. Wow! -- if you could find a roommate with your characteristics of being a Christian nudist, that could work out great!!!
So, if you have to grin and bare it (bad pun, I know) until a breakthrough comes along either with your current roommate undergoing some changes in attitude, or one of you leaves by next July. Meanwhile, you could do some investigating of possible plans for your next roommate. Good things usually take planning, and here's your chance.
The most important thing is that this is your life; be true to yourself, and to your purpose.
There is a roommate out there, somewhere, who is perfect for you!!
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melissastarr
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Posted - 11/25/2007 : 07:51:33 AM
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Next ro0ommate- oh no! I'm living ON MY OWN from here on out unless I find a Christian nudist man with whom I'm ready to share the rest of my life. After this experience, no more roommates.
Melissa
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"Do they say that nudity and sex always go together? Well, then be careful and don't get pregnant while taking a bath."
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FireProf
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Posted - 11/25/2007 : 09:43:43 AM
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OR.............nudist of the nation, UNITE! Send Melissa a cash donation to buy her roommate out of the shared rent deal and allow Melissa to live as she likes, with her cats and without a controlling roommate.
It's just a thought!!!
I'll contribute!!
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Warmskin
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Posted - 11/25/2007 : 3:02:42 PM
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That's even a far better idea, Melissa!!! I didn't know what your financial possibilities were at this moment, but then I didn' want to know anyway, except in vague generalities. I'm pulling for you, Melissa. You're a miracle woman, and I am grateful that you have re-established yourself as the great woman you are today. I hope your faith is always your bulwark, and that your viewpoint of being natural before God gives you the liberty and fulfillment you desire.
And to the fellow who wants to start a fund for Melissa, I say --Bravo!!!
That government governs best, which governs least - Thomas Jefferson
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dgcyphers
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Posted - 11/25/2007 : 7:38:34 PM
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Melissa,
It would not allow me to email direct...Yes you could move on your own or as I said it is warmer in Texas and there are plenty of teaching jobs there! HAHA but TRUE... I am somewhat of a nudist. I would say I was never called that, but have walked around when friends where over from the bathroom and when I have cleaned the place in the nude. Years ago I did have multiple homes with multiple roommates and some where strippers and gay as well. I am straight but we would lay around the home watching tv nude. It all started upon my return one night from another location (office) and found them all with friends over naked. Of course I observed as one of my roommates was also straight and female, plus a hair stylists. She was shaving, and waxing most all of them who where not already, privates including backs for the guys. It got me courious again as I hadnt done that in years since swimming in HS. I later came out to put laundry in and was in my boxers, to find out later they dared me to join in the fun. That is something I agree that is hard to find, someone raised christian and enjoys sex and nudity. Have you tried anything past the trim as you said months back? Feel free to email me directly through ya hoo under dgcyp hers. Take Care and stay warm, I keep my place at 67 in the winter and 78 in the summer.
Darin
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