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youngone
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 Posted - 06/13/2009 : 7:13:03 PM
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Hi am new here and new to the whole nudism thing so I thought I might write a short (most likely long) write up of how the experience went for me and how feel about it over all from a young male point of view.
If you read all this then thank you. Sorry if grammar or spelling is bad in some areas
So I’ve wanted to go out and try a nudist beach for quite awhile now, am 20 year male but I look about 16 which has its pro and cons like most things in life. This was one of the areas I was worried and how people would react but I’ll get into that bit later on. So before attempting the nudist beach I thought I would get used to be naked outside. I know people are bored of hearing this but I wanted to find out if I could control penis from becoming erect because that was another area was worried off. (Being at this age still where it happens at the worst moments doesn’t help but hey that’s life, a day will come where it won’t)
Anyway first experience of being naked in Mother Nature was actually during the morning after New Year’s, walking home about 4am, there are a few short cuts through fields, not easy when its dark but I’ve walked it so many times I know my way. So walking away I got thinking about walking through the next part of the field naked, before I knew it I reached the fence and climbed over and was now in the next field. I looked around to see if I could see anyone, no idea why but I did this but I did. I stood still for about 10 seconds and just stripped put my shoes back on and held my clothes under my arm and off I went walking into the field. Within the first few seconds am aroused which I expected to be honest but at least am getting the first time over with. About halfway through the field am thinking how on earth am I not cold but realised that am getting such a buzz that my mind is just ignoring the coldness. So the minutes flew by and then I was at the fence for the next field, which is also the last field before a housing estate. I was enjoying the feeling of being nude so much that I dropped my clothes over the fence, jumped over, picked them up a and off I went again. About ¾ way through the field I stopped and put my clothes back on due to nearing the housing estate. Then walked the rest back clothed to my home and went to bed with a smile on my face.
So I had my first experience naked outside and I really enjoyed it. I was disappointed that I had an errection the whole time during the nude walking but thinking about it, it was my first time, felt a tad naughty for being out in a public area and I think the general excitement of the whole thing got to me. However I was determined to go out and keep doing it until I stopped getting an errection. So at night I drove to areas every so often where I knew there are large fields where I knew I wouldn’t be seen. Once there I would walk into the field, strip and walk or went for a run. 25-30 attempts later I was walking/running around a field naked and I wasn’t getting an errection. I was still getting the enjoyment of being naked and the buzz that came with it. I was so happy that I felt in my mind I was getting closer to going to a nudist beach.
However I realised that I was used to doing it at night and wonder if I would react differently during the day. So a few days later I drove to a forest area which was quite a drive but I felt it was a safe place to do this. Got there just after 9am and began my walk into the forest. I knew this was risky in public during the day but the chances of seeing anyone at this time in the forest during a working day was very low indeed . I got to an area which I felt was fine, did the scan around and stripped off. Within seconds I had an errection but I carried on walking naked just looking around not thinking. I would say about 40 seconds later, I looked down and there I was, naked, walking without an errection. Carried on walking and started to head back, even walked past the bit I stripped at and carried on. I was near the car park which is enclosed from the road by trees. Still feeling brave I carried on into the car park and walked over to my car. (Not a car or person in sight) So I put my clothes back on and drove out the car park. Just about to pull out onto the road and a car slows down and pulls into the car park. (Was bloody lucky that I got dressed and out before she pulled in, otherwise that would a bad situation)
So I had my first experience of walking nude outside during the day and had no trouble. However the next area was dealing with being around nudist. So I waiting for some decent weather and about a month later, a week of hot sun was predicted. That was my opportunity to go try being a nudist. I didn’t want to go to a nude beach that was near to me so I drove down to Studland, a good 2 ½ hours away.
I arrived at Studland and had a plan. I parked at one end and decided to walk across the 3 beach that make Studland. The plan was to park near the ferry then walk through the textile beach, through to the nudist area and through the textile area where I would stop at a cafe and decided how I feel. So off I went and before I knew it, I reach the nudist area. While I walked through the nudist area, the idea was to spot an area which look ok to attempt being naked in and to see the age groups that were enjoying the sun. As I walked through, I already knew the ratio to men and women would be higher but I didn’t realise that it would be older generation such as 60+. There were quite a few couples and single men and women around there 30s which helped me feel less akward. The other trouble was during trying to look for a spot, it may have looked like I was staring at people which if I did, I didn’t mean or intended to do. So 10mins later I was in the next textile beach and at the cafe getting water and food. Where I parked at the otherside I had to walk back through the nudist beach which was a good thing cause that’s where the magic happened. So I began the journey back to the nudist beach and once again started to look for another spot.
I sorry if this sounds rude or offensive in anyway it’s not intended to. After seeing the men to women and age ratio, the aim for to find an area near men and women roughly in their 30’s possibly 25ish +. The reason for this is because I do look young for my age as I said earlier and I wanted to find if I could be naked around/near women and men, as well as them seeing me naked without me getting an errection (once again am sorry if you find that rude or weird). So I saw a spot and walked over. It felt like I was getting looks but most likely I was over thinking and getting worried. Got to the spot and took out my towel and put it down. I them proceeded to take of my shirt and shorts and sat there in my boxers. I looked around and I had the odd people make eye contact as I turned my head but all they did was give a smile, like saying hello, it’s ok sort of thing. As I sat there I was thinking about what was happening and an errection started to form. I was still in my boxers and was determined to get naked. I think people noticed that I didn’t feel comfortable. A middle age couple walked past me going to the sea for a cool off, as they walked back the lady made eye contact with me as they got closer and just gave me a smile, I then looked at the bloke’s face and he did the same. Once again it was a smile which you could tell was meaning its ok, we don’t think anything different of you. I then went for it, I took of my boxers and flipped onto my stomach. I then looked up and noticed that the couple looked back at me, and they both had a smile still, I swear the bloke said well done.
So there I was lying on my stomach naked on the middle of beach and enjoying myself, as time went on, I got more relaxed and got of my stomach and sat up right lying back sort of, looking at the sea. I felt fine lying with my penis out in the sun, didn’t even get errection again for the whole day. Anyway as I was sat up did what I do on a textile beach which is just looking around me. However there was another middle age couple on my right, about 20meters away from me. I found as I looked over in that direction the bloke was looking at me but he was given me this face of ‘don’t look at my wife’ now I will be honest and say his wife is an attractive lady with a nice body for her age. But this bloke was making me feel uneasy. My bag was placed in the area which I guess he couldn’t tell if I was naked or not but that shouldn’t matter. So far I was really enjoying myself, people went by saying nothing thou people walking along the beach front who weren’t naked gave me a good look but I could tell that was to do with my age and looking younger than I am but they stopped looking and carried on walking so all was fine. The national trust people (one on a quad bike and another on a buggy) drove by and looked at me but carried on driving. I think in my mind I was abit to focused at what people were thinking but this was my first time doing this so it was bound to happen. However I was still getting the same look for this bloke, he even walked over to the sea, then along the front so he was directly in front of me in a distance but gave me a good stare. I still found this off putting and was thinking about leaving but I didn’t want him to ruin my first time being on a nude beach. A good 2 hours passed and decided that was time to go. Stood up and had no problems, I felt so fine with the whole being a nudist that I could have walked nude to the end of the nudist area but I didn’t. So got dressed, shaked my towel, put it back in my bag and headed back. The downside was the long drive back but in the end it was worth it.
So overall I really did enjoy myself being on a nude beach. I’ve found that I have the confidence to being naked in front of both men and women without getting aroused and just feel fine, as if am not naked. I’ve enjoyed my experience so much that am going to go back again when the weather is nice and I’ve looked into holidays where nudist beach are near if I went out.
I have noticed that it’s built up my confidence in other areas and tasks in life too. Alot people say there’s nothing worse than being naked in public. Well I’ve been naked in public and it felt great so what’s there to worry about.
Thanks for reading and any comments are welcome
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Balto Bob
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desertnude
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Posted - 06/17/2009 : 03:50:52 AM
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Wow, thanks for that, it has been so long since my first day at the beach I had forgotten how it was, sure brought back fond memories. Congratulations and many happy returns!
Michael
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Ronps
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Posted - 06/17/2009 : 09:04:15 AM
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Bravo Young One... well done. Although, if you really think about it, you can see that society has made us feel as Men, that an erection is an embarrassment. Something which we should be in 100% control of at all times. My feeling is if it happens it happens.
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elad
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Posted - 06/17/2009 : 8:14:13 PM
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Wonderful experiences! Welcome to the nudist lifestyle!
We don't receive wisdom; we must discover it for ourselves after a journey that no one can take for us or spare us.
Marcel Proust (1871 - 1922)
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sailawaybob
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Posted - 06/27/2009 : 01:01:19 AM
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enjoy the nudist lifestyle, you are so lucky to find it so young especially a nude beach, don't be apprehendsive to visit a nude beach near your home those at the beach are also nudist from your community, as most of us wished we had a nude beach close to home.
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Randall50
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Posted - 10/31/2009 : 9:05:39 PM
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It's always a thrill to toss off the textiles. Never grows old. Welcome to the less-encumbered life.
To gain confidence I always heard: "Imagine the person sitting in his underwear." Funny, I had nothing on at all.
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Randall50
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Posted - 11/02/2009 : 10:47:33 PM
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One more response: As a young person, you might be wise to keep a couple of things in mind:
1. Learn to be discreet. I'm not saying to live in secret: discretion is not secrecy. Know the difference. There are plenty of sane nudists out there. Discretion will keep your life sane and safe.
2. Just because someone shares your interest in nudism doesn't mean that person is safe. I believe technology - the Internet in particular - have reduced ethics and responsibility, not increased them.
I hope this helps.
To gain confidence I always heard: "Imagine the person sitting in his underwear." Funny, I had nothing on at all.
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Warmskin
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Posted - 11/03/2009 : 12:27:59 AM
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It's interesting how erections don't happen when you are with other nudists. It's the stark reality of being with others that, to me, deters erections. One could think that other people seem to impose discipline against erections, while in reality they are not, but the effect would be the same.
Glad you had a fairly good time at the beach, YoungOne. The next time you go there, you'll be experienced, and the only way you can become experienced is to have the courage to try something unfamiliar in the first place. Good for you!!!
"All men having power ought to be distrusted to a certain degree."
James Madison
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Diger
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Posted - 11/16/2009 : 5:12:01 PM
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As youngone's post showed errections are more common when your nude alone than socializing. The only time we have ever seen an errection being sported for any amount of time on the nude beach, He had to touch himself to keep it up. He was wanting to show it off and could not even keep it up without help. Some of us confronted him after a while and I told him "If that thing lasts more than 4hrs he would have to go to the hospital."
We spoiled his day and he packed up to leave shortly (pun intended) after that.
Diger
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soonbnude
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Posted - 11/27/2009 : 02:15:15 AM
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Randall50 you are a wise man in regard to being wary about the internet.
Diger, I agree, the only erections you tend to see are the guys trying to attract or impress others. My first few times at a nude beach I located myself and a male friend close to the ocean "just in case" but it didn't happen. We saw a guy playing with himself but some beach patrol guys (Swanbourne Beach in Perth, Western Australia) moved him on.
I think this is a bit of a non-issue, how many naturally occurring ie. not "encouraged" erections really happen and for how long?
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