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Ricki00
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 Posted - 01/07/2010 : 11:06:28 AM
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Originally posted by Mister Pappy
I can't believe this is a topic among so called "naturists". What is natural is natural. What is overt is overt. Men and women get excited and exibit ourtward signs of it, so what? This subject is as arcane as the subject of topless men vs. topless women! Be natural, be respectful, and be happy. What the crap is all this nonesense about erections?
Forget not that the earth delights to feel your bare feet and the winds long to play with your hair. ~Kahlil Gibran
You got a point there
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ART_NAKED
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Posted - 01/13/2010 : 3:25:28 PM
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I do not think it is the erection itself that’s the issue. It is how people react to this situation and what the erection originators thoughts on what others think at that moment.
As a teen in one of the communes I and a girlfriend were swimming in a cold drinking water tank up on a hill. (It was a common thing to do in the summer) Anyway, you had to climb a ladder that was attached to the side and lift a leg over to get in or out. There was a new group of people visiting from another farm that I had never met. While in the tank I heard a few people walking up the hill. The only reason for them to be there was to swim in the water. My friend and I were making out and I had an erection that would not go away.
Thinking back, I do not know what had come over me into thinking of being embarrassed and wanting to hide the erection from these people. There were no tangible reasons to hide it, I just felt the need to hide it.
I heard them climbing the ladder and in no time there were three women in their late twenties climbing in, in the nude as we were of course. Now the water level was a little low and the round tanks wooden walls were black, so I was able to hide my erection (that was not going away) as long as I was in the water.
Now the girl I was with wanted to get out of the tank and I was to follow. I tried to hold a conversation with our new guests to stave off some time to allow my woody to go away. Between the cold water and all the stimuli I had the hardest erection ever and I had to get out of the water.
I did get out and climb over the side with my teen manhood in tow, embarrassed as ever. I heard the girls in the tank giggle as I was climbing down the ladder. Only then did my erection go away. I did not have a woody when my naked foot felt the last wrung of the ladder.
That is my story and I’m sticken to it
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Mister Pappy
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Posted - 01/13/2010 : 4:11:20 PM
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What confounds me the most is the fact that we are discussing a relatively uncontrolable function of the human body that occurs naturally in men as if it were something to be shameful of and to hide. I personally have not overcome the initial stages of body conciousness that naturists go through. The only thing that makes me certain that I ever will overcome it is the fact that the philosophy of naturism is sound. However, the idea that the male erection is not equally as natural as the rest of the body is not in harmony with the whole of the principles from which the idea of being natural sprang. One may find offense at any level of practice inside the nudist lifestyle if he or she chooses to do so. It seems to me that freedom from these petty offenses is one of the primary functions of such a lifestyle from its foundation upwards.
Forget not that the earth delights to feel your bare feet and the winds long to play with your hair. ~Kahlil Gibran
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Naked_Knight
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Posted - 01/17/2010 : 09:21:01 AM
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its the same penis be it erect or flaccid; so people should really get over it and keep it moving.
if you like being naked, YOU ROCK!!!!!!!!
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soonbnude
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Posted - 01/18/2010 : 8:02:26 PM
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NK
It might be the same penis and the person to whom it is attached is the same but some people may wonder why it happened or feel intimidated or uncomfortable. If a guy is laying on his back sunning himself and it happens naturally then that's fine. My issue is with the guys that massage their penis to achieve an erection to try to impress women or men. Unfortunately nude beaches do attract people who have a different idea about the purpose of the beach, ie. as a potential pick-up place, or they can in Australia.
In Oz we have a small population and large coast line and the numbers of people attending nude beaches seems to be reducing. This means there are less nudist club or organised people around to admonish or try to deter guys like this. It's an issue as it can get a beach a bad name in the local press and this puts pressure on governments to review and potentially close these beaches as C/O if they have a poor track record. A number of the beaches I have attended have a clothed section at one end and a C/O at the far end, textiles often walk past to check us out and it does not take much poor behaviour before articles start to appear in newspapers.
However a recent article in a Melbourne newspaper was refreshing as there is a proposal to legalise another nude beach closer to the city. The article written by a woman journalist who does or has lived near the beach said the nude bathers (illegally nude) in the past were not the problem, it was the flashers jumping out of bushes nearby or on paths to the beach that were a concern to her and other women who had been harassed.
You may think I'm drawing a long bow but the naturally occurring erection is not so much the issue, its the forced one and the behaviour that may accompany it that is a concern.
SBN.
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Marsand Venus
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 Posted - 01/29/2010 : 12:38:43 AM
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Surely the polite response to a spontaneous erection is to either hide it or ignore it. Only when a man acts upon his erection does it become unacceptable in public. On my first few visits to a nude beach I had an almost permanent erection, which I found to be extremely embarrassing. I hid it from view by lying on my front (resulting in a lot of teasing from my wife!). The frequency of erections has subsided with time, but so has the necessity to cover up. Erections are a natural and often uncontrollable occurrence. They are not necessarily associated with sexual arousal but can also occur in states of relaxation, contact with a breeze and sometimes for no apparent reason at all. If we regard ourselves as true nudists/naturists, we should be against any censoring of the human body as nature intended. It is only when an individual takes the erection further through some sort of contact or prominent display that we should disapprove. Going to a nude beach should be a relaxing and enjoyable experience, not one where a man is constantly worried about getting an erection. Erections for me nowadays are a fairly rare occurrence at the beach. Whether partial or full, they are ignored and soon subside. the context of the ercetion is all important. Whilst I think it's unacceptable to walk along a beach with a sustained full erection, surely it's okay to be in the same state whilst lying down dozing and soaking up the sun. We have a few nudist friends and we all seem to be comfortable with the odd erection in company. It's only the rare particularly full erection that might generate a comment or joke ("you need a cold shower" or "you'll have someone's eye out with that"). We've all seen each other's penis in an erect and flaccid state and I think that's all just part of the freedom of nudism and the liberation that comes with "baring all".
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dakotacpl
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Posted - 01/29/2010 : 08:27:51 AM
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Well said!
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nakedinnc
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Posted - 03/13/2010 : 1:30:43 PM
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Thanks Mars&Venus for your thoughts. Hopefully most of us agree with the essence of your statement: "If we regard ourselves as true nudists/naturists, we should be against any censoring of the human body as nature intended. It is only when an individual takes the erection further through some sort of contact or prominent display that we should disapprove."
I recently returned from Mexico where my sig-other and I spent two days nude on a beach south of Tulum. All beaches in Mexico are public. This one had nude, topless and suited people.
A curious thing happened both days that relate to this topic: We were oogled at! Not that this is bad, it's actually quite a compliment, just that we have't really experienced it before. We are not porn stars but neither are we slackers. My sig-other has perfectly shaped breasts and a nice full hairy triangle. I keep myself in pretty good shape and have above average endowment. At other nude caribbean beaches people look at us with the same frequency they do others but we have never been openly oogled before. Perhaps it was a combination of only a few people nude and people visiting a nude beach for the first time.
How does this relate to erections and turn-ons for women? There was group of three women seated close to us that turned their beach chairs so they were facing us and also facing the sun. They had full suits on and pretended to be reading. Several times my girlfriend pointed out to me that they were oogling my equipment. Most of the guys that walked by all of a sudden seemed very interested in the beach near us and stole looks at my girlfriend's "naturalness" and perfect breasts with erect nipples.
When we are at a nude beach the: warm sun, freedom from clothes, gentle breeze and good looking women combine to cause a slight arousal. This slight arousal in concert with my scrotum's natural tightening and above average endowment results in me laying or walking around with what some may consider an erection.
There is nothing I can or want to do about this. If some women enjoy oogling me (as the beach chair women did) then I am glad to have provided a service to them, perhaps brightened their day and provided a vacation story for them to tell their friends.
The point is that my condition is natural. I don't flaunt it or try to attract others with it in public. Nudists/naturists who can not accept this have a very small view of the real world.
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Saxman
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Posted - 03/14/2010 : 12:32:49 AM
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Really? 64 Pages on this? What in the world?!?
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Parrotile
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Posted - 03/14/2010 : 03:25:38 AM
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Seems to be popular (albeit bizarre) topic !! More pages on this little problem than 'most anything else, which could suggest to the "outsider" that we're all closet nymphomaniacs!
Erections are a bit of a problem, but nothing else. Just like sneezes, they occasionally happen for the oddest reasons, and everyone seems to be "wired" slightly differently - which is what makes us Human. Best suggestion is to ignore it and it'll behave. Personally can't support the "jump in a cold swimming pool" since for me this has the opposite effect (hence my comments above). Rolling over on the belly until things settle down might be the best option? Just DON'T Chase the Mother-in-Law!!
Have fun?
Phil & Timea S.
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Diger
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Posted - 03/14/2010 : 5:25:03 PM
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Come on guys for the last time it's dangerous to stand on a Male Arousal.
Diger
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MTBnudist
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Posted - 03/14/2010 : 7:22:34 PM
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I think it's funny how this thread just keeps getting started back up all the time... LOL!! :)
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volcano333
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Posted - 05/07/2010 : 2:34:46 PM
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Woow. I red some pages, as i am a newbie on the nudist beaches. From time to time i have an arousal on the beach and the reflex is to cover my penis, but also, i was thinking: why doing this?? I am nude to enjoy the sun WITHOUT stress. You can imagine that a part of my sun bath is on the stres to have smth to cover me if it happens. I don't think that this is the meaning of the nudisme. Am i wrong?
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Albertaguy
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Posted - 06/02/2010 : 4:32:39 PM
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Hey all, good input on the Erection issue, I feel too that it is just simply a nervous reaction for some not something to be embarest about. I got an erection the first time at a nude beach there weren't any ladies around at the time, so I didn't worry about it and it went a way shortly. More so I agree though if you think that it may may make any one uncomfortable or in general mixed company you should cover up a bit, I don't really think most want to see your erection, and they may feel threatened.
Other wise keep enjoying the freedom of being a nudist.
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freecospirit
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Posted - 06/04/2010 : 08:23:27 AM
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I don't think that it is nervous reaction but a reaction which we are nervous about, in fact overly so. I've been on loads of beaches and never had an erection on a beach, it just seems not to happen in company. However if I'm relaxing nude at home alone or with my wife it sometimes does happen when I don't think that I'm feeling in the least randy. May be because on the beach I really dread it happening so subconsciously will it not to, at home I'm completely relaxed so let it happen and simply don't worry about it.
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