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Cookie
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 Posted - 12/15/2005 : 5:17:58 PM
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Our two daughters are now in in their Jr. and Sr. year in College. They were raised in a nudist home. We introduced them to nudism a young age, and they never questioned it and we lived nude through the years1
They tell us how they can't do it in their dorms, so they enjoy coming home on weekends and semester breaks when they are able.
They are looking forward to our "Spring Break" trip to DS this spring. Believe my wife and I are also looking forward to since the temps in the Northeast are in the single figures.
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nudist-daddy-ron
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Posted - 01/04/2006 : 2:51:30 PM
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I have been a full nudist good part of my life, I have remarried to a home nudist, and I told her that I wanted to introduce nudism life style to my 13 yr stepdaughter if she come and lives with us. I just not sure, how to introduce it to her in a positive non-sexual-way she has basically been raised by her natural father is basically have gone through life with blinders on and has raised the kids the same way. I’m sorry but I was raised with blinders on and I feel like I missed a lot in my growing up ages as a minor and I don't want any of my kids step or non-step to have to go through live like that...Can anyone give me some advice???
why wear clothes if you don't have to besides you were'nt born with clothes on...
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curious1
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Posted - 01/05/2006 : 05:52:44 AM
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With all due respect, if the girl isn't your own, and the father chooses to raise the child in a protective way, you have no option but to respect that and not interfere. Speaking as a father, I would be immensely displeased if my ex-wife's mate chose to introduce something I disapproved of.
If you are looking for a guaranteed serious fight on your hands, which could result in losing visitation privileges for your wife with her daughter, you're heading right into it by attempting to introduce her to anything that the father is against. Regardless of how you or any of us feel about nudism, it isn't your position to make such a call. Only if BOTH parents buy into the concept, and THEY choose to introduce it, will the choice be proper. You may dislike the blinders, but you have no role, no say in this.
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Originally posted by nudist-daddy-ron
I have been a full nudist good part of my life, I have remarried to a home nudist, and I told her that I wanted to introduce nudism life style to my 13 yr stepdaughter if she come and lives with us. I just not sure, how to introduce it to her in a positive non-sexual-way she has basically been raised by her natural father is basically have gone through life with blinders on and has raised the kids the same way. I’m sorry but I was raised with blinders on and I feel like I missed a lot in my growing up ages as a minor and I don't want any of my kids step or non-step to have to go through live like that...Can anyone give me some advice???
why wear clothes if you don't have to besides you were'nt born with clothes on...
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nudist-daddy-ron
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Posted - 01/05/2006 : 11:25:17 AM
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With all do respect, Yeah I understand what you are saying, but heres the twist to it all she has gone to the county and told the courts that she does not want to live with her father anymore and she wants to live with us out of state and the courts has granted her request and ordered her to live with us instead...
why wear clothes if you don't have to besides you were'nt born with clothes on...
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Nudony
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Posted - 01/05/2006 : 12:27:10 PM
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It can work if the biological parent is mostly "out of the picture." I have seen such situations; most specifically with a friend of mine, with daughter, who remarried and encouraged nudity at home. It was also a stepdad/stepdaughter situation. It took a little while for the both of them to really get comfortable being nude around each other, but it eventually became routine. It wasn't an issue simply because the father had left when the daughter was an infant, and had little to do with her except for Christmas/Birthday cards. And they didn't communicate enough for him to even find out
But you have to be sure that the parent is sufficiently "out of the picture" so that it wouldn't cause problems down the road.
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nudist-daddy-ron
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Posted - 01/05/2006 : 10:39:51 PM
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Thanks for the info.
That I will do. Make sure he's out of the picture b4 we try to introduce her to it. I figured the we would do it gradully like leaving doord open when it came to showering or changeing clothes, you know stuff like that and let her get use to it slowly.
why wear clothes if you don't have to besides you were'nt born with clothes on...
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curious1
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Posted - 01/06/2006 : 06:28:39 AM
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Ron, this doesn't sound like the father is out of the picture. What you are suggesting, with an active parent in the picture, is a recipe for instant disaster for everyone involved. Having been through this kind of thing before, I suspect there are angles to this story you are leaving out. Still, regardless of where the child lives, it doesn't abrogate the rights of the father, nor lessen your vulnerability to legal action for doing something which can be seen in a poor light by the other parent or the court.
This discussion forum is rife with warnings of the consequences of similar actions. You would be well advised to seek them and heed them before trying this without the other parent's approval. From my perspective, this seems more about your desire to have it this way than the daughter's or her parents- and do notice the plural.
Tread at your own risk. And the child's...
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Bill Bowser
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Posted - 08/27/2007 : 12:29:26 AM
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Last year after my wife passed away I came out of the closet and became a social nudist. I spent as much time as I could at the local club and was nude at home whenever it was warm enough for comfort. I really enjoyed it.
After my step daughter accepted my invitation for her and her 10 year old daughter to come and live with me last fall I figured my clothes-free lifestyle at home would soon be coming to an end. I, of course, told my stepdaughter about my nudism, but I promised not to do anything to make her or her daughter uncomfortable.
Well, since then fate has smiled upon me in ways I never would have expected. Last June both the girls accepted my invitation to visit the club. For me it turned out to be as easy to be nude in front of them as it was to be nude in front of everyone else. Since her initial experience at social nudism the stepdaughter is not quite ready to return, but my granddaughter has turned into a nude junky. She accompanies me to the club almost daily. She has become very comfortable with being nude in front of strangers, and I think it has improved her self-confidence.
Another unexpected benefit for me has been that they both realized that there was no longer any reason to object to my being nude around the house. So, I was able to officially declare my home to be clothing-optional. Most of the time I'm the only one who takes advantage of the new designation, but that's okay with me.
In case it isn't apparent the point I want to make is that it is just as easy to expose your naked body to your family members, including children or grandchildren (or anyone else), as it is to do it before strangers. Think about it, why should it make any difference? What is everybody afraid of? This really is a case of having nothing to fear but fear itself.
Have a nude day,
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jaam
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Posted - 08/27/2007 : 12:40:30 AM
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We are nude with our 5 year old daughter at home daily, and we take her clubs and resorts with us. She absolutely loves it.
We took some newbies with us to the club this weekend and it was her telling our friends that it was ok to be nude, and that the human body was beautiful. She told them there was nothing to be embarrassed about.
We are very proud of her self view and confidence.
Maybe there is hope yet for young people. We hope she stays that way.
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whatshisname
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Posted - 09/26/2007 : 9:40:02 PM
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I think the first time I was aware of being nude in front of older kids (I was mid 30s) was at Blacks Beach. My g/f and I had put our blanket down near one of the trails down to the beach. Soon a bunch of teenagers (boys & girls age 16 or so)asked for help getting their stuff down off the trail. I was a little uncomfortable but my g/f said go ahead so I did. They dropped their stuff in front of us, stripped and ran to the water. We spent the rest of the afternoon with them. Everything was ok.
tom
Transported to a surreal landscape, a young girl
kills the first woman she meets and then teams up with three complete
strangers to kill again. - Marin County newspaper's TV listing for
The Wizard of Oz
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DaveI
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Posted - 09/30/2007 : 8:41:16 PM
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I discovered a nudist beach (in France) by total accident (see First Experience) and then visited it several times during my holiday. Unfortunately my wife would not remove her costume but my children did become aware of what was happening.
My children are now grown up and I have remarried. My new wife and I have had several naturist holidays and my children are aware of this; however neither of them have followed our lead.
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Kauai1
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Posted - 10/05/2007 : 8:49:30 PM
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Introducing the kids to "Naturism" (nude) is a good thing. They will then have a choice to be nude or otherwise - at their choice. We're not into kiidie-porn, but, fun loving kids splasing in the water of a warm beach is so - GOOD! They are the true nudists. No concerns, no problems. Be - and, STAY Nude.
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nudistmormon
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Posted - 02/19/2008 : 12:48:03 AM
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hey all, first off I should mention I am not new here. I am formerly "loves2bnude" I cant seem to get on that account for some reason. Anyway, I am not sure when I was first nude in front of older kids but last time i remember was at a friend of mines house at 13 years old and slept nude. Needless to say I forgot I was nude when I woke up and left the room nude. My friends mom saw me nude and her face turned about 10 shades of red. I wasnt in anyway embarrassed or anything. Later on in the day she pulled me aside to talk to me about it and we agreed that my nudity was ok at their house as long as i was comfortable. During the conversation she asked me why I liked being nude so much and I told her I really cant put it in words and she would just have to try it to see what I mean. She then asked me if I could give her an idea how to get over that initial fear of being seen so I told her what I did. What I did to get over it was took a shower and didnt take my clothes in the bathroom with me and the only towel there was was actually a washcloth so it would have just served me better to use it to dry and leave it in the bathroom and be nude. Later that day she did just that and loved it. My friend followed and then his brothers and last was his stepdad. I need to find a way to get to a resort or something this summer though.
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rooftopwilly
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Posted - 11/21/2008 : 10:36:42 PM
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there is a state park that my family has their reunion at every year. there is a pool there with "open" showers. i say open because there is no roof. there are walls keeping it enclosed, but no roof. i used to shower there naked all the time. i had more fun in the shower just being naked outdoors than i did swimming in the pool. there were always older kids in there, as well as adults.
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sailawaybob
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Posted - 12/30/2008 : 5:25:16 PM
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Willy we have a state park in Georgia like that except its on the lake, one day after swimming I went up to the bathhouse to change and discovered the open roof shower and changing area, I decided to strip and take a shower as I was showering a man walked into the shower with his three children a boy and two girls all four were dressed and wanted to rinse off when he saw me nude he asked if I minded the girls being there to which I told him I was Ok with them. I finished showering and got dressed.
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