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tsunami
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Posted - 09/09/2010 : 05:14:50 AM
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I think if someone notices you have one testicle and not two then they are looking at your parts way too closely. I think you have to look very closely for it to be noticeable. My little brother had one for many years and no one noticed. Actually we had no idea until we were told that he had surgery to lower the second one when he was a teen.
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old hippie
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 Posted - 09/09/2010 : 2:36:57 PM
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Originally posted by Rahul7009
Ignore it.
Most people are so curious that they cannot help staring unconciously. I am sure there is nothing bad in their mind going more than curiosity.
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Rahul is thoroughly on point here; people cannot help noticing something out of the ordinary. The telling point is whether they continue to stare longer than the initial moment of surprise.
I have an ostomy pouch on my abdomen, the lasting reminder of cancer surgery 20+ years ago. On a nude beach, it is quite obvious (not at all subtle like an unaccompanied testicle) and I can see people's gaze go there - but usually move on after a few seconds. At first it was a bit disconcerting, but I no longer pay that glance any attention. The more honest reactions come from children, who are usually openly curious about new things. Sometimes I can hear them saying, "Mommy, what was he wearing?" or something like that. They are plainly curious, and I hope the parent can give them a satisfactory answer. But I pay it no more attention than every other glance of people walking on the beach, aware of one another's presence. Almost never does someone stare. If they did, I would disdain them.
So take it from Rahul - ignore it.
Dum vivimus, vivamus!
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seeking-truth
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Posted - 10/13/2010 : 2:51:11 PM
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I have been to many nudist get togethers, and I have seen all kinds of things, for missing parts, yes and I am very proud of the people that comes to a nude events,.As for me, I have very small testicles was born that way, and have no problem being nude in front of others, from time to time I get people to stare. but it is no big deal.I am happy how God made me.
Live Free or Die
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flyingnose
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Posted - 03/05/2011 : 7:39:33 PM
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I had a friend years ago that was born with only 1. While we were growing up we didn't see each other for a number of years. (his family moved across the country.) When we saw each other again and had a few drinks and talked about old times etc. He said that people would stair at him cause he really felt the need to keep the area shaved. I just mentioned to him why don't you have a Tattoo on the left side that says Cancer. He had a number of other tattoo's on other parts of his body. He said" I didn't have that" so I told him- doesn't make any difference. Just do it and no problem. He decided to do it and then about 1 year latter when I saw him again he had done that and said "That made all the difference"--People would look and didn't continue to stare or say anything after that. Best thing I ever did!!!!!. So if you give normal people an answer NO PROBLEM. Was it wrong???? yes but normal people Nudist or not only want an acceptable answer--If you know what I mean. as I said it was just a suggestion but it worked well.
If we were supposed to ware clothes then how come we were not born with them on????
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sunflower
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Posted - 03/29/2011 : 1:36:41 PM
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I only have one breast due to cancer nearly 16 years ago, I find that people just donīt notice, they are looking at me as a person and not what Iīve got or rather havnīt got.
As a widow, I go to the local naturist beach alone but 99.9% of the time nobody bothers me and I am certainly not fazed about only having one breast, just glad to be alive.
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