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isabel
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 Posted - 10/26/2010 : 03:50:20 AM
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My moms boyfriend is a nudist and him and his children are nude at home all the time and my mom is going to marry him, so do you think I should be a nudist too? Me and mom were in a nudist camp with them and it went ok. Moms boyfriend said they will all wear clothes if we have a problem with it (when we move in together). I am 18 and my 'new dad' has 17 year old and 14 year old guys. My mom said its ok when she is nude around them cos they are used to all nudity. I was ok on the camp except for sitting with guys was scary for the first half.
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man
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Posted - 10/26/2010 : 04:09:20 AM
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Not necessary to be nude with them.You can ignore them if you dont like them.Another option,you can have your own boy friend and then you both decide what to do.
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man
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Posted - 10/26/2010 : 04:15:53 AM
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Isabel ,pls infm what happened next?Is my reply suitable to you?Also,if they find(your new dad and his children)that you are wearing clothes all the time,they will also start weraing clothes but just dont argue with them reg this matter and ignore them.OK
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isabel
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Posted - 10/26/2010 : 04:18:05 AM
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Not necessary to be nude with them.You can ignore them if you dont like them.Another option,you can have your own boy friend and then you both decide what to do.
Oh ok like if I move in with a boyfriend instead? Maybe could but for sure I wanna fit in with family if possibl. Are nudist guys ok with nude girls or are they like most boys?
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isabel
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Posted - 10/26/2010 : 04:22:25 AM
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Isabel ,pls infm what happened next?Is my reply suitable to you?Also,if they find(your new dad and his children)that you are wearing clothes all the time,they will also start weraing clothes but just dont argue with them reg this matter and ignore them.OK
Ok for sure :)
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Bill Bowser
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Posted - 10/26/2010 : 1:50:24 PM
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Although my troll detector is starting to beep I'll ignore it and take a stab at this.
I think you should do whatever you're comfortable doing. If you enjoy being nude, then it seems to be appropriate that you join the others when they're nude. If not, then you should remain clothed. If you're not comfortable with others around you being nude while you are not then say so. Most nudists won't try to impose their lifestyle on those who aren't comfortable with it.
Bill Bowser - Cincinnati
Nudists are everywhere, but they're hard to identify with their clothes on.
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Safebare
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Posted - 10/26/2010 : 3:39:35 PM
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IDK on the troll question, but prefer to take the positive approach until stone throwing is justified.
Isabel,
just like the visit to the 'camp', things might be uncomfortable at first, but that applies to any time families decide to blend. Trust your instincts. Give nudity a try when the setting is comfortable (safe) and go from there. Communicate! The future 1/2 siblings are a better resource than anyone you hear from on the internet (& that includes me).
Especially talk to your mom, she will have similar questions and would appreciate someone to discuss them with. Good luck!
"Wearing nothing is devine, naked is a state of mind."
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Diger
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Posted - 10/26/2010 : 10:08:20 PM
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Isabel,
That was a nice thing for your future family offering to wear clothes if you have a problem. It's very nice but not fair to them and by your post it doesn't seem you would want that anyway.
Just take it slow and trust your feelings. In a nudist family you will find no dress code or undress code either, just wear or don't wear what your comfortable with. You will be accepted for who you are cause that's what families do.
Don't over think it just enjoy getting to know your new family.
Good Luck
Diger
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Balto Bob
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isabel
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Posted - 10/28/2010 : 02:31:04 AM
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Originally posted by Safebare
IDK on the troll question, but prefer to take the positive approach until stone throwing is justified.
Isabel,
just like the visit to the 'camp', things might be uncomfortable at first, but that applies to any time families decide to blend. Trust your instincts. Give nudity a try when the setting is comfortable (safe) and go from there. Communicate! The future 1/2 siblings are a better resource than anyone you hear from on the internet (& that includes me).
Especially talk to your mom, she will have similar questions and would appreciate someone to discuss them with. Good luck!
"Wearing nothing is devine, naked is a state of mind."
Ok I'll talk to mom, I'm not sure of my siblings they are really hypo (but not mean). I guess I am shy about talking to them. Mom is super-outgoing.
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isabel
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Posted - 10/28/2010 : 02:34:20 AM
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Isabel,
That was a nice thing for your future family offering to wear clothes if you have a problem. It's very nice but not fair to them and by your post it doesn't seem you would want that anyway.
Just take it slow and trust your feelings. In a nudist family you will find no dress code or undress code either, just wear or don't wear what your comfortable with. You will be accepted for who you are cause that's what families do.
Don't over think it just enjoy getting to know your new family.
Good Luck
Diger
Thanks Dig,
I wore bniknis a lot even before I met my new family so I could wear that maybe for the first weeks. We haven't moved in yet but are moving things in already.
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isabel
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Posted - 10/28/2010 : 02:37:03 AM
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You wrote "sitting with guys was scary for the first half". I'm guessing you became less uncomfortable after a while. All blended families are a challenge. Give it time.
Bob
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Ok I'll give it time, do you or anyone have hints of rules that may be for nude at home? Anything I should know?
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rooftopwilly
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Posted - 10/28/2010 : 7:26:15 PM
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I would suggest wearing the bikini for a bit, then try just going topless once you are comfortable. Then after a while, if you feel that you are ready, remove the bottoms. It doesn't sound like your new family is going to pressure you into anything.
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Diger
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Posted - 10/28/2010 : 10:08:44 PM
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Isabel,
Don't over think it, if you wear sweat pants and a tee shirt around the house now, then it would be OK for your new home. If it's panties and bra that would be OK too, just do whats comfortable and what your use to. You will be fitting in sooner or later, my bet is it will be sooner.
Be true to yourself.
Diger
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isabel
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Posted - 10/30/2010 : 11:02:42 AM
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I would suggest wearing the bikini for a bit, then try just going topless once you are comfortable. Then after a while, if you feel that you are ready, remove the bottoms. It doesn't sound like your new family is going to pressure you into anything.
It seems like they are scared of me being scared of them. At our house (the house me and mom always lived its got a pool so yep I wear them a lot).
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