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chic
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Posted - 02/05/2004 : 01:46:59 AM
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Well as I said earlier, it's the difference of what nudist believe and practice, versus what exibistionists do.
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Kimberly
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 Posted - 02/08/2004 : 04:56:20 AM
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I agree with you Chic, you have said it all.
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irishred
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Posted - 02/08/2004 : 08:37:34 AM
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Chic, well said.
Marpie, welcome to the forum.
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cityhunk
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Posted - 02/16/2004 : 03:06:55 AM
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Originally posted by marpie
I think male erections on the beach can be divided into four general catagories.
1. When a man is lying on the beach close to women. In that case it is easy to roll over or to cover up. Being close and having an erection can be treated as unpolite thus covering is highly preferable.
2. Practising sports like volleyball etc. In that case erection can be caused by reasons far away from sexual and usually quickly disappears. In fact, noone should bother as everyone is engaged in sports, not thinking about any other things. In my opinion covering in that case is not necessary and would look very weird.
3. Walking down the beach and having an erection because of passing-by woman. An erection in that case usually happens in such speed and close distance that any covering or walking away does not make any difference. Because of how fast it grows, an erection is visible to the passing-by woman quite a short time. Thus, I think that in that case any precautions are not fast enough and really not necessary.
4. Constant erection and sporting it out to every people. Such a guy should be thrown away from the beach as soon as possible.
Case 3 is the most common situation, I think. It happened to me some times and not because of any sexual thoughts. Just seeing a nice naked woman made my penis go up. My girfriend said she has witnessed the same thing several times and did not take it as a offence or aggression. She told she was mostly embarassed, but also a bit complimented when a guy get an erection because of her.
Thus, I think that covering up is a way in some circumstances, but there are also others when any precautions are not necessary.
And I really do not agree that an erection means aggression. Of course, an erect penis could be trated as "ready" for a sexual intercourse. But it does not mean that a men intends to do so. Why don't you treat is as a compliment about your body? Apart from any natural reasons like hot etc., an erection happens because of naked women and in 99,9% cases has nothing to do with willingness to any sexual intercourse.
THATS A GREAT ANALYSIS. BUT SOMETIMES JUST MERE COVERING ACTION GETS OFFENSIVE.
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Vic
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Posted - 03/22/2004 : 03:09:51 AM
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Hi everybody,
I just registered in this forum so I can tell you about my recent experience. I grew up in well adapted and tolerated nudist community, the whole country, if it brings profit, why not?
I grew up in Croatia and even as part of communist regime that it was at a time, I was growing up in more liberal place then any western country, the whole idea was very well consumed and integrated into communities across the Adriatic coast and islands. Vacationers from around Europe find some of the best recreation and nude beeches in Croatia for decades now. Best there is happens on many islands and small organized boat tours around these islands.
Well, that's there, I now live in USA and rules are different here. It seems that as long as nude beeches are somewhere out of sight and nobody complains, stuff can be tolerated.
You see, I am used to freedom and best beech in the area, not the worst and that only if there are no complaints, may be a while before Americans can face the facts.
Finally, I located a beech north of San Francisco (the hell on earth as far as morality goes), beech is cool, it has it's charm and worshipers.
The other day, a guy that was accompanied by two girls started giving one of them a massage, he went on and on squeezing and rubbing this girls buttocks and never moved on to other parts of her body.
She started to move around slightly and guy just kept rubbing.
I looked at this whole thing going on few feet from me and tried to ignore it, not a chance.
I may be getting old but blood pressure is still good, two other girls have returned from a walk and quick swim, they stretched near by and displayed every square inch of their bodies as they dried themselves off.
Now I have been exposed to few naked girls and should have it under control, I thought.
The erection happened with no intent or way to stop it, the whole nine yards, well maybe a little less.
One of the girls noticed and at one point crossed her look with mine, she smiled at me and moved on to reading a book.
Although I felt as if I was entrapped and cornered, it was never the less a beautiful natural experience. I managed to quiet it down and no one has been subjected to potential attack of hormones out of control.
Today I ran into two girls again and strike the conversation about general subjects, after a while I asked a girl who was briefly exposed to my erection if that was offending to her, before I had chance to add any comments, she replied saying that she was flattered by it and that’s it.
I didn't seek to be aroused, I was provoked into it and that's all there is to it, I was very pleased that girl saw it that way and encouraged me to enjoy the moment for what it was, a natural beautiful thing, nothing more to tell about it.
I have witnessed and experienced other sexual situations at nude beeches and simply cannot separate the two, things do happen by design and by coincidence, why fight it?
The key to controlled outcome seems to be in civil behavior of those who find themselves in these situations, dignified acknowledgment.
Is nudism about sex?, hell no, but on the other hand you cannot pretend not to be touched by a scene of a beautiful woman or a man being naked and in motions that can and will wake up your sexual senses, at least I can't, maybe when I am dead.
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calmnude
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Posted - 03/22/2004 : 9:38:07 PM
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it does. we are all human and react to beauty in the human form, we just have to have good manners.
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papabare
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Posted - 03/23/2004 : 9:06:37 PM
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'Please excuse me miss, I do hate to bother you, but if it wouldnt be too much of a bother, may I have an erection over there?'
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Kimberly
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Posted - 03/24/2004 : 05:23:02 AM
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Welcome to the forum vic. Nudity can have an arousing effect on you. You just have to follow the proper etiquette.
Kim =^.^=
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Vic
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Posted - 03/24/2004 : 3:12:48 PM
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Well, my erection was acceptable to me and there were no objections from the rolling party, I didn't share (other then in my thoughts, we are still allowed to have thoughts and they are legal as long as we don't act upon the urge).
I know, a guy is not supposed to indulge in what we perceive as wrong (place, time or both), but see, that is what makes it difficult, once started we don't want to think about dead rat, work, mother in law and such.
I don't like to ask pretty girls to go away, not move, stop breading, run without bouncing or .... or ....... do you?
Only thing a guy can really manage in that regard is to balance his act so as to not be the focus of attention.
Alternatives such as getting up and walking to the showers are just not practical, camouflage is not convincing, your choices are few and it's time to think about the dead rat or your mother in law.
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Vic
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Posted - 03/24/2004 : 3:37:33 PM
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Now, I forgot to mention, I didn't really intend to argue the subject until we are all in agreement on all issues expressed, implied, imagined, perverted, accepted, tested, rejected, projected or in any way protested ............ just wanted to say ....... "Hi folks, I am one of your kind since early childhood".
We don't need book of rules on how to get nude, what to do once we are nude or explain it to those who prefer to be nude behind their underwear. We don't need to go around in herds just to feel strength in numbers.
If all the people who would really like to be nude on beaches across the world and in all other situations would simply do it, the real freaks would be so outnumbered that they would run home to their mama and ask to be held a little more.
Beware of well-suited people, they got things to hide and I don't mean their booty.
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Kimberly
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Posted - 03/26/2004 : 05:23:25 AM
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Vic in my experience there is always one in the crowd that has has to do something to up set the apple cart.
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chic
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Posted - 03/26/2004 : 4:44:34 PM
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Welcome to the forum Vic.
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greg_ldssdc047
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Posted - 03/28/2004 : 7:08:55 PM
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Well, it's an interesting thread.
I'll throw in my 2 cents...
I never get erections, unless I'm thinking about sex, or looking at women in a sexual way, or am being physically stimulated.
Therefor, if I get an erection at a nudist venue, I'm violating nudist principles.
To me, then, hearing men whine about how they ought to be able to have an erection and not do anything to cover up "because it's natural" are blowing in the wind. I'm not saying that some men don't get erections without thinking sexual thoughts or being physically stimulated, but given how many women feel threatened by it, the gentleman in me says, "Roll over, sit down, hold your towel at waist level..."
There are two good reasons to follow the "cover up" ettiquette:
1. Some people feel threatened by it (whether they OUGHT to feel that way is irrelevant to me).
2. It'll drive away people who are investigating nudism, especially the women and children.
Those two reasons alone are enough to have me reaching for my towel.
Casual disregard for the feelings of women is a sign of a boor, cad, knave (whatever you want to call them)... not a gentleman.
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nudeguy
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Posted - 03/28/2004 : 7:31:46 PM
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Originally posted by Vic
Alternatives such as getting up and walking to the showers are just not practical, camouflage is not convincing, your choices are few and it's time to think about the dead rat or your mother in law.
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Vic
Vic, you are too much. A dead rat!  Welcome to the forum. I do love reading expressions of people from various countries, they often provide a novel way of looking at situations. 
By the way, my girlfriend is going to become a mother-in-law probably this year, although she is very attractive and looks years younger than her age. When her kids were in high school, a number of their male classmates used to tell them what a "hot" mom she was. Assuming her daughter's fiance ever needs to think about something or someone to calm an erection, he better not think about his mom-in-law. That would have the opposite effect! 
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Kimberly
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Posted - 03/29/2004 : 03:55:39 AM
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Nudeguy I understand your predicament. Think about how much taxes you pay instead!
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